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Matters Arising by alexohams2000(m): 6:28pm On Nov 29, 2015
MATTERS ARISING!

CHIJIOKE IS LIVING WITH HIS MOTHER IN TWO BEDROOM RENTED APARTMENT BEFORE HE GOT MARRIED LAST MONTH. ON MONDAY, HIS WIFE TOLD HIM POLITELY THAT IT IS BETTER FOR HIM TO RENT ANOTHER APARTMENT FOR HIS MOTHER, AND ALSO HIRE A HOUSEHELP THAT WILL TAKE CARE OF HER TOO. CHIJIOKE ASKED HIS WIFE REASON FOR HER SUDDEN DECISION, SHE TOLD HIM THAT IS NOT ADVICABLE FOR MOTHER-INLAW AND DAUGHTER-INLAW TO LIVE TOGETHER, AND BECAUSE SUCH ARRANGEMENT RESULTS TO CONSTANT QUARREL (ONE WILL BE LOOKING FOR FAULT WHERE THERE IS NONE). IT IS BETTER FOR THEM TO LIVE APART AND VISIT HER ALWAYS, SO THAT THEY WILL HAVE HAPPY FAMILY. CHIJIOKE FLARED UP AND SHOUTED ON HIS WIFE THAT SHE HATES HIS MOTHER, AND LEFT WITH ANNOYANCE. NOW, HE IS THINKING ABOUT WHAT HIS WIFE TOLD HIM.QUESTIONSsad1) IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH HIS WIFE’S COMMENT?(2) DO YOU THINK HIS WIFE HATES HIS MOTHER AS CHIJIOKE SAID, OR SHE IS TRYING TO AVOID FUTURE PROBLEM?(3) WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO CHIJIOKE? ENJOY THE REST OF YOUR DAY.

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Re: Matters Arising by Miami11: 6:36pm On Nov 29, 2015
The wife is right. The newly wed's need privacy and room to grow and know each other before a third party joins them.

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Re: Matters Arising by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 29, 2015
I dont even understand why a wife and her mother inlaw should stay in the same house in the first place.


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Re: Matters Arising by MRBrownJ: 7:16pm On Nov 29, 2015
if Chijioke can afford it then yes he should do exactly what wifey proposed, and tell his mama that she will always be welcome at their home.

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