fuckshit:
fυςk!!! fυςking lovely write up; on fυςking point; in fυςking agreement with this comment; it's not a fυςking funny experience;
bloody fυςking ŝhit!!!; especially if one was “crazily fυςking in love"
BUT... if one fυςking survives; the fυςking experience fυςking makes one fυςking wiser and fυςking stronger;

Yea, you're fuçking crazy but fuçking on point

Lol

5. It helps you save

.
I CONCUR

one too many agony on one thread. move on with your lives abeg ha!

Jolllyjoy:
So on point op tho i wished i never experienced a failed relationship.



The experience wasnt funny at all.

My one day experience wasn't funny either. I was in a state of utter perplexity.. Lol.. And I used to think heartbreak was a piece of cake!

Beautiful,; well thought out. Kudos mehn

emusmith:
Wow, sorry

Hahahahaha!

I thought we were just friends, my emotional switch has been off throughout the year, got her for company, imagine me calling for 30mins-1hr and when we'd get to say 'later, bye' she always insert her signature, 'send me card'.

Yet, i don't remember when she has called me, so fúcking stupid of me.

Glad to have resolved my troubles, back and better and i feel more than great.

My woman, i'm coming for you.

officialmcfresh1:
This is so true op. A girl I dated for 3years just broke up with me cus she's on IT in Abuja working with NNPC towers. Came up with the stupid claim that am cheating on her after 4months of faithfully waiting for her.

She started with saying she doesn't feel anything anymore that she feels disconnected from everybody. I didn't know this was her plan to f**ck me up.

Wasn't up to two weeks she stopped talking to me for like 2weeks and next thing I saw was an sms saying (move on with ur life) this girl actually ended my relationship of 3yrs with an sms. How insulting.

I hated myself and still finding it difficult to forgive her and it's seriously affecting me.

Thanks u somuch op for this cus u have really touched me positively this evening. Thanks alot

Hmmmm.. I empathise with u.

emusmith:
. Teachers are the best learners. Ask your teacher.

Yea you are correct! I asked myself though. No need to go find teacher cuz am a natural one

end time relationships....

who gat time for d sh***t...
end time love now only base on end time wallet n stomach infrastructure...


I gat no time for end time love. pls no lady shud quote me or get ready to get an end time quote from me...

lestat:


@OP, bless you bruv... tears are rollin down my face as I am reading this because I can so relate to this esp number 5.

As I sit here typing this I am about to go drop her tax collecting arse at the airport!

I am free at last!!! These trully are tears of joy.... lol she just walked in now and hugged me thinking I am sad she is going!!! Imagine that I am actually crying because I am so happy she is going!! Words can't express how horrifying it is dating a woman who is a total 'give me'!!

I have greyed, aged, doubled my smoking habits, and started becoming a shell all because of this relationship!!!!

Every month I spend at least 300k just to maintain my home and here!!! U think my house is big? NOoo!!! It's all her!!! Give me money for this that, that this, she breaks a phone I have to replace it, she looses money I have to replace it!!!

I will never wish my enemy to date a liability!!!

Lord have mercy I am so over come with emotion that my hands are shaking as I am typing this!!!

Bless your heart bruv! I trully thought I was alone!!! I had stayed so long in this because at every point in time I wanted to break up she has a way of crying and making me feel I am tossing her into poverty and suffering then she starts to say hurtful things like I will never have peace, for allowing her feel sad, no woman will ever make me happy, then I will never have a happy home so and so. Then after some time she will start begging saying it's because she loves me, blah blah blah! Then I start to feel guilty for trying to break up and then I take her back, this is what I have been going through for years!

Note she has never gotten pregnant for me so don't start thinking she has arborted or something, this is someone who has cheated on me multiple times, this is someone who is a chronic liar, at one point she wiped one of my bank account saying she was hypnotised by strangers, I lost my previous car thanks to her, she keeps multple men and claims they are all platonic. Yet at every point in time I try to walk away she makes me feel guilty for throwing her into poverty!

Now do u know what I did, for the last three weeks I have been putting it into her head that she ought to go spend time with her mum in Akwa Ibom, and she was adamant that no, but I kept at it and finally she agreed, she knows I am travelling for a meeting in our head office abroad in January so I told her when I return to Nigeria she can come back, but honestly once I drop her off this morning.

So bruv, thank u so so much for this!! Bless u!! Bless u!!

So sorry for the long post!!

Why do ppl willingly sign up for heartaches? U should have dumped her sorry ass a long long time ago.

Oliviaarims:

My one day experience wasn't funny either. I was in a state of utter perplexity.. Lol.. And I used to think heartbreak was a piece of cake!

thats what we get in an end time relationship.

Alanjeffy:





thats what we get in an end time relationship.

Lol.. All these end time people!

NanciaKay:




Yea you are correct! I asked myself though. No need to go find teacher cuz am a natural one

I see

Oliviaarims:

Lol.. All these end time people!

yu gat to register to the association.
its a nice association..

To be honest I don't want to experience it again, d two girls I dated have been bad news now am taking my time looking for D Right girl cos I better remain single

lestat:


@OP, bless you bruv... tears are rollin down my face as I am reading this because I can so relate to this esp number 5.

As I sit here typing this I am about to go drop her tax collecting arse at the airport!

