When it comes to help in terms of money expect.Pls Always zero your mind 2 received it back.if not it might affect ur giving ability

What is there facebook ID....?
What is there username on nairaland.....?
After,many years in d university and she go don reach final year 2nd semester, d skul authority go expel am, she go con dey cry kiri adugbo, she has forgotn d karma and her boifrd go b like....is time for us to path ways...#pentuka tyns

Don't stop giving
But please give what you can let go.

Thanks for opening this thread..

I saw Purfekt on nairaland and decide to get twitter follower from him to boost my post and get more traffic.. We seal deal i paid him off.. And this guys continue the job.. But the sad part of it is that.. He abandone the job he didnt complete and meet up wth d follower we agreed on..

So i text him on whatsapp if he know he cant continue he shuld free my acct so that my post can be appearing on twitter and my reader can view it...

Up till dis moment he refuse to pick my call and return my chat..

Please beware of him...



N.B: i thank God now.. My blog is doing fine and the traffic and earning is making sense..

My advice for new blogger.. Beware of this guy..

That's what you get when things start spoiling from the head. If the leaders of this Country (WAI) are sincere, methink the followers would follow sue . In China such amount is enough to behead the culprits.....As for the fraudsters nemesis is waiting for them at the corner......

Nice moral lesson to learn..Op please call and give them ultimatum to pay,failure to pay should make u go public with their identity as well as screen grabs of ur conversation ...Bad pple like dat need be taught lessons...

hahn:
There's a Yoruba adage that says, "If you close your eyes because you do not want to see bad people, you won't know when good people will walk by".

Pls kindly translate to yoruba. Thanks

yea thats true.......becos na that time wey u close ya eye na him good ones go pass..........abeg make dem pass joor #trustnoneahcantfithelpagain

2014
My brother forget it joor, am sure they had reaped wat dey sow since, even may be it was in multiple folds sef..... I witnessed one like that here in Lagos, I went to ojodu-berger to board a vehicle going to Eko-idumota, after d car was filled up, d conductor collected his money from all d passengers except one particular woman who claimed that she has paid, the conductor and other concerned passenger started cursing who so ever that refused to pay his/her tfare.
Unfortunately for her, she received her judgement immediately she got to island by misplacing her wallets full of money to buy goods...thats karma

I'm coming back to narrate my own ordeal with a guy I met on nairaland that cheated me.

Soo sad, had a similar experience..the gal involved kept posting week Afta week, until I had to make her understand am bigger than the money...

Had an experience sometime last year February. I was coming back from where I went to get something, unfortunately I didn't meet the person. So I took a bike, got to a friend's shop, got something from her,just a few minutes walk from her shop,i walked passed a man making call,as I thought saying the person he came to meet has gone and his number is not going through and his car just parked up. The moment he ended the call, he called me to explain his predicament , and begged me for 2k,so that he could just get a near by mechanic to fix his car, that first thing the next day he will give me the money when he comes to see his friend. This man I am talking about is more than 50years and pretended that he was very sick .I didn't want to give him initially, but on a second thought I felt this man Could just be telling the truth. I brought out the 2k and gave him , so we exchanged numbers, the moment I got home, my instinct told me the man has just scammed me, but I just said let tomorrow come. The next morning I called him, and what I heard from the other end was I can't hear you, wrong number. By the time I ended the call, I burst into laughter. But it still hasn't stop me from helping. Before I forget,two days after that incident I was called to pick up my employment letter that I have been trusting God for in a specialised federal university .So many people can't be trusted any longer, but hey you can so trust me.

micronut:
Bros, i tell you. When they need your help, some would be crying and promising. Just give them what they want, that may be the last time you would see them. I wish people can be sincere, the world would have been a better place.

@ micronut didn't knew u where the op, it can be really painful when u experience such, but All I can say is don't let the bad event prevent you from doing good. Doomsday awaites every evil doer.

ametu166:

Pls kindly translate to yoruba. Thanks

Lol. Haba

My landlord once gave me that quote during a discussion. I'm not Yoruba but I respect their intelligence and mysticism

Don't worry,forget them,be your usual nice person, if you help someone sincerely you will definitely get your reward vis visa. If she really got that admission, you made her life better...let them judge themselves, they think they have outsmart you but no..one way or the other she will keep remembering you.

since you have their facebook Details. can you share their names? at least for people to just know them. I had a similar experience last year but I never got what I paid 15k for. it was painful but I also learned a lesson from it.

