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She is my close female friend. She has an eye for me more than just a friend and not that i don't fancy or imagine sleeping with her in my brain but she is not just the kind or type of girls I am into. I have my preference when it comes to female physic like big arss, light skin and all that stuff. She normally invite me to her office, her place of work. And we do discuss some random things like friends do.

She had done everything to me, like sleeping on my leg, sleep with her breast on my lap. Rob and pet my face with her hand, called me sweet sweet names like my darling. my husband even made some statement like we are actually dating. I always use this statement to kill her impression.

That I don't date girls for now. Dating girls is not among my current list of agenda and that I have a lot of girls contact on my phone but I don't call neither do I want them to call me, that i don't and won't take it serious at all not now and not anywhere near soon.

There was a day she ask me for money and I said I don't have in a resistance like I don't have a thing for her. And she said I should not call her again and I should not come to her office again. Then I provoke and made this statement. Wait... who the hell are you to me? Am I your boyfriend? Then she said she can't date me and if I ask her out she won't agree for me. Then she said I should leave her office. Later that day when i refuse to talk to her again. she came to me and apologies.

Fast forward to today. I was in her office today when she made some statement. She said what if she ask me out like we should start dating boyfriend and girlfriend what will I say to it. Then I reply what kind of question is that. Then she said if I don't like her or what, I replied ofcourse I like you if not I won't be coming to your office.

Then she said the water she drank from I didn't drink it, (cause she went to buy water and she only buy one for herself and I ask why you didn't buy two, she said I didn't tell earlier and I replied I am telling you now and she said she can't go out again and I should drink the one she drink remain which I didn't)

OK while I was trying to prove it she keep saying and repeating it and how do I look her self. To let that matter dies I took the water and drank it and I can see a smile on her face.

Then next she repeat that questions. She said she only want yes or no. Then I replied I can't answer that question. And I said I don't get you are you toasting me or what? she said OK yes she is toasting me. She said the only thing she need is a yes or no.

There was riggings going on my head since I was born no girl has ever toast me directly like this with a yes or no answer.

Then I gave her a reply "it depends" then she said what kind of answer is that and I should not talk to her again. and In fact I should leave her office and not come again.

Then I told her look here, I don't want to marry now and not ready to make any decision now before I could finish saying it she cut it from my mouth and She said she is not asking me to marry her. Then I said what I mean by "it depends" I am not ready for any commitment or serious relationship I might consider just a kind of relationship. Then she said I should forget about that she didn't ask me all that. Then I said if its just a normal relationship I won't mind to date her.

I could see that she was happy after I said that. But I was still acting like I am not the one who wanted the relationship, then she a statement that got me confused that we should rent house and live together. let me end it here.


Oh well when she said she would miss me when I was about to leave then I told her if she is missing me then she should call me and take me out. She was laughing that I should be the one to take her out not her, then I told her you are no serious then, you are the one who will be missing me so stick to it . the truth is while I actually agree to this girl I was also considering the economical aspect. as I won't be spending a damn on a bitc.h especially this December period.

As I was about going just an inch away to the door and she said if that's how I will say goodbye. Then I said how will I say good bye again? I walked back to her then pet her face and cheeks, and i said so sorry dear i know you will miss me but i must go now and next I grab one of her breast with my right hand and press it.

She scream oh my God, so you are a bad boy. While she was in surprise and kind of excited and imagining what I just did. She put one if her hand on her mouth. then I said goodbye and I left.

Now I am thinking I am going to handle this and what her plan is.

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What's all this?

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True o,false o, its ur life live it.

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Joel3,

how do you know it took courage to toast you? What if it was easy for her?

i can vouch dat dis actually happened. Hmmm

Either true or false, take your time to compose it well.
It will be alot better.
Cheers!

Mschewwww.

freecocoa:
Mschewwww.

Baby chill. Take life easy. Ok!

hey. it actually happen what will I gain in lying. check the previous post I made reference to earlier.

