Teempakguy:
actually, that doesn't mean she didn't love you.

love and faithfulness are two different things.

you might be Right but.......

Forget it you won't Understand

Slimzjoe:


you might be Right but.......

Forget it you won't Understand

Teempakguy:
let me guess.

it's complicated.

Slimzjoe:


I swear! I mean, she did all these things Op Listed and more but......

Mehn.....forget matter

sage2:


Trust me, she loved you. But she enjoyed shagging your buddies more.

Teempakguy:
wait, are you serious?

i thought you were joking oh! so you've already had a cheating girlfriend at this young age?
i feel your pain, bruh.

Lol...the Few years I've Lived on Earth, I've experienced Tons of things I never Imagined...

And she was not my Girlfriend

Slimzjoe:



Lol...the Few years I've Lived on Earth, I've experienced Tons of things I never Imagined...

And she was not my Girlfriend

emusmith:
7 Areas A Girl Who Truly Love You Looks At

Maybe not in the pecking order but I strongly believe (taking a cue from stories of several successful and happy married women), these points are really 7 Areas A Lady Who Truly Sees You As A Prospective Hubby And Loves You Looks At.



1. Your Dreams and Goals

She will ask you severally for your dreams and goals: short term or long term before she begins to ask for other infinitesimal things. Your goal in life means more to her. Yes.


2. Your Role In Her Life And Career

Speaking of her asking you for your dreams and passions, she actually wants to know your role in her life. She wants to be sure you will be there for her as she will do vice versa.


3. Your Spiritual Leadership Or Control.

Trust me, if she loves you, she would ask from flats to grants cutting across your religion to your personal belief of "God". Ladies needs security, spiritual security inclusive.


4. Your Mental State

If she loves him, she would not turn a blind eye to his mental capacity. She will try to influence him for good. Love seeks change.


5. Your Past life

Love isn't stupidity. She loves so seeks to hear of your exes and past relationships. If she doesn't ask or bother to, hmm...



6. Your Financial worth and Target

Yes, this is crucial too. You both love each other and so it's her obligation to ask how much you take home monthly. That would help her plan and make her choices, wisely. Money is vital too.


7. Your Family
This is very pivotal. She would want to see your family: siblings or even parents. If she has no interest in seeing them but just you alone, don't feel special, it's not a good sign. Selah.


The point of this thread is, if that Lady really loves, these Seven Points are the first she'll consider before thinking of other 'trivial' issues.

Teempakguy:
remember when i said you were more of an old soul?

guess i'm right.

anyway, don't mind her at all.

hahaa....they're Some People you can't help but Mind cos they'll never Leave your Nose

And Stop Hating Haircuts!

Kachisbarbie:

^^^homeboyz won't agree with the above at allllll...

Xiadnat:
emusmith:


This is a pretty good write up. Kewl.

Don't forgot, pervasive set of characteristics one should look and seek after in a mate.

Only if dating and courting operates that way, it would eliminate quarter of reasons why relationships turn sour and divorce ensues.

Still, it behooves people to court and date cautiously and shrwedly, because some people are quite good at putting up a show; and you only know the real deal once you say "I do".

aminatawa:

All dem boys gat no trust for we girls... lol

Lol,,same is the case in reverse.

emusmith:
Well, that's a point sha
So. When do you tell her the exact digits?

When i'm going to the grave.

naijaboiy:

When i'm going to the grave.

Teempakguy:
damn. this just cracked me up.

naijaboiy:

When i'm going to the grave.

emusmith:


Hahaha, oh boy!

Your point make sense sha o

naijaboiy:

Oga na the way o!

Being married doesn't mean that one should be foolish.

OZAOEKPE:
"your money". Quote me anywhere

naijaboiy:

I don't think that is necessary.

If you earn big let her just know you earn big,but not the exact amount you earn.

Because if she knows na wahala o!

Kachisbarbie:


^^^homeboyz won't agree with the above at allllll...

xerxes456:

Na lie except u get skeletons, my wife knows every n by Gods grace idey. Enjoy her...

Well I guess it doesn't work for everybody then.

By the time you are broke and you tell your wife,but yet she thinks you are just being stingy because she knows how much you earn and she starts to suspect that you have either spent it carelessly or you are hiding it then you'll know.

It's better you keep such informations off her chest. It doesn't mean you are hiding anything.