If you really want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back,there are some of the steps that you can follow to have more success.Breakups happen,but if you lost someone doesn't mean that you have lost him forever.Here are five steps that will allow you to let your ex girlfriend know that you're still interested in being a fixture in her life,so that you can potentially put things in the right away.

1 - If you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back,start by reaching out and touching her.Playing too hard to get is not the best way to approach this,though communication should be in minimal.Reach out to her and let her know that you are still interested in being a part of her life.

2 - Drop her an e-mail to keep in touch.If you do not find casual,easy going methods of communication with your ex,you will never be able to get her back.Staying in touch is very important,but keep it to casual messages like "Hey,what's up?" rather than with love poetry.

3 - If you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back,stay away from other girls.If you want to get your girlfriend back you have to be honest and faithful to her.

4 - Remember the important things.Part of learning how to get your ex girlfriend back means treating your girl like a princess.One of the easiest ways to do this is to show her that you care by remembering the most important anniversaries and dates in her life.Send her a card on her birthday and let her know you're thinking about her in a harmless and positive way.

5 - Call and text,but in minimal when you're reaching out to her.You shouldn't be afraid to send your ex girlfriend a text message here and there.Uncertainty is something that should be avoided in life and love,so call her up and let her know what's going on so that she knows where you are and what you're doing.Let her know that you care and that you still think about her.

There is no exact process or science to the process of learning how to get your ex girlfriend back,but there are some pretty clear cut suggestions out there that will steer you in the right direction.Obviously maintaining contact and communication is absolutely vital to the rekindling process,but do not over do it,otherwise you may scare her away.

These are just the beginning steps in how to get you ex girl back.

I hope you get this helpful and if you are interested to get back with your ex partner, hit me up and I will post more things on this topic.

mitjad:

I hope you get this helpful and if you are interested to get back with your ex partner, hit me up and I will post more things on this topic.

No ta!

Sorry to say. . .but all you've said made no sense especially if the guy in question is a nuisance that was worth dumping!

ThoniaSlim:

Sorry to say. . .but all you've said made no sense especially if the guy in question is a nuisance that was worth dumping!

hear hear - this will make his 'reaching out calls and e-mails' all the more irritating

ThoniaSlim:

Sorry to say. . .but all you've said made no sense especially if the guy in question is a nuisance that was worth dumping!  

luxoire:

hear hear - this will make his 'reaching out calls and e-mails' all the more irritating

1. Men and Women are not bags and baggages that can be picked up and dumped at random, friendships can be fleeting such that they come and go, however real relationships not built on sex can still be worked at because they are not things that can be picked up and dumped at random.

2. Hello the topic actually has an intrinsic statement/constraint that it was the guy that dumped the girl in the first place. Meaning that the girl is still single and searching, meaning that the girl is probably still hurting.

3. If the girl dumped the guy instead, then my million dollar advise is for the man to move on and find a better Cinderella.

luxoire:

hear hear - this will make his 'reaching out calls and e-mails' all the more irritating

Exactly. . .there are just some ex bfs you do not wanna associate with. . .just the sight of them alone lives you disgusted. . .now if we talking of such a guy involved. . .Then the more he contacts you. . .the more he makes you feeling disgusted at him!

No2Atheism:

1. Men and Women are not bags and baggages that can be picked up and dumped at random, friendships can be fleeting such that they come and go, however real relationships not built on sex can still be worked at because they are not things that can be picked up and dumped at random.

2. Hello the topic actually has an intrinsic statement/constraint that it was the guy that dumped the girl in the first place. Meaning that the girl is still single and searching, meaning that the girl is probably still hurting.

3. If the girl dumped the guy instead, then my million dollar advise is for the man to move on and find a better Cinderella.

Talk to the hand!

ThoniaSlim:

Exactly. . .there are just some ex bfs you do not wanna associate with. . .just the sight of them alone lives you disgusted. . .now if we talking of such a guy involved. . .Then the more he contacts you. . .the more he makes you feeling disgusted at him!

How exactly does a guy go from being the love of your life to being a vermin.

ThoniaSlim:

Talk to the hand!

Which of them,

No2Atheism:

Which of them,

The mid finger! 

ThoniaSlim:

The mid finger! 

I don't have an engagement ring for you so thanks but not thanks,

No2Atheism:

How exactly does a guy go from being the love of your life to being a vermin.

I can think of serval ways just pick one:

lying
cheating
beating me
stealing from me
harming a family member
verbal abuse
being a 419er

There are no 'laws and rules' in order to get someone back. You make it known to that particular person that you want them back and it is within time and the way they truly feel about you and the relationship that often determines if they will come back or not.  

No2Atheism:

I don't have an engagement ring for you so thanks but not thanks,

Even if you did hun, it wouldn't go on that finger anyway.    

sistawoman:

I can think of serval ways just pick one:

lying
cheating
beating me
stealing from me
harming a family member
verbal abuse
being a 419er

Thank you jare.

No2Atheism:

I don't have an engagement ring for you so thanks but not thanks,

Ignored. . .cus thatz only gonna happen in your wet dreams dude!

sistawoman:

I can think of serval ways just pick one:

lying
cheating
beating me
stealing from me
harming a family member
verbal abuse
being a 419er

@sistawoman, how u dey. How's ur husband and family.