Nawa o. The story is too long, since you have agreed what else do you want?

You have already agreed or do you want to disagree?

Mindfulness:
Joel3,

how do you know it took courage to toast you? What if it was easy for her?

well I can't really tell, maybe because she has got use to me. but one thing I know it's very hard for a girl to do that.

Bloomingbud:
Nawa o. The story is too long, since you have agreed what else do you want?

Lol

I don't get the question


However its a pity the lady has thrown her love on you


You many be economically challenged as most of us are but referring to her as a bìtch shows she has entered end time one chance bus


Wish her the best

Joel3:
well I can't really tell, maybe because she has got use to me. but one thing I know it's very hard for a girl to do that.

It is hard for some girls and not hard at all for others. Why did you post this your story here? What are you looking for?

Mindfulness:


It is hard for some girls and not hard at all for others. Why did you post this your story here? What are you looking for?

kind of confused and not sure of what I signing in for. and what her plan for me is. if it where a boy asking a girl out it would have been easy for the girl to say let me think about it.

Joel3:
kind of confused and not sure of what I signing in for. and what her plan for me is. if it where a boy asking a girl out it would have been easy for the girl to say let me think about it.

Ask her. She is in the best position to answer your questions.

Mindfulness:


Ask her. She is in the best position to answer your questions.

I just can't ask her.

What is this?

Pls boy,treat her with some honour and dignity,dont make her a LovePeddler,she does deserve some respect.her braveness is gargantuan and worth commending

This ur story is too long o, pls try and re-read 'summary'.
All I can deduce from ur write-up is tht the girl has entered one chance. I pity her sef. It's obvious u av no respect for her or women in general. Calling her a bi-tch just cos u no wan spend money, are u a skin flint? And all I think u av in mind is d thrill that u'll finally get what u've once imagined (sex) wt her.
The economy is hard, we all know but even at that a relatnship can still be built wt mutual understanding and love.
I dnt knw what advice u're asking 4 nw since u've already said 'Yes'. Pls learn to respect and don't treat her badly.

When I saw the caption, I was hoping to read where you were drawing an imaginary map of Africa on the ground with your legs, plucking some wild flowers and Twisting/ bitting your finger nails as the babe was toasting him......

Anyways, You do not need an advice, what I think you needed was finance to remedy the situation......
Obviously you practically live in her office. If you do not like her as a person, you will not be going to her office all the time as if you were going to your bedroom.

She got it that you like her. so she was trying to do you a favour by asking what you already had in mind assuming you were not financially challenged. So stop trying to sale us with I am not interested in a relationship product because we are not buying it at all..........

Just say you don't have money for challenges that involves relationship. then we might buy it

This will make a very good case presentation
cc Mindfulness, timboktou, pickabeau1

I am going to assume this is a true story.

It is obvious from the op's post that he is a young fella, probably an adolesecent or just out of his teens. He seems to spend an awful lot of time at "her office" for someone who is not attracted to her. It could most likely be joblessness or it could be that he hangs around to catch feelings from the girl and enjoy the attention she showers on him.

Also,it is obvious he has no genuine feelings for her except selfish ones. He hardly respects her (or women generally) hence his use of the word bi.tch to address the female of his species.

She on the other hand, is obviously borderline obsessed with him. She has not hidden her feelings and is in fact brazen enough to ask a guy that has repeatedly shown his lack of respect for her person out for a relationship.

I will tag him as an effeminate fellow since he sees no qualms in depending on a lady for financial assistance, he is an opportunist and is obviously hanging around her for the economic gains he will reap. He has no manly pride.

However, can we say this lady who is old enough to work in an office (even if as a photocopier in a buisness centre) is not aware of what she is going into? can we absolve her of all responsibility? She has been repeatedly shot down but insists on maintaining the rleationship and is now excited that he "pressed her boobs" . Is it not obvious what she wants? Are we now to totally blame this selfish op if he takes advantage of her as he most likely will and then use her as much as he can before dumping her since she was never his specs in the first place? Are we going to tag this lady as being mentally and emotionally unstable?