I am free at last!!! These trully are tears of joy.... lol she just walked in now and hugged me thinking I am sad she is going!!! Imagine that I am actually crying because I am so happy she is going!! Words can't express how horrifying it is dating a woman who is a total 'give me'!!

I have greyed, aged, doubled my smoking habits, and started becoming a shell all because of this relationship!!!!

Every month I spend at least 300k just to maintain my home and here!!! U think my house is big? NOoo!!! It's all her!!! Give me money for this that, that this, she breaks a phone I have to replace it, she looses money I have to replace it!!!

I will never wish my enemy to date a liability!!!

Lord have mercy I am so over come with emotion that my hands are shaking as I am typing this!!!

Bless your heart bruv! I trully thought I was alone!!! I had stayed so long in this because at every point in time I wanted to break up she has a way of crying and making me feel I am tossing her into poverty and suffering then she starts to say hurtful things like I will never have peace, for allowing her feel sad, no woman will ever make me happy, then I will never have a happy home so and so. Then after some time she will start begging saying it's because she loves me, blah blah blah! Then I start to feel guilty for trying to break up and then I take her back, this is what I have been going through for years!

Note she has never gotten pregnant for me so don't start thinking she has arborted or something, this is someone who has cheated on me multiple times, this is someone who is a chronic liar, at one point she wiped one of my bank account saying she was hypnotised by strangers, I lost my previous car thanks to her, she keeps multple men and claims they are all platonic. Yet at every point in time I try to walk away she makes me feel guilty for throwing her into poverty!

Now do u know what I did, for the last three weeks I have been putting it into her head that she ought to go spend time with her mum in Akwa Ibom, and she was adamant that no, but I kept at it and finally she agreed, she knows I am travelling for a meeting in our head office abroad in January so I told her when I return to Nigeria she can come back, but honestly once I drop her off this morning.

So bruv, thank u so so much for this!! Bless u!! Bless u!!

So sorry for the long post!!

Jesus of Lagos!!!

You have not been in a relationship and I am really happy for you. Your endurance has come to an end. I just pity the ignorant guys who takes women seriously.

A woman belongs to herself and not you.

Edumare bless you bro.

Oliviaarims:




Why do ppl willingly sign up for heartaches? U should have dumped her sorry ass a long long time ago.

You wont understand my dear
Ive been in his shoes

BUTCHCASSIDY:

You wont understand my dear Ive been in his shoes

Perhaps, I really won't understand.

Oliviaarims:


Perhaps, I really won't understand.

For me I stuck around hoping Id rediscover that person I fell in love with
Then one morning I snapped and went like 'fùck this' and walked away

YourMain:

I have...

I'm tempted to ask for details. How was ur night?

And, may I call u "afaridan"?

fuckshit:
fυςk!!! fυςking lovely write up; on fυςking point; in fυςking agreement with this comment; it's not a fυςking funny experience;
bloody fυςking ŝhit!!!; especially if one was “crazily fυςking in love"
BUT... if one fυςking survives; the fυςking experience fυςking makes one fυςking wiser and fυςking stronger;

Fuçk you!

emusmith:


How do you know a girl who loves you then? That could be my next thread...

Patiently waiting for it. G'mrng

Andykruiz:
Patiently waiting for it. G'mrng

G'mng.

my own happened 2days Ago 22/12/2015.. This was her last message to me on whatsapp without any reason. "dis is my last message to you,it's over btw us. Pls leave me alone". Since she sent the message,we've not called each other.. Pls how do I overcome this problem.. I still check her last seen on whatsapp,anytime I know she's online I'm always down that we're no longer together I don't want to delete her on whatsapp because I want her to live,to see my success.. Pls @ emusmith and co help me with mature advice.

I so much love this article...Op u helped some niggars out here and there. Better still for the mean time love with ur HEAD.

shakol91:
my own happened 2days Ago 22/12/2015.. This was her last message to me on whatsapp without any reason. "dis is my last message to you,it's over btw us. Pls leave me alone". Since she sent the message,we've not called each other.. Pls how do I overcome this problem.. I still check her last seen on whatsapp,anytime I know she's online I'm always down that we're no longer together.. Pls @ emusmith and co help me with mature advice.

Were you guys 'going out' before? Have you ever really dated her?

Oliviaarims:

Perhaps, I really won't understand.

hello bae

emusmith:
Were you guys 'going out' before? Have you ever really dated her?

yes. We started around july. I'm serving in her state.. I'm from west,she's from east (I met her in Abia,she got admission in bayelsa state around october this year). I'm presently at home for xmas break,she sent that message the same day she came back home from school. She's been faithful to me while in school,but still confused till now why she sent that message.. Even we were still calling each other when she was coming home 2ays ago.. I still called her few hours before she sent that message.. I don't think I can Love again. Pls pardon my typos. I'm not myself right now

shakol91:
yes. We started around july. I'm serving in her state.. I'm from west,she's from east (I met her in Abia,she got admission in bayelsa state around october this year). I'm presently at home for xmas break,she sent that message the same day she came back home from school. She's been faithful to me while in school,but still confused till now why she sent that message.. Even we were still calling each other when she was coming home 2ays ago.. I still called her few hours before she sent that message.. I don't think I can Love again.

Obviously, she found someone else...what level is she? Is it ndu?