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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by mccloud224(m): 11:59am On May 26, 2009 |
@Poster You're right.Husbands do get bored after a while (and so do women).I'm not married yet but i have been courting a girl for almost 3 years and i feel worn out sometimes BUT nonetheless, you have to look into yourself and know what you really want coz looking outside is most times, the wrong option.The couples have to do things to rejuvenate their relationship/rekindle the flame.If you've made a choice, its best to stick to it unless he/she gives you reasons to think otherwise e.g cheating. |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by pek(m): 12:58pm On May 26, 2009 |
how on earth did you come to this generalisation? |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by onyeben: 1:25pm On May 26, 2009 |
i was told that in a marriage the love only last for about 5 yrs, after that its all about understanding and tolerance , |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by nkemokoli: 5:50pm On May 26, 2009 |
guys, u better grow up mentally cos marriage is not easy. but we have to try and enjoy every bit of it. Cos no man is worth deing for even ur husband |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by na2day2(m): 11:01pm On May 26, 2009 |
maybe the wives got boring thinking they have their husband under lock and key |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by estherb: 8:07pm On May 27, 2009 |
i think the fault comes from both coples,may be if they try to add more spicy to thier marriage it will help,HOPE SAY UNA UNDERSTAND ME . |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by MrCrackles(m): 8:08pm On May 27, 2009 |
estherb: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by oyinda3(f): 8:10pm On May 27, 2009 |
because in their youth, they spent all their time going from one woman to the next or moving with multiple babes in some cases. So of course when they have to settle down with just one woman (wow. just one woman for the rest of one's life!!), they don't know how to deal with it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by ololomu(m): 8:14pm On May 27, 2009 |
i have a friend who toasted his wife best friend and chief bride's maid on thier wedding day. He even grab by the corner and squeez her breast on the same wedding day. Men's lust cannot be controlled marriage or no marriage. |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by na2day2(m): 8:28pm On May 27, 2009 |
oyinda.: how very convenient, blame it on the guys, the girls never do any thing wrong in their whole life |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by oyinda3(f): 8:49pm On May 27, 2009 |
na2day?: I was replying the topic o. didn't mean to offend you. you can create your own topic on wives ok? pele |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by na2day2(m): 8:56pm On May 27, 2009 |
oyinda.: u didnt offend me, i was only responding to ur logic nothing personal |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by oyinda3(f): 9:33pm On May 27, 2009 |
mtcheww. . . shio |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by emiemi(f): 10:01am On May 28, 2009 |
Boredom naturally set in from routine. Same way u get bored of a routine job and look forward to some task more interesting or just different, so also marriage will naturally become boring because you wake, eat, sleep and see the person every single day (except one of you travel). But does it mean we are condemned to this situation, no, we ought to find some interesting and different things to do together. Try some new sex positions, relive the courting days, go on dates (without the kidz), plan together, surprise each other every now and then. Men are kinda more laid back when it comes to these kind of activities, women strive to maintain their posture, good looks, hairdo. The men will just simply grow bigger around the middle and think to themselves 'what on earth am I doing been married? |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Ben13: 10:09am On May 28, 2009 |
Husbands are bored naturally. |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Princess2: 12:04pm On May 28, 2009 |
After wedding, most couples (especially the men) think it is the end of romantic outings and wooings, they tend to be too serious as husbands, wives or farthers and mothers to be. These kill the spices in togetherness shared before wedding. Both men and women can get bored of each other if not properly handled. Marriage is sacred, sweet and honourable so should not be defiled by whatsover reason, so the men should help their wives to keep them interesting at all times |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Chestan(m): 3:22am On May 29, 2009 |
tpiah why will u say it's normal,although, ups and down will b in a marriage to know if th marriage will last but not up to that extent.this happen cos some people get married cos of the physical beauty n when tha physical beauty is gone,then the love dies,some happen cos dey dont freshing up their marriage wit kissing or rewed.the part of kissing,the husband dont kisss the wife due to mouth odor which both of u need to work out.try some new tip like this and things might work out.kiss urself every morning after brushing ur teeth,say somtin nice to eachoda,help eachoda's out and u'll see.after |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by annyplenty(m): 9:43am On May 29, 2009 |
I think even many women devotes most ofl their attentions to their children once then begin to arrive and totally neglect their husbands and after nursing of babies its difficult to continue with their husbands where they stopped. |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by na2day2(m): 9:50am On May 29, 2009 |
annyplenty: word! |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by JJYOU: 10:20am On May 29, 2009 |
mrsb: [size=1silkybaby [/b: blessed are you guys for knowing what you know. sadly this microwave generation of get it here and now cant wait for anything let alone the right person they cant live without. marriage is hard work like every good thing what you put in is what you likely get out of it. i do know there are jerks out there too who dont care whatever you do. better be a looser in love than a miserable looser in life |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Ejadamen(f): 3:32pm On May 29, 2009 |