In summary, who are we to blame for the immaturity and indecisiveness in both parties? what can be done, what advise can be given to avert the disaster that is looming? Tomorrow this girl will find that she has been used and will start shouting rape, that she didnt know what she was doing, that all men are beasts, meanwhile all the warning lights were shone right in her eyes.

And who do we blame for this man's seeming lack of manly pride? what is to be done?

Good morning.

thanks for your response, but the fact you insult my person I do not accept that. you must have type so many things from your imaginations but I think you are some how far from it.

first of all I am not adolescent I am a man. I might be seen as selfish or wicked towards lady's in
general but due to my experience many years back. now I only consider myself first in any relationship, what I want. to satisfy my self yes me only and no body else.

there is a place I normally visit that's is close to her office more like anytime I go there I branch her place. if I don't branch her office there will be problem from her if she learnt about it. bitc.h is not an insult it is just a way to describe disparate girls.

she has an interest in me. i have interest also but my interest is not a good one that was why I use all efforts to stay away but it seems its not working. while I was trying to avoid it even in the detriment of my person cause she must have thought that i am not man enough which I never mind either. but now everything falls on my face.




now its to my own advantage if anything goes wrong I am not to be blame. her interest might just be similar to mine who knows.

5minsmadness:
This will make a very good case presentation
cc Mindfulness, timboktou, pickabeau1

I am going to assume this is a true story.

It is obvious from the op's post that he is a young fella, probably an adolesecent or just out of his teens. He seems to spend an awful lot of time at "her office" for someone who is not attracted to her. It could most likely be joblessness or it could be that he hangs around to catch feelings from the girl and enjoy the attention she showers on him.

Also,it is obvious he has no genuine feelings for her except selfish ones. He hardly respects her (or women generally) hence his use of the word bi.tch to address the female of his species.

She on the other hand, is obviously borderline obsessed with him. She has not hidden her feelings and is in fact brazen enough to ask a guy that has repeatedly shown his lack of respect for her person out for a relationship.

I will tag him as an effeminate fellow since he sees no qualms in depending on a lady for financial assistance, he is an opportunist and is obviously hanging around her for the economic gains he will reap. He has no manly pride.

However, can we say this lady who is old enough to work in an office (even if as a photocopier in a buisness centre) is not aware of what she is going into? can we absolve her of all responsibility? She has been repeatedly shot down but insists on maintaining the rleationship and is now excited that he "pressed her boobs" . Is it not obvious what she wants? Are we now to totally blame this selfish op if he takes advantage of her as he most likely will and then use her as much as he can before dumping her since she was never his specs in the first place? Are we going to tag this lady as being mentally and emotionally unstable?

In summary, who are we to blame for the immaturity and indecisiveness in both parties? what can be done, what advise can be given to avert the disaster that is looming? Tomorrow this girl will find that she has been used and will start shouting rape, that she didnt know what she was doing, that all men are beasts, meanwhile all the warning lights were shone right in her eyes.

And who do we blame for this man's seeming lack of manly pride? what is to be done?

Good morning.

5minsmadness:
This will make a very good case presentation
In summary, who are we to blame for the immaturity and indecisiveness in both parties? what can be done, what advise can be given to avert the disaster that is looming? Tomorrow this girl will find that she has been used and will start shouting rape, that she didnt know what she was doing, that all men are beasts, meanwhile all the warning lights were shone right in her eyes.
And who do we blame for this man's seeming lack of manly pride? what is to be done?
Good morning.

End time one chance bus as I said earlier

The girl cannot scream ra..pe as she is an adut

op is jobless, if he wasn't, he wouldn't be hanging at her office 24/7

Idydarling:
op is jobless, if he wasn't, he wouldn't be hanging at her office 24/7

can you give me a job?

ok