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Ask google

Your husband's ex has a spare key to your matrimonial home?

^^^^^
°the man no get liver at all!
See guilty conscience in action

Tell him in peace that you don't buy the idea of sharing your spare key with a stranger and if he seems not cooperating, approach the gal and collect your key from her

pet4ril:
Tell him in peace that you don't buy the idea of sharing your spare key with a stranger and if he seems not cooperating, approach the gal and collect your key from her

Wait o


You believe that story

fatheritunu:
Ask google

Are you serious

pet4ril:
Are you serious

yes dear.....

Hmmmmmmmm

So is the button still there? Are you still cleaning? Or did you suspend everything to ask Nairaland?

WTF.......

Do you mean your husband's EX has a spare key to your house?


This must be a joke of the 21st century.


Madam, go and take back your (HOUSE) ASAP

Kul story ma'm

5minsmadness:

Wait o


You believe that story

I surprise oooo

]Tell him in peace that you don't buy the idea of sharing your spare key with a stranger and if he seems not cooperating, approach the gal and collect your key from her

tanx so much I reli appreciate, if dis is d only reasonable advice I get then I'm ok, just needed to pour it all out before I do something stupid, I know d story seem absurd cos I don't understand how he could do a tin like dat and to think dat he feels justified because he was helping a friend, maybe because I let bygone be bygone and act friendly around her, wen we hear of domestic violence we wonder how it comes abt this is hw it start, I'm glad I'm calm now and I hope God help me do d right thing. He is on NL and I hope he sees it.

#Modified for the sake of Peace

sexybrown004:
]Tell him in peace that you don't buy the idea of sharing your spare key with a stranger and if he seems not cooperating, approach the gal and collect your key from her

tanx so much I reli appreciate, if dis is d only reasonable advice I get then I'm ok, just needed to pour it all out before I do something stupid, I know d story seem absurd cos I don't understand how he could do a tin like dat and to think dat he feels justified because he was helping a friend, maybe because I let bygone be bygone and act friendly around her, wen we hear of domestic violence we wonder how it comes abt this is hw it start, I'm glad I'm calm now and I hope God help me do d right thing. He is on NL and I hope he sees it.

You act friendly towards the girl your hubby has an affair with. . My dear sometimes you have to blow your top and this is 1 9f those circumstances. Stop all friendliness with this girl and tell him to go and collect the keys from her immediately!

bukatyne:
Hmmmmmmmm

So is the button still there? Are you still cleaning? Or did you suspend everything to ask Nairaland?

All of the above

No ex of your spouse is your friend, rule of thumbs. Chop of this cancer before it chops you off.

Orisirisi

This is a serious orisirisi

Really? Did I just read this?

Time to change your locks

sexymoma:
[b]There are some things you don't write on socio media
something like this..for crying out loud we have our own personnal issh to deal with
where is your initiative
]

Hello, it's an anonymous forum where our identities are protected I don't see why she can't vent her frustrations here. It's not like you and I know her personally off line abi you know her before?

Besides did you read her subsequent post where she said she feels calmer and better composed (now) after her rant on NL.

From what I grasped she's not feeling so voilent & murderous towards her husband as she was initially.

NL just helped her in some way so abeg free her!

sexybrown004:
Don't even know where to start from, pls I need u guys to tell me if I'm overreacting, just graduated from skool and came back to my matrimonial home, as I was cleaning d house I saw a piece of button on d windowsill wanted to dispose of it but decided to ask my husband if he still had any use for it only for him to tell me he didn't know how it got there in d first place, I was like u can't tell me u don't know how it got there cos u were d only one in d house only for him to tell me dat d gal he dated some time last year wen we were goin tru some rough times dat works in d same office wit him has a spare key to our apartment, dat she comes to d house to make use of d toilet wen she is pressed because it close to d office, right now I'm going haywire and I don't know wat to do. How do I go abt it family.

He shud collect back the keys and give dem to u. Tel him to look at it the other way round, imagine u gave an ex boyfriend the spare keys to the house, would he be comfortable with such an arrangement. Dat ex can even have u killed in urr sleep out of jelousy or spite so it's not even safe. If he refuses or tries to justify it, don't make trouble, report him to his parents

.

D's is fake.

Why didnt he just say it was his button

It's your fault.

You are friends with your HUSBAND' s ex...

Her office is close to your house...
Hubby gave her key to use toilet

in his defence he felt you wouldn't mind afterall he's helping your FRIEND.

Let him know now that you are no longer friends with his ex and he should get that key Asap or he might not like the way you go about getting it yourself from the ex.

haba!

Befriending eX...smh

Some women will never know boundaries Or maybe they do but just want to be naughty.

How dare your husband give a spare key to another woman(dont want to know if she's an ex) and not inform you.

You also said he dated her when you guys had issues! That's where the problem lies

Your husband doesn't RESPECT you madam.

Go and take charge of your home and stop been a pussy!

i modified my original comment because the example referred to, wasnt an ex.

i think the op conjured an imaginary scenario, she's trying to say the husband still has a thing for the ex, and the button/key story is her symbolic way of presenting the situation.

otherwise, the story does not make sense, people are just contributing based on what they think she is saying, not what she's actually saying.


what is nl's obsession with exes, it's annoying.

Change all the keys to your house. Period!

Over reacting?
I don't think you even reacted enough.