promgurlP:
Hi there fellow romancelanders, this is actually my first time writing here and I'm writing this out of frustration and anger. Well here it goes:

Today before my boyfriend left for work, he asked me to give him N2000 that when he gets back he'll give it back in the evening. But I told him I wanted to use the money for my personal use. He then asked me what I wanted to use the money for and I was like it's my money and I don't have to tell you. Initially he thought I was joking cos he asked me like three times but I gave him the same answer.
He insulted me calling me a useless and selfish person, that I'm very inconsiderate and wicked. He said it's today he knows I'm a certified calabar witch and the kind of hatred he has for me is making him feel disgusted. At first I was laughing, thinking he was joking but when he said I'm not taking him seriously I knew this n.igga meant every word he had just said.
And the worst part of it all, he went to complain to my elder sister that I'm refusing to give him the money and I know fully well that he is in need of it urgently. He collected the N2000 from my sister and left my house.
I'm just sitting here wondering, so it's because of only 2k my boyfriend is behaving like this, why did he have to embarrass me like that in front of my sister by complaining to her and borrowing money form her too? I'm feeling so bad that I've chosen not to speak to him again, at least not this night. What do you all think, was I wrong? What should I do now?

ellabooz:


I want to recommend you to someone very nice,trust me! You sound really good

dachaste:





Ooh ok thank. Back to the subject I guess he was angry cos u refused to tell him wot u were gonna use the money for. To me it sounded as if u dint just want to give him. since u refused to state wot u'll use it for





Coming to think of it. He's ur BF and wots so personal u couldn't tell him? Am sure he even knw ur family well.

kingslly:
So what dobu really want,u want us to help u curse ur boyfriend?

promgurlP:
Hi there fellow romancelanders, this is actually my first time writing here and I'm writing this out of frustration and anger. Well here it goes:

Today before my boyfriend left for work, he asked me to give him N2000 that when he gets back he'll give it back in the evening. But I told him I wanted to use the money for my personal use. He then asked me what I wanted to use the money for and I was like it's my money and I don't have to tell you. Initially he thought I was joking cos he asked me like three times but I gave him the same answer.
He insulted me calling me a useless and selfish person, that I'm very inconsiderate and wicked. He said it's today he knows I'm a certified calabar witch and the kind of hatred he has for me is making him feel disgusted. At first I was laughing, thinking he was joking but when he said I'm not taking him seriously I knew this n.igga meant every word he had just said.
And the worst part of it all, he went to complain to my elder sister that I'm refusing to give him the money and I know fully well that he is in need of it urgently. He collected the N2000 from my sister and left my house.
I'm just sitting here wondering, so it's because of only 2k my boyfriend is behaving like this, why did he have to embarrass me like that in front of my sister by complaining to her and borrowing money form her too? I'm feeling so bad that I've chosen not to speak to him again, at least not this night. What do you all think, was I wrong? What should I do now?

happyjuliet:
Lol Op ur bf broke oooo common 2k na he gather all those names give u naa wa ooo, d point is, u are just his side chick coz a guy who truly loves u won't utter such.

JustHere2Observ:
Babe break up with his broke ass. He is not a useful boyfriend.

IamTheophilus:
lmfao...oya mi lenu oh

promgurlP:
Hi there fellow romancelanders, this is actually my first time writing here and I'm writing this out of frustration and anger. Well here it goes:

Today before my boyfriend left for work, he asked me to give him N2000 that when he gets back he'll give it back in the evening. But I told him I wanted to use the money for my personal use. He then asked me what I wanted to use the money for and I was like it's my money and I don't have to tell you. Initially he thought I was joking cos he asked me like three times but I gave him the same answer.
He insulted me calling me a useless and selfish person, that I'm very inconsiderate and wicked. He said it's today he knows I'm a certified calabar witch and the kind of hatred he has for me is making him feel disgusted. At first I was laughing, thinking he was joking but when he said I'm not taking him seriously I knew this n.igga meant every word he had just said.
And the worst part of it all, he went to complain to my elder sister that I'm refusing to give him the money and I know fully well that he is in need of it urgently. He collected the N2000 from my sister and left my house.
I'm just sitting here wondering, so it's because of only 2k my boyfriend is behaving like this, why did he have to embarrass me like that in front of my sister by complaining to her and borrowing money form her too? I'm feeling so bad that I've chosen not to speak to him again, at least not this night. What do you all think, was I wrong? What should I do now?

kingslly:
I no dey hear yoruba

promgurlP:
For you to know, I've never in my life asked my boyfriend for money ever since we started our relationship... I don't collect money from him even if he begs me cos he needs it more than me.. so don't say that about me please

dachaste:
Sorry jus curious, are u guys staying in D same HAus with ur sis n BF?

dachaste:





Ooh ok thank. Back to the subject I guess he was angry cos u refused to tell him wot u were gonna use the money for. To me it sounded as if u dint just want to give him. since u refused to state wot u'll use it for





Coming to think of it. He's ur BF and wots so personal u couldn't tell him? Am sure he even knw ur family well.

Eddodoh:
Ladies like d op do fail my test. I always test ladies by asking for financial assistance pretending to be broke at the moment or giving them some cash to keep for me to know how they deal with financial issue.

Most tymz dey are shock to discover it was a trial period. They lucky ones never regret.

It has really help me cos we learnt to trust, give & sacrifice 4 each other.

naijaboiy:
So you just want to justify your actions.

What was so difficult in lending him the money? And if you knew you were really going to use the money then why didn't you simply tell him what you wanted it for.

You refused to lend him the money and yet you refused to give him a tangible reason why you can't lend him.

I'm sure if he was the one you would have said he was spending his money on another girl.

What Is a relationship if you both cannot share little things?

I won't join the band wagon of people insulting your boyfriend. You are a very selfish,inconsiderate and stingy girlfriend.

And you are the cause of that quarrel. Drop that pride and go apologize to him for your actions if there is love in your heart for him.

Next Thread PLEASE!!!

9jageekz:



Give This person A Beer!

prettythicksme:
U self stingy 2k small naa

JuanDeDios:

Your post makes no sense.

prettythicksme:
who is dis one for christ sake?

robosky02:
ok

prettythicksme:
Are u d one?