kilode100:



Stay away from drugs Son.

sben2308:





Madam I am very sure u still a teenager and still very immature.Ask urself is it hustling the main thing now.We av men over hustling and still their wives are threatening to leave because most or some women want things to be sweet but not ready to pay the price.Wat I know is this he has the head show call his wife cuz wat makes a man the head of a house isn't money at all but how he carries his family along .He must take charge as the head and carry her along...

Just my view

OCTAVO:
Maybe she's not completely your wife.

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

kilode100:



Na wa!
The woman had that biz before he met her jawe. He was schooling, while she went for hairdressing and after freedom, her parents, sugardaddy, enieleni anybody might have set her up but not this Op.

Na wife he suppose marry now?..

kilode100:



Na wa!
The woman had that biz before he met her jawe. He was schooling, while she went for hairdressing and after freedom, her parents, sugardaddy, enieleni anybody might have set her up but not this Op.

Na wife he suppose marry now?..

kilode100:



Na wa!
The woman had that biz before he met her jawe. He was schooling, while she went for hairdressing and after freedom, her parents, sugardaddy, enieleni anybody might have set her up but not this Op.

Na wife he suppose marry now?..

kilode100:



Na wa!
The woman had that biz before he met her jawe. He was schooling, while she went for hairdressing and after freedom, her parents, sugardaddy, enieleni anybody might have set her up but not this Op.

Na wife he suppose marry now?..

crowns2:

Did you take your time to read and understand my post? Or you just feel like writing whatever. Was this woman not aware that the guy was not actually working when she accepted him fully in that condition? And even married him and left the city to live with him in his village? I beleve the woman loves him. Its not like he was rich before and he his broke now. no! My friend you are the one who is immature here. At my age and stage I have seen many many things in life. And I know what I am talking about.

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

kilode100:




My Love, and you just disappeared

I had one massive boil for that place and you were not reachable


Lagusssssta

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

sben2308:



I did read his story and I understand very well but wat I can c is that u ain't married and ur view if from a single person view.
Will wait for u to get married and then we will continue from where we paused.
Thanks

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

gentlesinna:
Jack ruby her ass out of ur life dude.
She is not a wife material.
Hope u dnt need me to tell u dat somebody is Bleep her outside.jst let her go,den focus on ur life.



There are billions of girls everywhere who are even prettier nd better dan her.

Oyind17:

woman! tell me you are joking, what happened to their marriage vows?




End time women!

pedrilo:
u too get mouth ohhh

thelish:

Na now Una dey remember marriage vows ooo. When Una dey cheat, marriage vows are not important oo.

crowns2:
Its a shame we can't hear her own part of the story. This woman married you straight out of NYSC when you had very little doing. She knew your financial status and married you like that. Which means she accepted you that way. OP, I believe that you are not telling the full story here. Personally, i hate a man who is stinginy but the size or quantity of money doesn't matter to me. But very important: I like a man who can hustle, I mean real hustle to bring something home without giving excuses
Some men are lazy and full of excuses.
Once they see the woman bringing in something and taking care of some responsibilities they just sit back and relax. The man could be sitting his increasing fat ass and waist line playing draft at home or borrowing from her to go drinking or to go out with his friends. Most times the mood of a jobless man is unbearable. Everything makes them angry and insulting. She may be reaching her limit already. Communication is key here though. Talk to her. And even if you got no job yet every morning go out as a man and look for something. When she sees you trying she will definitely understand

Abachaz:
she loves you not, so let her go! after all you are less than a man for not been able to use your brain to make money... monkey brain