Pls fellow nairalanders, I'm in dire need of your advice. I have not been able to secure a lady I can call mine. I am currently in my final year in the university, yet no sign of any lady coming. I have tried starting a relationship with the one's I met but it all proves abortive. The painful part is that girls like me but when I talk to them about having them as my boo, they simply rebuff me. I'm the only son and up till nw am yet to find a girlfriend talk more of a wife to be. I get so emotional when I go out for social events, seeing my friends with their boo's but mine is nowhere. The funny aspect is that I start sweet and good with them but then something just happens and the everything is destroyed. I can't just understand cos I just need someone to talk to, someone I can share my life with, someone to love. I need ur advice cos u guys are the only people I can run to at this time.

I understand your stance, but one thing I want u to understand is that, no matter how long it takes, the one that is meant to be yours will locate u someday.
Being a finalist , it could be that your fate is to marry your first gf. The day, week, month and year u guys will meet has been destined . It could be during your service year.
So no matter how handsome, wealthy and knowledgeable you are , if it's not yet time for u to have a partner, there is no way they can accept to date u. They might even like u and want u to be theirs, but one thing will always be a barrier to that.
The better you understand how destiny works, the better it would be for you.

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tunnamania11:
I understand your stance, but one thing I want u to understand is that, no matter how long it takes, the one that is meant to be yours will locate u someday.
Being a finalist , it could be that your fate is to marry your first gf. The day, week, month and year u guys will meet has been destined . It could be during your service year.
So no matter how handsome, wealthy and knowledgeable you are , if it's not yet time for u to have a partner, there is no way they can accept to date u. They might even like u and want u to be theirs, but one thing will always be a barrier to that.
The better you understand how destiny works, the better it would be for you.

Nope...he needs moneyyy..
Just kidding.lol

I forgot to type these : On a thread like this, any female commenter wants u to send her pm, so don't miss the opportunity. You can put your phone number in your profile so that the bold ones could add u up on WhatsApp .

Doughyeenbae:
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Nope...he needs moneyyy..
Just kidding.lol

lolz.... Money is not the problem here dear. Thanks bro for the advise, am honestly grateful dude. God bless u plenty

akujobi2641:
lolz.... Money is not the problem here dear. Thanks bro for the advise, am honestly grateful dude. God bless u plenty

OK all the best in your bae endeavor

tunnamania11:
I forgot to type these : On a thread like this, any female commenter wants u to send her pm, so don't miss the opportunity. You can put your phone number in your profile so that the bold ones could add u up on WhatsApp .

Lmao.Tunde I swear you are so sick..
Relationship councilor Ose

tunnamania11:
I forgot to type these : On a thread like this, any female commenter wants u to send her pm, so don't miss the opportunity. You can put your phone number in your profile so that the bold ones could add u up on WhatsApp .

I don't know how to send Pm here on nairaland. Can you tell me how to send pm or know when someone sends me a pm?

Doughyeenbae:

OK all the best in your bae endeavor

Thanks alot cutie, are you on facebook or twitter?

akujobi2641:
Thanks alot cutie, are you on facebook or twitter?

Nah

akujobi2641:
Thanks alot cutie, are you on facebook or twitter?

Nope

akujobi2641:
I don't know how to send Pm here on nairaland. Can you tell me how to send pm or know when someone sends me a pm?

Click on the person's moniker, you will see send email message , click on it. Being the first time, you won't be able to type any message, just click send. The person will receive it as email. When the person responds, you will receive it as email, you can start conversation there.

Thanks bro! I owe you a great deal. @dough No qualms

Doughyeenbae:

Lmao.Tunde I swear you are so sick..
Relationship councilor Ose

Op, I hope you are so smart to decipher what's going on here .
I started matchmaking 4years ago on 2go .
As for you doyin, if I give u factory reset slap, you will forget your date of birth

tunnamania11:

Op, I hope you are so smart to decipher what's going on here .
I started matchmaking 4years ago on 2go .
As for you doyin, if I give u factory reset slap, you will forget your date of birth

Lolz..... The thing is that am not good at stalking a woman. If I make a move and you refuse, I take it that u ain't interested. I hate bothering people, especially ladies.

akujobi2641:
Lolz..... The thing is that am not good at stalking a woman. If I make a move and you refuse, I take it that u ain't interested. I hate bothering people, especially ladies.

That's a good idea. No one plays hard to get these days, not when female population doubles male's.

tunnamania11:

That's a good idea. No one plays hard to get these days, not when female population doubles male's.

thanks for understanding me bro. Some people might view it as pride but am just been me. Keeping it 100% real.

akujobi2641:
thanks for understanding me bro. Some people might view it as pride but am just been me. Keeping it 100% real.

I like that

my broda leave relationship... I'm in my 5th n finals, no girl n I'm not expecting too, I feel it's time consuming.

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