Some guys like to have a collection
of different women to either soothe their ego or just
because they can.
Is your man a ‘women collector’? Check these 12
signs below to find out:

1. He likes to be in control: Think about the
collectors you see in movies and in television. They’re
careful, methodical, protective. A collector only
shows you as much of himself as he can bear. If you
have a date where he gets more open or vulnerable
than usual and you think you’re making progress,
beware: he’s about to pull away for a while.

2. He comes on strong: The collector pursues. He
flirts, he woos, he seduces. You are the special
edition/mint-condition/one-of-a-kind object he’s been
waiting to find. You will feel irresistible, appreciated
and wanted. It’s a heady drug and hard to say no to.
But this guy… he is also full of tricks and surprises.

3. He’s amazing when it’s brand-new: Once you’ve
started things with a date/kiss/sex, he seems to be
all yours. His attention is fully on you because, of
course, you are the newest part of his collection.
Beware, though, it won’t be long before his fancy’s
struck by another potential addition.

4. He pulls back if you don’t seem into it: He’s
courting you and you’re perhaps a little hesitant?
Just like if he was bartering over a rare item, the
collector’s trick is always to walk away but just far
enough to hear you say, “Well, wait a second, we
might be able to make a deal…”

5. He adores you when you’re together: Of course
he does. He’s opened his case and taken you out to
enjoy. You will be fawned over, tended to, and, even
polished. He’s perfect in your presence and you want
to be all his. But once he’s made sure you’re still in
working order, it’s back in the case with you.

6. He thinks of you as a set of adjectives: You
might be the sexy, brainy, witty one. Then there’s the
carefree, athletic, competitive one. Collectors really
get to know you at the beginning and take a real-
seeming interest in your life. But he’s just paying
close attention to his newest find. He never goes
much deeper than that at those early stages though,
because he wants to catalog you as simply as
possible.

7. He likes you when you’re not messy: Collectors
keep things under glass, in packages, and wrapped
in plastic. They like when you’re fascinating but not
too complicated. The second you have a real problem
or express a real need, you’re spoiled in their eyes.

8. He cancels plans: Collectors flake because they like
the opportunity to spend time with all their
collectibles. If he breaks dates or doesn’t make plans,
that’s why. Don’t buy other excuses.

9. He will reappear if you disappear: Say you’ve
had it and you start to pull away. You will probably
hear from the collector just as soon as you think
you’re over it. (They’ve got the magic that way.) It
will be a short, sweet, low-effort communication but
just enough to make you think they want to keep you
around. And they do. Just not that much.

10. He never really ends things: If you’re not on his
“crazy” list, he won’t really cut himself out of your
life. No, you won’t hear from him with regularity. No,
things won’t necessarily progress to a deeper level
but he will always let you believe that he might
someday want a real relationship.

11. He gives you the sense he’s said these things
before: It’s hard work, this collecting. Sometimes,
the collector will say things so smooth and so
charming that seem almost rehearsed. In a way, they
are.

12. He likes you better when you’re subject to
other admiration: We all want a partner we can be
proud of. But collectors want the thing that other
people want. If you’re out with him and he catches
others looking at you, he will place more worth on
you and you’ll feel beyond adored — but for that
night only.

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SlimAdenike:
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manny4u:
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Men will always be like that