crackhaus:

Lmao... Coincidentally, we both submitted at exactly the same time, 8:48pm.

It's no longer a question of who stole the other's point, but that of who thought of it first...and seeing as my post is a little longer than yours, I probably started typing before you did.

Thief!

cococandy:
The funny thing is if I typed this, flies will perch on me and start attacking like I'm lying
I guess I told the dude in question to say this. Or we planned it.

Let those that pretend like they don't know it's true continue.
But I know it won't stop others from saying the truth as they see it.

Chillisauce:



You see them blaming juju for wandering blokoses

As innnnnn...
She used juju on him.
Blokoses that has destined to wander will wander .

Chillisauce:


You carry butter rub for body, how flies no go perch on you

Mé na calaman lotion i rub for body o. Flies no dey reach my side again

edwife:


I thought women had the right to choose how they want to live their lives,no?

If she wants to beat up the mistress or kill both(husband and mistress) isn't it her right again?Abi the right is only when it's about fighting the man or spending time wailing over and over.

So she can stay in a shitty marriage waiting for the man to die so she can fvck any nincompoop but she can not beat anyone she deems fit to?

If she is fighting for right,then she should fight for everything that is hers!

Burntpalace:


And yet, here you were on one of the posted examples...

Chillisauce:


You don't have the right to beat up or kill any one whether married or not.

Let the law handle it.
You choose to stay in sh1t marriage. I see no problem in that but you don't have any right to kill the man nor his mistress.

Mindfulness:


Why should they be humble?

edwife:


Thank you for this answer....i will remember this.

Anyone can choose to kill if they want to,it is just against the law and not their will.

Chillisauce:


Hian. Wetin you dey remember here
I thought we were talking about how Nigerian women are suffering and how blokoses are wandering .

This one you dey talk about killing.
Wrong no

edwife:


Hehehe na you know

I have no business with wandering blokos,not even as a young single lady.

How far?

thorpido:
The best of people are never proud people.

Kimoni:


plagiarism You'll hear from my lawyers

But seriously, women need to be more assertive, live the talk and whine less...

A lady who came to rant on twitter was trending some weeks back. A guy hit her ride and they both got down from their cars to assess the damage and during their talk, the guy told her he couldn't discuss with her but he would rather speak with her husband since women know nothing about cars. She said she was dumbfounded and just stool still, unable to utter a word till they both drove away and the next thing she did was to come and rant online see me see gobe o

Instead of her to put her foot down with the guy, check the damage, display her knowledge of her ride or call her mechanic on the spot for help...or just do something, instead, she stood there like a zombie unable to utter a word thereby proving the silly guy right that women know nothing about cars. Na online she come dey rant dey look for e-supporters when she had the golden opportunity to make an impression and leave an unforgettable mark on the minds of everyone standing there. It's high time our lives reflect what we preach.

Infact, it was this lady I remembered when I typed what I wrote initially cuz this was about the same thing her e-supporters were saying on twitter.

crackhaus:



[size=18pt]What you women need is a little more self-esteem and confidence. Fvck what society says and go get what you want, society can only talk at the end of the day..it won't kill you.[/size]

Mindfulness:

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crackhaus:

Was that intended to buttress your point about pride?

If you can't draw the line between being proud and having a healthy level of self-esteem/confidence, then we really shouldn't take this any further.

Chillisauce:



You see them blaming juju for wandering blokoses

As innnnnn...
She used juju on him.
Blokoses that has destined to wander will wander .

Meanwhile where is burnt palace?
That user name sounds like burnt sacrifice
Ileobatojo this your burnt offering no follow o

damiso:
i just came back from naija and I think the hardest thing to be in Naija is Poor
Really I would rather be Linda Ikeji in banana island anytime anyday than one of the thousands of men selling gala in go slow.
When all the people online who say ' Linda go and marry ' log out I will still be in my mansion while they are putting on their 'I better pass my neighbour 'generator.
I agree it's hard to develop a thick skin , but one needs to learn to not seek self validation from the typical naija society. A lot of naija people have an opinion about everything so it's pointless just do you.God knows how many 'you are not acting like a married woman ' I heard .I never knew marriage makes one grow wings or automatically confers 'Madam' title I reject that 'madam' title with every fibre of my being.

crackhaus:

You're right...less whinning, more living.

