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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Nobody: 11:51pm On Oct 27, 2015
This lady is sick. Abeg, make una hold am
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by kobonaire(m): 11:53pm On Oct 27, 2015
ayusco85:
e dey lag, and even some states for east
Maybe you are thinking of Ashawöo joint??
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Nobody: 11:55pm On Oct 27, 2015
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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by SleekyPosh(m): 11:56pm On Oct 27, 2015
chrisbaba1:
Honestly im begining to think marriage is a very stupid decision, the women who desire it most are the ones who can never be satisfied.... if ur too nice to her she would get bored, if ur a player all men are evil.....


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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by noblegrex: 11:58pm On Oct 27, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/

why can't you tell your husband even as you claim you love him,is that love?let him be the solution seeker instead of you looking for an alternative cos the way you got tired of him,is same way you'll still get tired of any other man.so just be contentent or be ready for promiscusity by jumping from one dick to d other. I'll advice you tell him,probably he may have another flavour to add to taste.shikena
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by GamaG(m): 12:08am On Oct 28, 2015
gamaliel121:
Nothing we say here will change what will happen..
You will surly be fuccked by another coccckk...
So do it and leave us alone...
y u come dey answer my name nau?
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Onyenze2015: 12:17am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/

just send ur number let me knack u 1 better round. Ur body go tell u........
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Baboo13(m): 12:18am On Oct 28, 2015
JerryNwamama:
Tryin having sex on the table,...it's like goin back to the drawing board grin




LMAO
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Nyceguy92: 12:18am On Oct 28, 2015
[quote author=iliyande post=39426214]

You were scanty on your information.

What has changed after you got married to him?

Is it that his approach and style have changed or you have developed thick skin and become insensitive to his efforts?

It could be that the baby has occupied much of your attention that you hardly notice when he is doing his best.
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Niyonice(m): 12:22am On Oct 28, 2015
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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by vikthorelvis(m): 12:35am On Oct 28, 2015
[i][/i][color=#000099][/tcolor] trying a whole new concept ain't gonna be a bad option or better still try visit a councillor for some professional advice. cheating ain't gonna be a good idea
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Nobody: 12:55am On Oct 28, 2015
Diaris something called Love Machine one trial can satisfy your hungry kini
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Nobody: 12:56am On Oct 28, 2015
GogobiriLalas:
Diaris something called di.l.dor one trial can satisfy your hungry kini
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Maximus85(m): 1:07am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/


You lived together for a few years. How many years? That is where the problem lies.

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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by naijaboiy: 1:36am On Oct 28, 2015
ststyreal:

Huh! C advice. A won oni seku se.
Madam drop your own advise na! undecided

Why my own dey disturb you for neck? undecided
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by gamaliel121(m): 3:36am On Oct 28, 2015
GamaG:
y u come dey answer my name nau?
Bros nor vex..lol Me sef think say na only me the handle that name..so we be 2... Make sense
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by joyceok: 4:10am On Oct 28, 2015
6fit:


sex bcome uninteresting with your sex mate when yu find another sex mate to make comparism

Your response is from your experience and the 85 persons that liked your response have had sex with more than one partner....God help Nigerians
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by marlockj: 4:58am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/


U wnt to cheat u idiiot Den go n cheat.

It does Nt turn u on u b radio?there nothing Lik turn on or off,Xcept ur sensitive part is Nt wrking.

Mumu woman,wen evri woman knows Wat Mke dem in d mood u Whr busy Dat yr wit lesbianism, see ur lif.

Better open ur legs n tell him to use mouth 1st n game later,stop acting Lik an idiiot.
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by lebesgue(m): 5:16am On Oct 28, 2015
Ray360:

the emboldened is the genesis of the problem, you two had started living together even before getting married, You must have slept with each other zillion times, What's there to excite you again in marriage? when your petals had already been battered, no flavour again to spark excitement

Assume they had no premarital sex, wouldn't the same boredom set in after they have slept with each other a million times during the first two years of their marriage?

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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by ideykwum: 5:42am On Oct 28, 2015
Nice!


