I'm trying to figure out my relationship with a quiet guy right now. The only problem is that I have no idea what they want because talking to them about feelings, relationships and plans is often like pulling teeth. Overall, I like the quiet guy more because when they finally open up they produce great thoughts and conversation.

I also feel that I get along better with quiet men because I am outgoing and very intuitive. What I’m learning is that a lot of quiet guys don't fit the "soft" stereotype that is put on them.

I'm into quieter guys

Pittbaby:

Neither, I like confident men , the ones who are are secure enough not to have to make unneccesary noise to attract attention , and bold enough to speak up when it is warranted.

Pittbaby:

Neither, I like confident men , the ones who are are secure enough not to have to make unneccesary noise to attract attention , and bold enough to speak up when it is warranted.

~Sissy~:

i prefer the moderate ones, not too loud, not too quiet

St☆rStruck:

I'm infatuated the loud ones. Nothing turns me on more than a man who tells the whole world our secrets.

Treetop20:

your sarcasm is so glaring

Pittbaby:

davilan, or whatever you call yourself , this is a thread that asks for opinions and i dropped my opinion , i did not comment on yours or attack you ,

And you are the one that does not understand , If you have the power of cognitive reasoning , you will understand that what I have simply said is that I will not date a man who is loud for simply being loud ( that shows a look at me attitude). He is not confident enough that people will respect him for who he is without calling attention to it . Neither will I want a wallflower,

Please go and find someone else to harass

SeXYhOTmOM:

not too quiet and not 2 loud

i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet
they bore me quickly
u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talk

Loud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys
God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man

SeXYhOTmOM:

i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet
they bore me quickly
u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talk

Loud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys
God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man

~Sauron~:

The quiet ones seem to be the intelligent ones in most cases.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.

davidylan:

gbam! But i'm not sure girls are really interested in intelligent dudes . . . its all about looks and finance these days.

SeXYhOTmOM:

not too quiet and not 2 loud

i just cant stand guys dat are 2 quiet
they bore me quickly
u go out on dates and u have so many awkward moments waiting 4 who wld be d next to talk

Loud guys are even worse especially d money miss road illiterate kinda guys
God help u if u go out on a date with that kind of man

tope2000:

Oh pls. . . . quiet dudes bore me to death
Its not only quiet guys that are intelligent

davidylan:

Have you considered you may be the boring one? Making intelligent conversation is a two-way street not the role of your guy alone.

tope2000:

Oh pls. . . . quiet dudes bore me to death

Its not only quiet guys that are intelligent

davidylan:

gbam! But i'm not sure girls are really interested in intelligent dudes . . . its all about looks and finance these days.

~Sauron~:

The quiet ones seem to be the intelligent ones in most cases.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.


Loud-mouthed ones are irritants.

tope2000:

Lol . . . . u think i want to have a conversation abt his boss at work n the new project he id doing on a date?
if we are in serious relationship then yeah . . . but on a date keep ur project ideas to urself biko

Quiet guys can be BORING . . . . Period

SeXYhOTmOM:

Davo i beg to disagree
not all Chic's are interested in just looks and finance
i prefer to be with a guy who is very intelligent although intelligence and finance go togeda sha [size=3pt]like u[/size] than with a rich illiterate