ShakurM:
One rule when helping people on a financial level, I give the the money I won't even need back incase of stories that touch..

You stole those words from my mouth. I have been taught a bitter lesson by close friends and have resolve to adopt this policy.

Op forget that yarn; if they needed it, they could have begged for it. Like you'll give them? Taaa! If I hear.

That said you said you saw their data. Oya post am or forever remain silent.

I learnt nothing from this bullshit.

Sometime people make it seem inconsequential not to do good, but like my bible says; Blessed is the man that giveth. A good is not lost if the individual seeking for such help is genuine. Last year my immediate younger brother tend to help a church member who was about to write is final year exam. But the guy parents could not pay two weeks to the exam, my kid brother ignorantly trusted on him, because he was his church fellowship member, gave him 35k to enable him pay his school fee, and he promise that he will pay the next week before my younger brother exams commence, once his parents send him money the following week. The following week, but behold, not everyone should be help. This guy stop coming to fellowship, switch off his phone, wasn't always at home cos he was on the run, and when his exam finished the upper week, he left school without informing my younger brother. When my younger brother later reported him to their church pastor, and the church pastor called him, he managed to pick his call after several miss calls and promised date he couldn't fulfill. My brother had to repeat the seamester again, then he learnt the tough way, because he didn't inform anyone before taking such decision for counselling.

Moral of the story; Help if really it is important and you feel compassionate to assist. And do not just listen to the problem without having to help, it hurt more when someone need help and you want to listen without helping. If it doesn't comes out of your mind, but try not to ask what is the problem. There I learnt when my mentor said sometimes we should learn to say the word as simple as "NO". But not for selfish reasons or out of wickedness. And if You consider to borrow someones some money, ensure the individual has a reliable source to pay back, and there should be an agreement to wish you both hold unto. Don't say he's my church member, not everyone in church this day have the mind of Jesus Christ. Some are just devils in human nature.

My own experience www.nairaland.com/2770256/online-betrayal-own-experience

cold:

This should have raised the red flag for you. Be wary of anyone who goes 'i'm a good christian' 'by his special grace' 'god's willing' bla..bla..bla whilst trying to borrow money or anything from you. Such people never pay back. Take that from me

Outstandingly true Sir.

Those that have ripped me off or tried to have always used religion.

Escalze:
People can never be appreciative
This is why I don't like helping people out.
Even if you help them today, they will forget you tomorrow.

Are u God. Do you know how many times God has helped you but u ignored Him. It's even better yo give to people who you don't expect anything from.

ShakurM:
One rule when helping people on a financial level, I give the the money I won't even need back incase of stories that touch..

Exactly. Ask for 10k I will dash u 1k. Ask for 50k, I will dash u 2500. I no dey borrow person money again mbanu!!!

micronut:
Happy Sunday Fellas! Today makes it exactly 1year that the incident happened. And as a man, i had swept it aside because it was a chicken change (Small cash), but i felt it is worth sharing, at least to help all those who may fall victim of people that beg for help, every now and then, particularly online. Yes! It's a good thing to help, it is one of those things i love doing, but the wicked people have made helping a hard thing to do.

Today, while surfing the net and Nairaland particularly, i came across a guy that needed 10k badly for his startup business, i wish i could help cos i have the means but i remember my experience.

On 28th of Nov. 2014, I bought a University pre-degree scratch cards via e-transact for my junior sister at 15k, luckily she was given admission in another University that same day... I came to nairaland to sell the card at 10k after the 3rd day of buying it.

Luckily, a young girl called me about few hours after, told me she needed the form. I said owk, that she should pay into an account and i would send the pin. She said she is scared not to be defrauded.I smiled and told her she has nothing to worry about. After 2hrs she called me back along with her bf, the guy chat me up on whatsapp and he said, they have fear that they just can't trust nairaland guys. I said fine, if that is the case...Can i also trust you too? He responded saying they are good Christians, that it is even me that they are scared of.

I told him, owk.. I would send the pin, they should make sure they send my money on Monday, cos the day was on a Sunday. And that they should send me their Facebook ID. I did add them immediately and send the pin.

I Checked the University portal that Sunday evening and discovered they have used the pin, saw all her data... she had filled the form, submitted and printed exam photo card. I called her, she said yes they filled the form at a cyber cafe.. I wish her all the best.