ololomu:This is so not true, are you now saying that men are slaves to their lust? That they have no self-discipline or self-control when it comes to lust? I beg to differ. It is a thing of the mind. Yes, the sexual urge is strong but it CAN be controlled. @ topic, i agree with tpiah, there must be some level of boredom but there are ways to get round it. Nothing helps like communication, prayer and marrying your friend This cannot be overstated. Marriage is hard work but hard sweet work. The fruits of that work is too sweet. Both the husband and wife have to work to spice things up and make the marriage interesting. Also when you marry someone you can't live without, boredom only makes you think of how to make things more interesting. Instead of boredom being a problem, it becomes a challenge to make a marriage better. And i say this with experience. I dated my husband for three years, there is nothing we cannot talk and pray about and it has been a great help. |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by olabb: 12:42am On May 30, 2009 |
Cause there bitches |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Anabel(f): 2:34pm On May 30, 2009 |
this case actually depend on how they got to know each other, if they courted themselves very long to know each others character very well. the man may actually see the girls physcal looks as usuall and get attracted, never wanting to loose that kind of fine chic, he rushes into marriage, then he finds out she is not actually his type, so he goes out. or the girl is the boring type, she does not communicate with him neither does she make him smile |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by WarHorse1(m): 5:15pm On May 30, 2009 |
There is one thing everybody seem to be missing. abstinence from sex before marriage. sincerely, two who find themselves as hubby and wifey and who have never engaged in sex before marriage, would observe a different feeling for each other. They do not easily get bored of each other - not when both have strong sexual fantasies waiting to be explored; fantasies which would take a long time to remember,venture, learn and perfect over time.This learning process would not be there for those who have been "testing" - males and females. Yes, this is hard to find in our day. But you cannot eat your cake and have it. Yet another issue to getting bored or not of hubbys and wifeys is open communication about each others feelings - emotional and sexual. Husbands, even if you feel your wife is telling her past when she Tells you her sexual needs, hold your assumptions that she will seek satisfaction for these needs outside. Just find ways to satisfy her as best as you can. Wifes, una dey there? I will put it simple. Be spoilt in the bedroom, but when in public, act in such a way that your husband will be wondering if this is the wife that sleeps with me in bed. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by ChuckBass1(m): 12:28am On May 31, 2009 |
Why shouldn't a man get bored of that old cow after you have seen her finish? She is already an expired waste of space after few months of marriage! Obviously the shakara she was doing has waned and you now know how dirty she is, how irritating her periods are, how greedy she is, how jealous and abusive she is, she has released her nagging dictionary to the public, she has compounded a man's problems by dumping her personal and extended family's problem on him, she is obsessive, a control freak, a bad cook, getting fatter by the day, accumulating stretch marks everywhere, looking more like a decorated baboon, stingy, having saggy breasts, probably barren infested and the neighbourhood gossip! Abegi, after 2 months of marriage, everyman should start looking for option B and C and leave that old cow to watch t.v 24/7 |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Ejadamen(f): 7:49am On May 31, 2009 |
@ Chuck Bass, Are you married? In the situation you posted, di the guy marry the lady for looks or for companionship. Granted she should maintain her looks but you make it sound like he married for beauty. |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by na2day2(m): 3:21am On Jun 01, 2009 |
Ejadamen: hmmm, its kind'a funny when a guy loses his job and can't provide for his family as he use to, his wife starts acting out or even leaves him, now did she marry him for his money? i clearly remember tons of NL girls here that preach "no money no romance" . why should a guy keep u if u loose ur shape? |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by invisible2(m): 8:50am On Jun 01, 2009 |
Lifts up his face and says "forgive them lord for they know not what they say" |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by na2day2(m): 8:54am On Jun 01, 2009 |
invisible!: and the Lord replies, mind your business 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by kidsam: 9:00am On Jun 01, 2009 |
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by kidsam: 9:12am On Jun 01, 2009 |
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Re: Why Do Husbands Get Bored Of Their Wives Soon After Wedding? by Ejadamen(f): 12:07pm On Jun 01, 2009 |
na2day?:It has long been agreed that some people marry for the wrong reasons. Whether male or female, one should not marry for beauty, money , these things are needed but should not be the foundation on which a marriage is laid. Haba! The girls preaching 'no money no romance' i wish them good luck, they'll eventually find what they are looking for. Same thing for the men looking for eternally shapely wives. These people IMO have no business being married. Marriage is much more than that or are the vows just taken for fun? If a man/woman wants to dump their partner because of a factor that is not permanent, then why did they marry? This is what gives marriage a bad name. A woman losing her shape can be encouraged to gym and get back in shape. A man who loses his job will not be jobless forever. Like i said there's more to marriage than all these flimsy factors. 1 Like 1 Share |
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