The thing is that at the end of the day, the guy was right as she probably didn't know anything about cars except refilling the fuel tank and topping up the radiator with coolant...

What the guy said was a deliberate attempt to rile her up and may not have being intended as a sexist remark.
Even if it was sexist, it is also the truth that on average, most women know absolutely nothing about how their cars run.

damiso:
i just came back from naija and I think the hardest thing to be in Naija is Poor

Really I would rather be Linda Ikeji in banana island anytime anyday than one of the thousands of men selling gala in go slow.

When all the people online who say ' Linda go and marry ' log out I will still be in my mansion while they are putting on their 'I better pass my neighbour 'generator.

I agree it's hard to develop a thick skin , but one needs to learn to not seek self validation from the typical naija society. A lot of naija people have an opinion about everything so it's pointless just do you.God knows how many 'you are not acting like a married woman ' I heard .I never knew marriage makes one grow wings or automatically confers 'Madam' title I reject that 'madam' title with every fibre of my being.

Chillisauce:
Armed robbers/ boko haram will visit naija man house, he takes off leaving his wife and children behind

Tomorrow if the woman survives she will start looking for her husband .
Pls darling come back home. We miss u.

Twah

Stillfire:


Lollllll.



Damiso I hope you are dressing like this You must be Madam by force.

armyofone:
It is true. Just imagine having to cook all the time not to talk of other work heaped on you, because someone said it is a woman's responsibility...
The toughest place to be a woman is Nigeria/Africa.

Mindfulness:


I rather be the worst of people then.

Humble:

1. showing you do not think that you are as important as other people


Proud:

1. feeling pleased and satisfied about something that you own or have done, or are connected with


http://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/proud_1?q=proud


Anyone who chooses to be humble and not proud has a serious problem. No pity!

Kimoni:


Lol..

Truthfully, initially, I also didn't know anything about cars but I found out that everyone was taking advantage of me due to my ignorance. Between my driver and Elizade, I could swear they were changing the same parts everytime on that ride. I was nearly gong crazy wth their stories. Nobody taught me to get off my lazy butt and update my brain. But currently, I think I only have residual knowledge sha, my husband has since taken up that job function but e no mean say if somebody hit me badly, I no go fit talk or estimate the damage, except I just don't wish to.

thorpido:
Yes money makes many women proud.Can a woman have money,be independent and yet humble?

freecocoa:
Ha!Is this like a real question?

Mindfulness:


I rather be the worst of people then.

Humble:

1. showing you do not think that you are as important as other people


Proud:

1. feeling pleased and satisfied about something that you own or have done, or are connected with


http://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/proud_1?q=proud


Anyone who chooses to be humble and not proud has a serious problem. No pity!

Kachisbarbie:
It isn't easy at all


By God's grace, the only place I see such st*pid and medieval men in quantum is on NL. I ain't surrounded by them in reality...
My husband, father, brother and male friends are very-very different. There are days I hang my leg up like a barbie(that I am), while my Cuddle-boo does the work. ... he's a sweeeeet husband. No be juju at all, it's love and understanding.
#BlessHeavens.

crackhaus:

That bit got me laughing as I can totally relate to it...

During my adolescent years, it was my mother making such complaints as her husband my father was always away from home for long stretches due to work...consequently, I would be forced to drive & accompany the mechanic most times just to keep an eye on what he was actually changing or working on.

Now, it's a neighbour of mine complaining about the same thing...she would rather wait till her husband returns in 2/3 weeks so he can do the repairs himself if it isn't something that needs urgent attention.