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5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 9:34pm On Jun 06, 2009
Hi, hope you're having a good day?   grin

Another thread got me thinking. . . . . 

What 5 things/traits MUST a man/woman possess before you can get involved with him/her?

Also what 5 things are a big NO NO . . . . . ?

When thinking of your list, I am talking of NON NEGOTIABLE THINGS/TRAITS!!!   tongue

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by 190: 9:37pm On Jun 06, 2009
well my #1 option is that she must posses the name secretzz!! embarassed embarassed
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 9:42pm On Jun 06, 2009
190:

well my #1 option is that she must posses the name secretzz!! embarassed embarassed

sorry, can't help you with that one. woman wrapper. tongue
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 9:45pm On Jun 06, 2009
Sorry, should have put mine. . . .

MUST HAVE/BE:

1. Hygienic (this includes having a well looked after body). grin
2. Intelligent cool
3. Mentally/Emotionally stable. lipsrsealed
4. Sexual (This is not permission to sleep with others) tongue
5. Socially Stable


NO NO:

1. Un-hygienic (not in the slightest-some people think it's okay to bath every other day)! lipsrsealed
2. Lack of intelligence (some people think 'Yes, No, I dunno' is a valid response to a good conversation). tongue
3. Not addicted to porn (I wanna be your porn star in the bed room). shocked
4. Proud (I hate it with a passion! When it comes to matters of the heart, pride goes in the bin!) cool
5. EXTREMELY Overweight (I mean obese-no disrespect). undecided

This is my list, so no vex me oh! tongue tongue tongue
Each to their own. kiss

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by C2H5OH(f): 9:49pm On Jun 06, 2009
MUST HAVE[list]
[li]God fearing[/li]
[li]BLACK (maybe one day this will change) and Presentable (please take care of your teeth)[/li]
[li]Trustworthy, Honest (not to a fault), Respectful[/li]
[li]   still thinking[/li]
[li]Good listener, Understanding, Communicative, Supportive[/li]
[li]Fuzzy, Romantic, Motherly, Good Cook or willing to learn[/li]
[/list]

NO WAY
[list]
[li]Ambitionless[/li]
[li]Cheater[/li]
[li]Fat/Overweight[/li]
[li]Druggie/Smoker[/li]
[li]Dirty and Insensitive[/li]
[li]Tomboyish or Masculine[/li] == Disgusting
[/list]

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by 190: 9:54pm On Jun 06, 2009
must have
1, she must bear the name secretz
2, hardworking
3, have respect and worship me like a semi-Gawd not like my current gurl who is sturborn 2 d teeth
4, pretty face
5, .posses enuf man U and arsenal (bobbie and backyard region)
6, great body
7, must neva cheat under NO circumstance even if im outta d country!
8, must be extreamly jelous ova me!
9, i de com make i tink about more

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by C2H5OH(f): 9:59pm On Jun 06, 2009
pahaha secretz, you want a nympho cheesy

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 10:02pm On Jun 06, 2009
C2H5OH:

pahaha secretz, you want a nympho cheesy

lmao!! No I don't!!

Clean, Sexual Intelligent dude would be suffice. tongue

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by lannre(m): 10:10pm On Jun 06, 2009
Five will be too much. One Must- God Fearing and One No- lies
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jun 06, 2009
He must have a goatee! grin
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by oyinda3(f): 10:14pm On Jun 06, 2009
I don't really have many must haves or no ways. lol except he must be conscientious, kind hearted, good looking (to me at least) and appreciates me.

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by lannre(m): 10:16pm On Jun 06, 2009
@ Ibikaye

You appreciate toys smiley

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jun 06, 2009
lannre:

@ Ibikaye

You appreciate toys smiley
Huh

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by C2H5OH(f): 10:16pm On Jun 06, 2009
lol
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by na2day2(m): 10:22pm On Jun 06, 2009
Secretz:

Sorry, should have put mine. . . .