Fast forward to Monday evening, i didn't see any payment in respect of that, no message from both end. After two days, i call the girl.. She begged me that something happened and that they have not forgotten, hopefully on Friday. After Friday, no show.. I Called again, this time, it's the boyfriend, you need to see how this guy was telling he is expecting one money in d next few weeks. I Laughed at both of them and gave them 2weeks deadline after which i would stop asking them and pray they would be paid back in folds. After 2weeks, no show again.. I saw them on Facebook doing big boy and girl lovers and using loving up dp, i just smile.

I have to call them for the last time, that am done with them, and told them frankly that am bigger than 10k, just don't want the card to waste. It could have been better if they had begged for it. Till tomorrow, i never heard from them again.

Moral lesson: Before you help, ensure you are helping the right person and not taking out of your little to enrich another, because their are thousands of fake Guys, folks that are not just trustworthy and many fraudsters out there.

NB: You may share your experience for others to learn too. It makes men and women to be much more watchful and to be be extra careful as well.

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micronut:
Happy Sunday Fellas! Today makes it exactly 1year that the incident happened. And as a man, i had swept it aside because it was a chicken change (Small cash), but i felt it is worth sharing, at least to help all those who may fall victim of people that beg for help, every now and then, particularly online. Yes! It's a good thing to help, it is one of those things i love doing, but the wicked people have made helping a hard thing to do.

Today, while surfing the net and Nairaland particularly, i came across a guy that needed 10k badly for his startup business, i wish i could help cos i have the means but i remember my experience.

On 28th of Nov. 2014, I bought a University pre-degree scratch cards via e-transact for my junior sister at 15k, luckily she was given admission in another University that same day... I came to nairaland to sell the card at 10k after the 3rd day of buying it.

Luckily, a young girl called me about few hours after, told me she needed the form. I said owk, that she should pay into an account and i would send the pin. She said she is scared not to be defrauded.I smiled and told her she has nothing to worry about. After 2hrs she called me back along with her bf, the guy chat me up on whatsapp and he said, they have fear that they just can't trust nairaland guys. I said fine, if that is the case...Can i also trust you too? He responded saying they are good Christians, that it is even me that they are scared of.

I told him, owk.. I would send the pin, they should make sure they send my money on Monday, cos the day was on a Sunday. And that they should send me their Facebook ID. I did add them immediately and send the pin.

I Checked the University portal that Sunday evening and discovered they have used the pin, saw all her data... she had filled the form, submitted and printed exam photo card. I called her, she said yes they filled the form at a cyber cafe.. I wish her all the best.

Fast forward to Monday evening, i didn't see any payment in respect of that, no message from both end. After two days, i call the girl.. She begged me that something happened and that they have not forgotten, hopefully on Friday. After Friday, no show.. I Called again, this time, it's the boyfriend, you need to see how this guy was telling he is expecting one money in d next few weeks. I Laughed at both of them and gave them 2weeks deadline after which i would stop asking them and pray they would be paid back in folds. After 2weeks, no show again.. I saw them on Facebook doing big boy and girl lovers and using loving up dp, i just smile.

I have to call them for the last time, that am done with them, and told them frankly that am bigger than 10k, just don't want the card to waste. It could have been better if they had begged for it. Till tomorrow, i never heard from them again.

Moral lesson: Before you help, ensure you are helping the right person and not taking out of your little to enrich another, because their are thousands of fake Guys, folks that are not just trustworthy and many fraudsters out there.

NB: You may share your experience for others to learn too. It makes men and women to be much more watchful and to be be extra careful as well.

please give me the girl or boy username on facebook and also the guy whatsapp number. They will pay your money.

My guy Micronut, a mon iru won ebi naa ni won. I had a similar experience, but just let it go bro. U r more than that.

They taught they have seen maga was that... They might have been doing it before but God will catch them one day because i know they are yahoo_yahoo

XaintJoel20:

You stole those words from my mouth. I have been taught a bitter lesson by close friends and have resolve to adopt this policy.

So called friends are the worst. True.

cold:

This should have raised the red flag for you. Be wary of anyone who goes 'i'm a good christian' 'by his special grace' 'god's willing' bla..bla..bla whilst trying to borrow money or anything from you. Such people never pay back. Take that from me

You know them too well

I hardly help people these days and even if I want to help I do it in market places to. be safe....I don't know .. I have broken Jesus Christ code of conduct

Kirinwa:
Op forget that yarn; if they needed it, they could have begged for it. Like you'll give them? Taaa! If I hear.

That said you said you saw their data. Oya post am or forever remain silent.

I learnt nothing from this bullshit.

abi na u or u are connected to them...this one wey u dey hala like this