In all/most cases, is every disappointment really a blessing in disguise? Would like some opinions.

In most cases, yes.I would use myself to testify. I met someone much much better than an ex of mine though i stil miss myex as a person, but my new relationship was something i neva could have imagined.

yes, especially in cases u were not responsible 4 d disappointment,

Monicaa:

In most cases, yes.I would use myself to testify. I met someone much much better than an ex of mine though i stil miss myex as a person, but my new relationship was something i neva could have imagined.

Ditto

I was made redundant in my role last yr [as a result of the credit crunch], and i thought it was all over but within a week's period in unemployment, i was offered a new role in a well respected institution [without an application] in such circumstances that i could not say no. The pay was double my previous role, the workload was like half of the previous one, there are so many perks including a free gym and anti-stress membership - now i get a massage like twice a week and i shed so much weight that i'm now slimmer than when i originally arrived the UK and silly people like startruck would readily swallow their words if they saw me now

whitelexi:

Ditto

I was made redundant in my role last yr [as a result of the credit crunch], and i thought it was all over but within a week's period in unemployment, i was offered a new role in a well respected institution [without an application] in such circumstances that i could not say no. The pay was double my previous role, the workload was like half of the previous one, there are so many perks including a free gym and anti-stress membership - now i get a massage like twice a week and i shed so much weight that i'm now slimmer than when i originally arrived the UK and silly people like startruck would readily swallow their words if they saw me now

lol congrats, a blessing indeed

biola44:

yes, especially in cases u were not responsible 4 d disappointment,

True

na that's just what we like telling ourselves to help us feel better     .

C2H5OH:

na that's just what we like telling ourselves to help us feel better .

is that so? so more like it's not true?

Monicaa:

is that so? so more like it's not true?

more like "sometimes" .  Not always.  It's good to have that positive mindset. It encourages you to keep pushing. I have had many disappointments that I wish I could take back.

pretty nails lol

Most assuredly yes.

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sometimes.