MUST HAVE/BE:

1. Hygienic (this includes having a well looked after body).  grin
2. Intelligent    cool
3. Mentally/Emotionally stable.   lipsrsealed
4. Sexual (This is not permission to sleep with others)   tongue
5. Socially Stable


NO NO:

1. Un-hygienic (not in the slightest-some people think it's okay to bath every other day)!   lipsrsealed
2. Lack of intelligence (some people think 'Yes, No, I dunno' is a valid response to a good conversation).   tongue
3. Not addicted to porn (I wanna be your porn star in the bed room).   shocked
4. Proud   (I hate it with a passion! When it comes to matters of the heart, pride goes in the bin!)   cool
5. EXTREMELY Overweight (I mean obese-no disrespect).  undecided

This is my list, so no vex me oh!   tongue     tongue     tongue
Each to their own.   kiss

this thread na jamb oooo.  shocked shocked shocked shocked

oya, make i take ur no no list analyze am  smiley

1. Un-hygienic (not in the slightest-some people think it's okay to bath every other day)!   lipsrsealed
Un-hygienic :- e go hard u ooo, wetin bi Un-hygienic? i hope say u no put lifting up of the toilet sit sha  undecided undecided undecided

2. Lack of intelligence (some people think 'Yes, No, I dunno' is a valid response to a good conversation).   tongue
i hate to burst ur bubble but "Yes, No, I dunno" are very valid response in a man's world  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

3. Not addicted to porn (I wanna be your porn star in the bed room).   shocked
u get the 411 on this one  wink wink wink

4. Proud   (I hate it with a passion! When it comes to matters of the heart, pride goes in the bin!)   cool

does this include men's natural ego?  undecided undecided undecided

5. EXTREMELY Overweight (I mean obese-no disrespect).  undecided

what if he is rich like fat joe?  grin grin
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Igwe9(m): 10:29pm On Jun 06, 2009

Understanding, she must understand my likes and dislikes, also acknowledge the fact that i chose her out of  love not by force, hence should bear with me when i mistakenly vest my anger on her  grin
Satisfactory,  must be satisfied with what i can offer her.
uniqueness,  I so much value this, I'd like my woman to be original and innovative.
outspoken,   i hate critics but the truth is that it helps me to improve in whatever thing I'm doing . cool
entertaining,  i like an interesting and a good dancer, i mean seductive dance not konto or galala grin

dislike,
Insatiable,  both material and otherwise, i hate it to the core.
O! yes member, she must know her left and right. wink cool
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 10:33pm On Jun 06, 2009
na2day?:

this thread na jamb oooo.  shocked shocked shocked shocked

oya, make i take ur no no list analyze am  smiley
Un-hygienic :- e go hard u ooo, wetin bi Un-hygienic? i hope say u no put lifting up of the toilet sit sha  undecided undecided undecided
i hate to burst ur bubble but "Yes, No, I dunno" are very valid response in a man's world  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
u get the 411 on this one  wink wink wink

does this include men's natural ego?  undecided undecided undecided

what if he is rich like fat joe?  grin grin



Pele, you have tried. Hope you didn't hurt yourself sweety doing that ehn? kiss

I dont care if hes fat and rich like fat joe.  I'm a smallish kinda chic, don't want to be crushed, simple.   grin

Hygiene?? Sweet do you even have to ask? Would you be happy receive a hug from a girl who did not bath that day? or kiss a woman who's breath is harsh?  lipsrsealed

'Yes, no, i dunno', valid responses ehn? Is that the kind of 'dah dah' brainless woman fit enough to pass her genes to your children?   tongue

And of course I get the 411, I got to please him right?   cool

Oya, give me your list. wink

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by 190: 10:35pm On Jun 06, 2009
igwe sef still de get likes and dislikes! grin grin
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by fizzure: 10:42pm On Jun 06, 2009
I don't have up to 5 haves and no ways bt she needs to b

1. Caring

2. Crazy sexually

She musn't b

1. Fat

2. Materialistic
grin grin grin grin
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by na2day2(m): 10:43pm On Jun 06, 2009
Secretz:


