marshalcarter:
Never forget 3 types of friend in life


1-those who were with you in hard times

2-those who put you in hard times

3-those who left you in hard times

kweku8888:
My own eyes have seen a lot, friends that when u see them in church or gathering they wld be forming phone call,its when they see u,that they wld know the phone is ringing and excuse themselves to receive phone call for hrs. God help us.

zaza999:
Our company folded up and was closed down without payment of some months salary, let alone paying off. Since then it's not been easy financially and otherwise while seriously looking for job.

The one that surpises me is some friends' attitude since i am jobless.These are people when we were doing well in our office, we mingled together etc, but since the jobless saga started, many of them started disssociating themselves.They wont visit you as usual, they can't even give you a call, most time when you call them, they won't even pick your calls after seeing many missed calls from you on their phone but that wasn't the case when things were okay.

Telling them about helping you in search of jobs seems like a disturbance, many of them you will forward your cv to, will simply ignore making efforts while claiming as if they are doing anything on it. You will be seeing yourself as an abandoned fellow.The story is endless.

I begin to ask, are these as a result of wrong friends or normal thing. Advise or share your experience.

marshalcarter:
Never forger 3 types of friend in life


1-those who were with you in hard times

2-those who put you in hard times

3-those who left you in hard times

iyzeek:
life

marshalcarter:

I hope u can read 1..2..3 very well

yomi007k:
That's life Op.

During my sch days, I was into business but d global meltdown messed things up n I became broke. Even broker dan my gateman n dis lasted a long while.

ALL FRIENDS DESERTED ME.

It was then I learnt the true nature of human beings.
Alas, it was family support dat saved me till I cud get back on my feet.

Today, I invest in my family first n some ppl who I know have a pure heart.

......Don't worry, it's just a learning phase.

4C2215131:

4. Those you put in hard times.

IndianaJay:
I remember when I lost my job, broke up with my then fiancé was depressed.

I used to spend a lot of time with a neighbour lady, she seemed quite nice till I realized that I had to get away from her.

I didn't feel like she meant me well, she was unemployed, 2 children, runaway hubby, depressed too and wanted me to stay in the same situation she was.

She would encourage me to hang with men rather than go out and look for a job, or a legit means of livelihood.

When I left my old neighbourhood and moved to Abuja, things were really bad for me, anytime she called and I relayed my frustrations about life to her, I noticed she seemed more comfortable with the idea of me having a hard life in Abuja, this eventually was what motivated me to be better.

I did get better, got a good job, got a better man....everything worked out, now she doesn't call me as much, as there's too much joy and satisfaction in my life.

Sometimes some friends want you to stay jobless and unfocused just to feel better about themselves.

zaza999:
Our company folded up and was closed down without payment of some months salary, let alone paying off. Since then it's not been easy financially and otherwise while seriously looking for job.

The one that surpises me is some friends' attitude since i am jobless.These are people when we were doing well in our office, we mingled together etc, but since the jobless saga started, many of them started disssociating themselves.They wont visit you as usual, they can't even give you a call, most time when you call them, they won't even pick your calls after seeing many missed calls from you on their phone but that wasn't the case when things were okay.

Telling them about helping you in search of jobs seems like a disturbance, many of them you will forward your cv to, will simply ignore making efforts while claiming as if they are doing anything on it. You will be seeing yourself as an abandoned fellow.The story is endless.

I begin to ask, are these as a result of wrong friends or normal thing. Advise or share your experience.