EggovinMma:

was never maltreated by any housemaid, aunties or relatives. One of my auntie wanted to show herself that year but I put her back on track sharply. They can't even try bullshiite, was way too stubborn and troublesome to be tamed
I don't mind setting her full box of clothes on fire if she dares! Adighi m ashi. Wasn't really a "stable " child when I was younger, so everybody gats to calm the fuccck down and recite the rosaries for my sake.

nicerichard05:


Then we were still small, less dan 15yrss old, and they were very matured o as in matured

EggovinMma:



Lol.
I'm not even up to 8 when my mom dey carry me go one evangelical mission or the other for "deliverance" .So you can imagine who they will blame if i set a full
l box of clothes on fire.Its either "mmuo nmiri","agbanje" takes the full blame.So I hardly I have grudges with anybody, them dey give me chance.
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bomasek:
I don't even come 4rm a large family,so no one gonna spend time with me and my family.



Neither will I send my kids to spend time with no one by God's grace.

nicerichard05:



Heheheh, ur own sstrong o. Buh then sha if we try such, then be ready to be flogged cos my popsi nor dey tak nonsense, he believes adults are always write. Lol

nicerichard05:


That's gud, buh u hav to understand that it's not about spending time with others, even. In their own father's house they can be maltreated.

EggovinMma:

was never maltreated by any housemaid, aunties or relatives. One of my auntie wanted to show herself that year but I put her back on track sharply. They can't even try bullshiite, was way too stubborn and troublesome to be tamed
I don't mind setting her full box of clothes on fire if she dares! Adighi m ashi. Wasn't really a "stable " child when I was younger, so everybody gats to calm the fuccck down and recite the rosaries for my sake.

exactly o!

Them go just dey maltreat all these calm kids anyhow. My Stubbornness no go let them try that one with me. I dey speak up when anything wey I nor like happen.

Even when my aunt that I only went to spend a short holiday at her house because of exam wanted to start trying to do some funny things with me,I no waste time,i carry myself come my papa house with my own money.

no time for all these yeye wicked relatives.

EggovinMma:


Your dad is as tough as mine?
My dad was even worse . Someone we feared till our university days.My dad no dey use cane, na three mouth koboko. If he flog you from front e go land for your back!
Sometimes na blow and slap, see upon all the gragra, e born pikin wey stubborn like am.If he beat me the one wey I no fit bear, I run comot from house.

Even as child, I can know rights! I have this notion at that age about what I'm even living for sef, I don tire for life'' and this thought makes me do very life threatening stunts like playing with naked wires or plunged boiling rings.It was quite disturbing, so if you like flog me, I must do my own back.I can revenge m weda your my parents or not, I must do my own back ooo!

EggovinMma:


Your dad is as tough as mine?
My dad was even worse . Someone we feared till our university days.My dad no dey use cane, na three mouth koboko. If he flog you from front e go land for your back!
Sometimes na blow and slap, see upon all the gragra, e born pikin wey stubborn like am.If he beat me the one wey I no fit bear, I run comot from house.

Even as child, I can know rights! I have this notion at that age about what I'm even living for sef, I don tire for life'' and this thought makes me do very life threatening stunts like playing with naked wires or plunged boiling rings.It was quite disturbing, so if you like flog me, I must do my own back.I can revenge m weda your my parents or not, I must do my own back ooo!

naijaboiy:

exactly o!

Them go just dey maltreat all these calm kids anyhow. My Stubbornness no go let them try that one with me. I dey speak up when anything wey I nor like happen.

Even when my aunt that I only went to spend a short holiday at her house because of exam wanted to start trying to do some funny things with me,I no waste time,i carry myself come my papa house with my own money.

no time for all these yeye wicked relatives.

EggovinMma:

was never maltreated by any housemaid, aunties or relatives. One of my auntie wanted to show herself that year but I put her back on track sharply. They can't even try bullshiite, was way too stubborn and troublesome to be tamed
I don't mind setting her full box of clothes on fire if she dares! Adighi m ashi. Wasn't really a "stable " child when I was younger, so everybody gats to calm the fuccck down and recite the rosaries for my sake.

blessedfavoured:
Lol you have to be really gentle to allow anyone maltreat you in your father's house.

I remember when I was like 13 and my mum traveled for a course, so she was away for two years. My dad's cousin (female) came to stay with us.

Everytime my mum sends clothes, she'll hide some and bring out a few. The first time she hid part of my first bra , I let it go. (She has a sister that's my age)

The second time she tried that, my sister and I went to where she hid the clothes and accessories and wore part of the clothes, she came back and noticed us wearing the clothes she hid. And she goes "who told you to take the clothes bla bla, and I replied her, I saw my name and my sister's name on it so we know it was ours, we thought you forgot to give it to us" the look on her face was priceless.

So many other things she tried, but we didn't even let her start before we stopped her. She left herself.

My dad's nephew too that came that time, everytime I go into the bathroom, and I come back into my room, he would have balanced on my bed. And I'm like thinking, dude can't you tell I need to dress up. I'll just take my clothes and dress up in the bathroom, the third time it happened, I just screamed at him, didn't care that he was way older, told him to get his stinking perverted self out of my room and give me my privacy. Of course I started to get rude to him even in the presence of my dad, and he could never scold me even when dad is telling me off for being rude.

Maybe if I wasn't as brave, I'd have been abused by my older cousin.

EggovinMma:

was never maltreated by any housemaid, aunties or relatives. One of my auntie wanted to show herself that year but I put her back on track sharply. They can't even try bullshiite, was way too stubborn and troublesome to be tamed
I don't mind setting her full box of clothes on fire if she dares! Adighi m ashi. Wasn't really a "stable " child when I was younger, so everybody gats to calm the fuccck down and recite the rosaries for my sake.

LewsTherin:
My folks took care of and trained so many of our relatives. There was a time we were 22 living in a 4 bedroom duplex even though my parents had just 4 of us. Uncles, aunts, cousins, helps... I mean it could be mad house there.

With so many people to take care of in the depth of Babangida's SAP, it was little wonder my folks spent most of their lives hustling to provide for us all. Ergo, I have precious little personal relations with my parents. It's almost business like now.

So what's the situation today? I live with my Lady and kid ONLY. No help, no family. My hospitality expires in 2 weeks max and that's for my mother in-law only. Everyone else has 3 days to move. I'm not gonna put my kid thru the same kinda situation I grew up in. Neither am I going to let anyone use their makossa to spoil my husband - and- wife blues

bukatyne:


Why do I think the bolded is the major reason

LewsTherin:


Can there be a nobler reason?

nicerichard05:

Seriously we were calm and the fear of our father was the beginning of wisdom. Lolz cos even if u report, e wil stil flog u for talking back at your senior. Lolz
Buh thank God its all over now and sometimes we use to mak joke with him like "where all dose pipo wen u pay sch fees for now" shey na we be ur paddy nw, if headache hold u, u don call us, cos he is quiet old now. Lolz

EggovinMma:

Your dad is as tough as mine?
My dad was even worse . Someone we feared till our university days.My dad no dey use cane, na three mouth koboko. If he flog you from front e go land for your back!
Sometimes na blow and slap, see upon all the gragra, e born pikin wey stubborn like am.If he beat me the one wey I no fit bear, I run comot from house.
Even as child, I can know rights! I have this notion at that age about what I'm even living for sef, I don tire for life'' and this thought makes me do very life threatening stunts like playing with naked wires or plunged boiling rings.It was quite disturbing, so if you like flog me, I must do my own back.I can revenge m weda your my parents or not, I must do my own back ooo!