Pele, you have tried. Hope you didn't hurt yourself sweety doing that ehn?  kiss

I dont care if hes fat and rich like fat joe.  I'm a smallish kinda chic, don't want to be crushed, simple.   grin

Hygiene?? Sweet do you even have to ask? Would you be happy receive a hug from a girl who did not bath that day? or kiss a woman who's breath is harsh?  lipsrsealed

'Yes, no, i dunno', valid responses ehn? Is that the kind of 'dah dah' brainless woman fit enough to pass her genes to your children?   tongue

And of course I get the 411, I got to please him right?   cool

Oya, give me your list.  wink

Pele, you have tried. Hope you didn't hurt yourself sweety doing that ehn?  kiss
my hospital bill dey wait for u for domot  tongue tongue tongue

I dont care if hes fat and rich like fat joe.  I'm a smallish kinda chic, don't want to be crushed, simple.   grin
never heard of small but might?  grin grin grin

Hygiene?? Sweet do you even have to ask? Would you be happy receive a hug from a girl who did not bath that day? or kiss a woman who's breath is harsh?  lipsrsealed
there are alot a guy can do even if she hasnt taken her bath or brushing her teeth, there is no place where it was written that we must kiss, action an action, carry go  grin grin grin

'Yes, no, i dunno', valid responses ehn? Is that the kind of 'dah dah' brainless woman fit enough to pass her genes to your children?   tongue
our papas don warn long ago say if u dey ask woman more than 3 words, na u dey buy trouble, for every word there are 3 unequal and opposite questions come back to hurt u. so for 3 words, 9 questions are coming back so we like to keep it short and simple, therefore Yes, no, i dunno' are very valid precious responses  grin grin grin grin

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Igwe9(m): 10:43pm On Jun 06, 2009
190:

igwe sef still de get likes and dislikes! grin grin
yes oooooo! but not limited to the aforementioned, the irony of the whole thing is that, atimes we end up getting the direct oppose of what we 've wished for. sad

Understand that you 're in Abuja, where?
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by C2H5OH(f): 11:14pm On Jun 06, 2009
igwe and 190 this your blossoming romance is unsightly o embarassed
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 11:19pm On Jun 06, 2009
C2H5OH:

igwe and 190 this your blossoming romance is unsightly o embarassed


roflmao grin
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Igwe9(m): 11:31pm On Jun 06, 2009
C2H5OH:

igwe and 190 this your blossoming romance is unsightly o embarassed
how do you mean carbon hydroxide? undecided

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Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by C2H5OH(f): 11:32pm On Jun 06, 2009
angry
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Igwe9(m): 11:36pm On Jun 06, 2009
C2H5OH:

angry
sad!
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by kaypumpin2(m): 11:41pm On Jun 06, 2009
1.Appreciative/Courteous

2.Honest

3.Good cook(non-negotiable)

4.Romantic

5.Intelligent

Of course the no-nos are the opposites of the must-haves. cool
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by 190: 11:50pm On Jun 06, 2009
@igwe
omo i de karu

@ch2
be warned
myself and igwe arent gay like u and ifeleke

@secretz
u knw i hav loff 4 u
i enjoyed our sex yesterday
can i com 4 more!
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Igwe9(m): 11:52pm On Jun 06, 2009
ok man, i dey City center!
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Secretz(f): 12:15am On Jun 07, 2009
190:

@igwe
omo i de karu

@ch2
be warned
myself and igwe arent gay like u and ifeleke

@secretz
u knw i hav loff 4 u
i enjoyed our sex yesterday
can i com 4 more!


Stop mistaking me with your 'friend' . tongue
Re: 5 Must Haves And No Ways In A Partner? by Sauron1: 12:18am On Jun 07, 2009
kay_pumpin:

1.Appreciative/Courteous

2.Honest

3.Good cook(non-negotiable)

4.Romantic

5.Intelligent

Of course the no-nos are the opposites of the must-haves. cool

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