I was trying to address the issue of married men who leave their wives at home to another woman outside and I found out this is 45% the cause of cheating in marriage.

Well I know just the way people are created differently so are our likes. Have you wondered why a lady who u knew to be slim when single, gets married and become fat in 2months? ?

i decided to talk about this because it's been in my mind for a while. Have discovered 90% of women get fat/big when they get married, Aside been pregnant or immediately after child birth.

I honestly think they stop doing what they normally do for men to notice them, since they already have the man of their dreams, mission accomplished.

Well I don't know about all men but judging from the guys I have talked to plus what I think, it's a mandatory discussion between me and her before marriage cos i love slim ladies and you were slim that's why I came, only for you to blow up after marriage? ? Should I be happy seeing you like dat? ?

So I think our ladies should know what their men love them to be and please be that EXACT thing else an unknown lady appears from nowhere with the specification of your man.

Your thread topic: after marriage? It should be modified.

chocolateme:
Your thread topic: after marriage? It should be modified.

I added that because I think most ladies do maintain dem selves and watch their weight while single. Thanks doe, noted.

How does this affects me ?

Rukkydelta:
How does this affects me ?

lolz. ...rukky u actually think it does not affect u??

well, u probably will keep a good body shape even after marriage else ....

I'm slim so I like my woman to have enough flesh on her bones. I cannot be slim and my wife will be slimmer. Mbanu

Alezy:
lolz. ...rukky u actually think it does not affect u??

well, u probably will keep a good body shape even after marriage else ....

What of the men that have pot belly after marriage ?

Alezy:
lolz. ...rukky u actually think it does not affect u??

well, u probably will keep a good body shape even after marriage else ....

What of the men that have pot belly after marriage ?

Rukkydelta:
What of the men that have pot belly after marriage ?

it's also a trend for sure but men are waking up to see this as a challenge now hence if u go to any gym close by, the turn out are now massive cos they know what they should look like.

It's not like men are not victims but it's more of a problem from the women.

lofty900:
I'm slim so I like my woman to have enough flesh on her bones. I cannot be slim and my wife will be slimmer. Mbanu

lolz. ..cool

The essence of what you have said here is that some ladies take care of themselves to please others. If they didn't and would take care of themselves for themselves, to feel good, healthy and fit, they would always do it because the motivation to feel good, healthy and fit is longer lasting than the motivation to get married, which ends once you got married.

Mindfulness:
The essence of what you have said here is that some ladies take care of themselves to please others. If they didn't and would take care of themselves for themselves, to feel good, healthy and fit, they would always do it because the motivation to feel good, healthy and fit is longer lasting than the motivation to get married, which ends once you got married.

Thumbs up ....well said.

jashar:
you have good points OP, but the fact is this; not everyone can be slim after marriage except they go for surgery.
Things like 'hormones', 'birth-control', 'child birth', (and believe you me) 'stress' can make a woman 'blow up' after marriage.

Men should just settle in their hearts that the woman they're getting married to will add at least 5 extra pounds by the time they are done with child bearing

No vex ehn.... wae'll try to maintain shape small

lolz. ..Please u guys should help maintain small shape small for family peace.

Wait!!! how does stress makes a woman fat??

Alezy:
lolz. ..Please u guys should help maintain small shape small for family peace.

Wait!!! how does stress makes a woman fat??

She starts eating a lot under stress. It happens to my sister and some of my friends. When they are stressed out, they gobble up junk food which in time makes them blow up.

Fact, few women remain the same size and shape after childbirth, except they undergo surgery.

Deal with it or opt out of having children.

Alezy:


it's also a trend for sure but men are waking up to see this as a challenge now hence if u go to any gym close by, the turn out are now massive cos they know what they should look like.

It's not like men are not victims but it's more of a problem from the women.

majority of the men in the gym are actually not married, I'm sure of that although it could be a wrong assumption. However, a large number would appear to be youths or younger men.

Not saying pot belly is mandatory though.

jashar:



She starts eating a lot under stress. It happens to my sister and some of my friends. When they are stressed out, they gobble up junk food which in time make they blow up.

Fact, few women remain the same size and shape after childbirth, except they undergo surgery.

Deal with it or opt out of having children.

na wa o.

well lemme believe mine will be in such category. without surgery or whatever, she is cool and same after childs birth.

tpiadotcom:


majority of the men in the gym are actually not married, I'm sure of that although it could be a wrong assumption. However, a large number would appear to be youths or younger men.

