Hey guys, how many times should a married couple, both working very hard to make a living (9 - 5 job) should make love in a week in other to maintain a healthy relationship! Also is it normal for couples to make a time table for their love making so that both parties should be prepared and respect the days and wont give any excuse or should they allow it as the feelings brings it on?
Please only matured married couples should comment. Kids keep off this tread!
Thank you!


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Ok, guys the reason this question was asked is because, you know how it is when couples are just dating in the beginning, they cant get enough of each other, they make love every single opportunity they have...but as the days turn into months and years then, the passion begins to slow down.... The man starts working very hard because he has to feed wife with the kids thus getting more tired. The wife start concentrating in training the kids and making sure every where is clean and food is ready.... then one day they both realize that its been 2 weeks since they made love! So my question . should couples still maintain 4 - 5 times loving making a week which they were used to in the past, or is still normal and no need to worry if the do it once or twice in a week..

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What does the Op want to know about what happens between couples who av been married for years

akinsal:
What does the Op want to know about what happens between couples who av been married for years

You did not see where i said kids should not comment?

I have my opinion. I think its valid but I'm not married so....

Except of course if you don't mind, OP.

emorse:
I have my opinion. I think its valid but I'm not married so....

Except of course if you don't mind, OP.

Whats your own opinion? will appreciate if its a good one....

bokom:


You did not see where i said kids should not comment?

Gerrarahia. Do i look like a kid
Some things are better not known my guy

bokom:


Whats your own opinion? will appreciate if its a good one....

OK. I think love making should come from the heart and not the head. Its not something to be planned for. No matter how busy a couple is, there'll surely be moments when all they crave would be to be in company of the ones they love, which would naturally lead to love making.


However, keeping the spark alive must come from the head. If they intentionally do stuff that makes them miss each other when they are not together, (eg occasional weekend hangouts), lovemaking would be great.


In essence, the couple must not stop dating. That way, the spark from courtship can be maintained and their relationship will remain healthy.


A humble marriage counsel from a single guy. lol

emorse:


OK. I think love making should come from the heart and not the head. Its not something to be planned for. No matter how busy a couple is, there'll surely be moments when all they crave would be to be in company of the ones they love, which would naturally lead to love making.


However, keeping the spark alive must come from the head. If they intentionally do stuff that makes them miss each other when they are not together, (eg occasional weekend hangouts), lovemaking would be great.


In essence, the couple must not stop dating. That way, the spark from courtship can be maintained and their relationship will remain healthy.


A humble marriage counsel from a single guy. lol

Nice one bro! Thanks a lot! you seemed well experienced