PunkyVeer:
Maybe try do it in exciting places just to spice things up. The higher the risk of getting caught, the better wink

Sex to me is a mental thing. Maybe you should try adopt a more enthusiastic approach/mindset to it. Hell, close your eyes & pretend he is Usher if that'll get your rocks off. Use your imagination. I believe people get bored because they want to be bored. With enough creativity in your head, it'll be like banging a new guy every night grin
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by utdmulato(m): 5:45am On Oct 28, 2015
niggi4life:
[b]some people might come here and say they don't believe the story, meanwhile this stuffs happen everyday by day.... We tend to see the male folks as being the cheat, the irresponsible being but deep down the female folks dont only cheat on us emotionally, they do physically.

Now from this story this female is obviously not in love with her spouse anymore and any little chance she gets she will screw the next available guy.
No wonder they ask questions like, should you give your spouse your monthly salary,because they are so unsure of what they have put themselves through...
Guys na beg i dey beg una, make una try make money before una marry ooooo....dont ever settle for less,make better money, go for the best, if na girl with good character u want, go get it(when u get money) if na girl with boobi u want go get it... But, there is a clause, marry your best friend, aa girl who will make u happy, a girl who will make you laugh out loud, i do believe in love but i seriously believe in compatibility... When u are with the right woman who is matured such stories like the OP stories won't ever come up[/b]
totful write up
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Tunagee(m): 5:49am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/


u want yp cheat on ur husband. u must be a fool o!after marriage? u are not even ashamed to say it openly. did u not know before u got married to him?ashawo oshi
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Nobody: 6:05am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/


Stop watching mojo, or just close eyes and get some party your husband inclusive
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by obisunny1(m): 6:15am On Oct 28, 2015
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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by FOREXMART(m): 6:24am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/


yeah there's something you can do Bishh. Go FAUCKKK yourself if you won't go see a therapist with him. A hoe will always be a hoe even if she marries Prince charming. IMAGINE "I have told myself, if the chance arose I may just go for it", excuse me? FAUCKKK YOUUUUUUU BISHHHHHHHH.
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by Dalby(m): 6:44am On Oct 28, 2015
Has it ever crossed your mind that your husband might be feeling the same way about you?
Drawing from a similar story l would guess you have slept with someone else already and you are just trying to seek public validation so you don't beat yourself too hard!!!
I am sure your husband has not yet found out and all l can advise you is to put your marriage and the few minutes of ecstatic pleasure if its worth it.
You admitted that it used to be great with your husband. So you start off with the new hump and few months down the road it is no longer fun then
If you cannot think correctly for yourself then think of your son. A word is enough for the wise and believe me you do not want to see the ugly side of your marriage when you have been caught in adultery.
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by reuben79: 6:48am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheating on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/

go for delivrance,its devil work,don't allow devil to seperate ur happy home ok.go for prayer
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by jesussaves22: 6:56am On Oct 28, 2015
iliyande:
I’m married to my childhood sweetheart. We lived together for a few years then got married three years ago. He’s a lovely and responsible man and I’m lucky to have him. We have a great relationship, apart from the physical side. His love-making no longer turns me on as it used to.

I’ve never considered cheatingq on him though lately, I’ve told myself that if the chance arose, I might just go for it. I love my husband very much and we have a cute one-year-old son. He’s very extroverted and I’m sure he’ll be terribly hurt if this marriage breaks so would I. Is there any way out of this.

Bunmi column

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/love-making-with-my-husband-no-longer-turns-me-on/

You have been cheating him since you were dating. What you are doing now is to get information on how to justify your stupid actions. You are naturally a LovePeddler. If I were your husband I will put juju on your pussy so that men will be die why fucuuking you.... Idioioty

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Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by lexy2920(m): 6:59am On Oct 28, 2015
Babe my advice is that u should accept ur faith like that because once u taste another man, u will be lost with fantasy later I will come back to ur real husband, bt what will u meet when u comeback? So think of another way to make him turn u on, it's not compulsory to be sex
Re: ‘love-making With My Husband No Longer Turns Me On’ by jesussaves22: 6:59am On Oct 28, 2015
reuben79:
go for delivrance,its devil work,don't allow devil to seperate ur happy home ok.go for prayer
Which devil? She is the devil herself so let's kill her with fire...

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