Not saying pot belly is mandatory though.

well we have both married and unmarried men and after he gets married, only a few stops visiting the gym maybe due to work.

I give u an assessment today, take a pure check and u will find out that pot bellied men are on the decline. Since its what dem ladies want, They are all wising up

jashar:
you have good points OP, but the fact is this; not everyone can be slim after marriage except they go for surgery.
Things like 'hormones', 'birth-control', 'child birth', (and believe you me) 'stress' can make a woman 'blow up' after marriage.

Men should just settle in their hearts that the woman they're getting married to will add at least 5 extra pounds by the time they are done with child bearing

No vex ehn.... we'll try to maintain shape small

excuses!! excuses!! and you will want to dress like kim k and beyonce y'all should stop being lazy and eating crap, get some workout done to keep in shape. after two years of marriage you start complaining that your husbands don't come home on time.. come home to what.. a blob of shapeless fat ? ??

Qualer:


excuses!! excuses!! and you will want to dress like kim k and beyonce y'all should stop being lazy and eating crap, get some workout done to keep in shape. after two years of marriage you start complaining that your husbands don't come home on time.. come home to what.. a blob of shapeless fat ? ??

E pain am

Speechless3:


E pain am

actually, e no pain am! my boo is fit and on point 365...it's about people like you.. we will check back in a few years to see how far

#remember today!

Qualer:


actually, e no pain am! my boo is fit and on point 365...it's about people like you.. we will check back in a few years to see how far

#remember today!

She is still your boo after marrying her, with kids? Duuude someone is not saying it all

Speechless3:


She is still your boo after marrying her, with kids? Duuude someone is not saying it all

e pain am you want to take her place? she is still my boo because she has always been on point from day one... boo of life
she has to because i still get my six pack and all the pecks!! i can show you... if you want

Qualer:


e pain am you want to take her place? she is still my boo because she has always been on point from day one... boo of life
she has to because i still get my six pack and all the pecks!! i can show you... if you want

pain fire. I will start considering when i see the man behind the monicker

Are they upto six for real? common then

Speechless3:


pain fire. I will start considering when i see the man behind the monicker

Are they upto six for real? common then

you mean come on*... i will let you see, only when you will be able to touch it as well

Qualer:




you mean come on*... i will let you see, only when you will be able to touch it as well

I knew you were braggadoing(lol) all this while on top your akamu body but anyhow enjoy your BOOing life

Men also often get fat and lazy after marriage!

Op, you made lotta sense!
That is the more reason why I would never date any man that dislikes fat women not to talk of marrying him..
Coz in my family we're the fat types... no matter how I watch my weight/ keep fit, no one knows tomao..
Tho' I don't pray to be shapeless/orogbo tomao BUT prevention is better than cure..
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So my first question to any man interested in me is "your kind of woman"?
Once I hear slim! I pick race without looking back...
God help me, I'll always put an effort in looking sweet and saxy for my man!

ebyoma:
Op, you made lotta sense!
That is the more reason why I would never date any man that dislikes fat women not to talk of marrying him..
Coz in my family we're the fat types... no matter how I watch my weight/ keep fit, no one knows tomao..
Tho' I don't pray to be shapeless/orogbo tomao BUT prevention is better than cure..
.
.
So my first question to any man interested in me is "your kind of woman"?
Once I hear slim! I pick race without looking back...
God help me, I'll always put an effort in looking sweet and saxy for my man!

Lolss... This babe sef.... Hahaha

ebyoma:
Op, you made lotta sense!
That is the more reason why I would never date any man that dislikes fat women not to talk of marrying him..
Coz in my family we're the fat types... no matter how I watch my weight/ keep fit, no one knows tomao..
Tho' I don't pray to be shapeless/orogbo tomao BUT prevention is better than cure..
.
.
So my first question to any man interested in me is "your kind of woman"?
Once I hear slim! I pick race without looking back...
God help me, I'll always put an effort in looking sweet and saxy for my man!

Some men prefer ladies with some meat on their bones. E.g me, wetin concern us with slim lekpas

KingTom:

Some men prefer ladies with some meat on their bones. E.g me, wetin concern us with slim lekpas

Tell them broff

I wanna see meat everywhere