@sistawoman, yes you are correct that those things can change the perspective of a woman towards a man, nevertheless, even the most hardened criminal can still be reformed. Hence if true love really existed between the two of them in the first place from the woman towards the man. I believe the woman should forgive and at least give the man another chance.
Because trust me it takes a lot of courage and humility and reformation for a man to try to go back to a woman he has hurt initially.
Love is one of the few things that can make a man want to endeaour shame in other to win back his baby.

ThoniaSlim:

Ignored. . .cus thatz only gonna happen in your wet dreams dude!

You are flattering yourself to think you are in my wet dreams.

Nevertheless thanks but no thanks am still not interested.

Secretz:

There are no 'laws and rules' in order to get someone back. You make it known to that particular person that you want them back and it is within time and the way they truly feel about you and the relationship that often determines if they will come back or not.  

Even if you did hun, it wouldn't go on that finger anyway.    

Thank you jare. 

Have you heard of rock displacement, if i choose, don't be suprised that my bling would surely displace, whoever's bling is on that middle finger of hers.

Anyway sha, I am single but not available, hence me sef am not interested in any middle fingers for now.
.

No2Atheism:

@sistawoman, how u dey. How's ur husband and family.

@sistawoman, yes you are correct that those things can change the perspective of a woman towards a man, nevertheless, even the most hardened criminal can still be reformed. Hence if true love really existed between the two of them in the first place from the woman towards the man. I believe the woman should forgive and at least give the man another chance.
Because trust me it takes a lot of courage and humility and reformation for a man to try to go back to a woman he has hurt initially.
Love is one of the few things that can make a man want to endeaour shame in other to win back his baby.

I hate to sound mean and hateful but all the items i listed are deal breakers for me. If a man does them he has to go.

I allowed room one time for a man that hit me to come back into my life. Within two days he hit me again. This time he lift my house in beautiful silver bracelets one for each wrist. He then was given free room and board for 90 days and told he could not contact me for 3 years or he would go back to his accomadations for 2 years.

Some men do not grow up until they actually lose someone or something dare to them, hence the fact that a is misbehaving does not always mean he does not love the lady.

It sometimes just means that the guy is still basically immature and irresponsible for now.

Responsibility sometimes comes with increased maturity, hence it may not necessarily be in the interest of the lady to completely refuse to even listen to the plead for forgiveness and second chance.

Ladies should understand that if the guy did not have any attachment to the woman in the first place, he would have simply continued to go about messing up without bordering to look back towards the lady in question.

sistawoman:

I hate to sound mean and hateful but all the items i listed are deal breakers for me. If a man does them he has to go.

I allowed room one time for a man that hit me to come back into my life. Within two days he hit me again. This time he lift my house in beautiful silver bracelets one for each wrist. He then was given free room and board for 90 days and told he could not contact me for 3 years or he would go back to his accomadations for 2 years.

At Sister woman i get your point completely, however please note the following:

1. The guy messed up the first time
2. You loved him and decided to give him a second chance
3. He messed up again, hence in this case he no longer deserves another chance.


In my own particular case, I am talking about men:

- who did not beat their girl and have never lifted a finger against her.
- but who just decided to leave her for no sensible reason.

Those kind of men are the ones that i am talking about that ladies show at least consider the option of giving a second chance.

But why would I allow someone who broke my heart and left me the first time to come back and maybe do it again.

Esp. if i have healed from him leaving me.

For a woman not to have closure or at least know what she did for the guy to walk away is very very hurtful. I could never let that person back in my space.

Some men simply do not have a reason for the temporary insanity/madness. In some cases its a case of "intimacy problem" or panic at the loss of masculine freedom, that pushes some men to make rash decisions about their relationships.

Women are emotional beings.
Men are not emotional beings, hence men tend to make decisions based on logic not emotions, this irreversible sometimes results in women being dumped for no reasonable reasons and thus results in the women having no closure.


@sistawoman i understand your point and where you are coming from about the issue of women not wanting a man who broke their heart once to break it again.

However the truth is that what is love without risks,

@No2Atheism

. . .I interested in a ******** like you. . .( You leave me mortified!)


Anywayz. . .like I said before suck on the mid finger!. . .Have a lovely night!

ThoniaSlim:

@No2Atheism

. . .I interested in a ******** like you. . .( You leave me mortified!)


Anywayz. . .like I said before suck on the mid finger!. . .Have a lovely night!

Wat does the ********* stand for.

Why would you want your ex girlfriend back. Have you resolved the issues that caused you to break up in the first place? Is she now a changed woman? Did you previously break up for some reason that was not so bad, and is that no longer the case now?

If not, then Bleep her. If she cheated, Bleep her.

sistawoman:

I can think of serval ways just pick one:

lying
cheating
beating me
stealing from me
harming a family member
verbal abuse
being a 419er

imagine a character like this wanting me to take him back whetehr or not he has changed is for someone else to discover not me!

Hmmm, who said getting your ex back is difficult?? Just win the lottery!

Winning the lottery is the hard part dear .


@ ThoniaSlim & No2Atheism

I think you're both subconsciously attracted to yourselves. ROFL.

^^^^^....#can't stop laffing...