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8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by gistmeloveblog: 4:21pm On Dec 11, 2015
While some wedding jitters is okay, you should look out for things that signify that your marriage might not last.
1. You do not see eye to eye: Yes, couples could have arguments regarding a few things during the wedding planning. But if you find that you do not see eye-to-eye on anything at all, it calls to question how compatible you are.
2. Your families cannot compromise: Marriage is not just a blending of two people, it is also a blending of two families, and the wedding process is an opportunity to see how they will get along. Like with couples, some argument is fine, but you should be concerned when it is over every single thing.

3. You feel disconnected: You and your partner are planning a lifetime commitment, you should be feeling excited and bonded at this point. You should both be looking forward to what life should be like after the wedding.
4. You are too focused on the wedding: If you find that 100 percent of your energy is going into the wedding and you are not seeing beyond it, then you should be worried. A wedding is only a day, a marriage is for life. You should be focusing more effort on what your life will be like after the wedding than what the day is about.
5. You are not involved in the planning: While you should be planning for your marriage, your wedding is also something that should interest you. You should want to make sure it reflects you as a couple. But if you would rather not bother, and you leave all the planning, ideas, and opinion to someone else, it might be because you are trying to emotionally detach yourself from the event, and this is the first step to detaching yourself from the marriage.
6. You cannot find the reason for the marriage: When you think about it, you cannot find one real reason for getting married and whatever reason you do have sounds silly or not enough. This might be a sign that you should think again.
7. Your gut feeling is telling you: Most times, our heart tells us what we need to know. A lot of people can feel in their guts that something is wrong in a particular situation. If you gut is telling you that this is a mistake, it probably is.
8. You do not feel joy: No, we are not talking about unexplained smiling or laughter, but being married is a thing of joy. You should feel grateful and joyful for this life change you are about to undergo.

https://www.naij.com/663041-8-signs-union-might-not-last.html

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by gistmeloveblog: 4:21pm On Dec 11, 2015
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by pet4ril(f): 4:25pm On Dec 11, 2015
That's serious like seriously
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Cholls(m): 4:31pm On Dec 11, 2015
My brother you're ash.
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by dovelike(f): 5:30pm On Dec 11, 2015
Nooooooooooooo
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by damton(m): 7:03pm On Dec 11, 2015
if she loves your Bank account and car more than you yourself and as a person

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by lasisi69(m): 7:03pm On Dec 11, 2015
End time post... Nagging wife will always find a fault likewise the men

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by looseweight: 7:03pm On Dec 11, 2015
What rock your boat might sink mine.
I don't give any sense to most relationship tips..
Humans are different, so different strokes for different people.

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Toeyoursea(m): 7:04pm On Dec 11, 2015
For real Mehn cool
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Akshow: 7:05pm On Dec 11, 2015
K
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Omotayor123(f): 7:05pm On Dec 11, 2015
Those kind of signs means... You are not even in a Union!

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Lovexme(m): 7:05pm On Dec 11, 2015
9. Mother-in-law VS Wife battles.

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Rexphobia(m): 7:05pm On Dec 11, 2015
Groans... Not again
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Demmocrats(m): 7:06pm On Dec 11, 2015
OP nice analysis, you are correct.

Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by SAMBARRY: 7:06pm On Dec 11, 2015
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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by temmytope1234(f): 7:07pm On Dec 11, 2015
Fact
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by sirwilly1(m): 7:07pm On Dec 11, 2015
waiting for who to quote
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by gistmeloveblog: 7:07pm On Dec 11, 2015
lasisi69:
End time post

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Flashh: 7:08pm On Dec 11, 2015
These aren't what I expected to see.

Please give us the main reasons why it won't last.

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by YOUNGKAHUNA: 7:08pm On Dec 11, 2015
Plenty people no go last long be that....cause most people go through this

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by allanphash7(m): 7:08pm On Dec 11, 2015
9: The guy is broke

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by passionate88: 7:09pm On Dec 11, 2015
yawn sad angry
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by lonelydora(m): 7:12pm On Dec 11, 2015
Ok nah
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Oxytocin(m): 7:12pm On Dec 11, 2015
Isssoryt..
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by loomer: 7:13pm On Dec 11, 2015
Una be God? If e go last e go last
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by emperorchedda(m): 7:19pm On Dec 11, 2015
Number 4 is a lesson to all girls
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by elobyobi: 7:25pm On Dec 11, 2015
Very true. But then, people change. Although one shouldn't make ANY wedding plans until one sees that change. That way, nothing's lost.
Except maybe time
And op u forgot sexual incompatibility.

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Adesiji77: 7:25pm On Dec 11, 2015
Nairaland and lists....
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Nobody: 7:27pm On Dec 11, 2015
1 sign Op relationship won't last...


This post...
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by missyadorable(f): 7:32pm On Dec 11, 2015
9..If you don't have a male child and your husband is yeebo

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Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by fonyluv: 7:34pm On Dec 11, 2015
allanphash7:
9: The guy is broke


Dats nt a gud reason cos u can still find luv witout cash
Re: 8 Signs Your Union Might Not Last by Cutesexy1(f): 7:34pm On Dec 11, 2015
Brb

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