I greet d house, i am a fellow NL, i had this issue disturbing me n i wish to share it here for ur advice, as d saying goes a problem shared is a problem half solved. There is this young girl i never toasted but wen i notice her green light i decided to invite her to my hux she came, i wld hv gone to bed wit her dat day but i choose not to, since it is her first time of seeing me, d next time i invited her we made love n dats wz how we started, anytime i need her she always come n i wil do any thing i wanted, i notice that any time i had sex wit her i wil b kind of regretting my action, hissing n even frown my face, she do bear everything, i hardly took her out or introduce her to my friends. i hv another girl dat i met during my IT, i always enjoy every moment i spend wit her, i can kiss her do some touching even in open places, i hear pple say all sort of words but i dnt care, wen ever we are together my hand is always on her shoulder at any where at any time, i dnt even want her to leave my presence, i can con descent so low just to make her happy, we are always in touch via whatsapp, phone calls, sms etc. i dnt even hv much urge for sex, smooching her alone can satisfy me, wen introducing her to my friends i dnt allow them to hold her hand for a long time, i always drag her hand off while my left hand is on her shlder. i dnt really want to double date because i dnt want to b a polygamous man. i am lust or i love with d second girl than d first one, i am kind of confuse pls i need ur advice.i know i deserve to be insulted pls forgive me n advice. d first girl is a medical student while d second is a mass comm student.

Sounds like you're Doing a Street Sarewagba

Odeh See wat u post...... U nid to first pursue ur education Instead of being busy chasing women....
Haba!!! U can't even construct a gud sentence

this is not my main naira land account account

Lol...ur not alone...a lot of young ppol like u been thru this & this kind of problem is very common & even some of em are even worst! U know how u get urself in then u know ur way out
Juz do what makes u happy..

U need budah

You haven't even stated any problem here Or am I on the wrong thread??

Confirm END TIME Post

Guy e b like say u b one of those sharp guys o, any way just leave them and focus on ur suggestions first

Formost,I will like to commend you for coming out to narrate your problem in all honesty.Besides,a problem shared,is a problem half solved.
The truth about everything is you dnt and you never loved the first lady at all,and even if you did not get her quick and easy on a platter of gold you will stil not love her. Anyway,at least you have gotten what you wanted why not just let go of her now before it's too late because the more time you spend with her,the more she kips falling deeper in love with you which could end up being an obssession which is indeed very difficult to control.
1.Stop picking her kalls for now
2Dont have anythng to do with her again
3Always complain about everything she does
4Dnt let her to see you with your new g.f 4 now
5. PLS,MAKE SURE SHE KALLS D RLSHP A QUIT HERSELF.IF YOU WERE THE 1 TO BREAK IT OFF,SHE WIL GET HURT SO MUCH AND CAN HARM YOU BEYOUND YOUR THINKING. REMENBER THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE AND A WOUNDED WOMAN IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN A WOUNDED SERPENT

Sir, I suggest you stop tempting nairalanders patience...

What do you want them to advice you on? My instinct tells me you know that what you are doing was wrong, and your conscience was pricking you, why not stop it?

Or do you want a second opinion that will tell you to carry on it is normal?

Look,Uncle Charlie of Two and a half men now has HIV. that thing does not care about status. BOOM!!!!!!! It came and it stays for life.

Brother pls stop using her since u don't love her

Because it is wrong and you still have conscience.

so na wic kyn advice u want now?

Hmmmm

Sounds like you are stupidt...but I try not to believe that..


But I cannot resist my self from believing that you are stupidt....


End time post.. End time story.. End time Nairaland.

It's your type that makes girls die in silence whenever they want a guy rather than ask him out or send greenlight.

You're playing with your life...

And my advice to you is.....first of all, go and learn how to write properly. For God's sake...what happened to punctuations??.
As for your story, you know the right to do....so plz do the needful. All the best.

You can't just let the first lady go like that as some posters above me said.
Put yourself in her shoes for God sake. How would you feel, if someone treat a Sister, Daughter of yours like this?
She is not a Sex machine after all. This is somebody's treasure too.



The truth is that you never liked her, you pretend to just because you want to Sleep with her period. I hate it when guys behave immature.









If you really know what to look for in a relationship, you won't even create this thread. Set you priorities right. Go for a girl who is a friend, a girl you are happy to be with, a girl that have humour, brilliant and intelligent (Educated or Illitrate) because the future is what matters, not the now thing.


Relationship is a about growth, both parties should be thankful to God that they meet each others in their journey in life, not regretting while they met.




Guys, sorry for whom this post is affecting, but it's high time we do what is RIGHT to our future wives. Remember, what you do to one's future wife, another smart dude will do it to you own too.

Lets learn!

You are a child

In essence, wat is ur stance

MsBliss:
Because it is wrong and you still have conscience.

Dats because sex outside marriage always cums wit regrect...u wuld cotinue 2 regrect till u do the right tin

Christian Grey. .

WHY DID U SLEEP WITH THE YOUNG POOR GIRL IN THE FIRST STAGE? PLEASE,REPENT AND STOP THE IMMORALITY.TELL BOTH GIRLS U ARE NOT INTERESTED IN RELATIONSHIP NOW.OR DO U WANT TO GET MARRIED IN THE NEXT 2YEARS TO COME?WHY ENGAGING IN PRE-MARITAL AFFAIR

You see how free s3x is causing you so much guilt you cannot even enjoy the woman you like. Its not every free thing you say YES to many times you have to say NO and let it mean NO many free s3x are still on the way i hope you learn not to accept things you don't want just because they are free.

Back to the girl you don't like let her go tell her you have a girlfriend it will be a hard conversation but you will feel better if you treat her like a fellow human try not to act shady because you want to leave.