Qualities Of A Girl Who Never Truly Loved You.


Well, I did pick a lesson or two in my previous thread.

Life is a film; boys are predictable, girls are not. They say. How true is that?
That makes it difficult to really decipher the intention of a girl when she is playing the "I Love You" game. To many, it is.

Yes, back then, they used to be emotional whose love wasn't for sale. But in the 21st century: you'll agree with me that anything can be sold...to the Highest Bidder. Including their love!

Witnessed different situations and heard shocking things about this subject and I think can write on it and I will be @least, 85% correct.

How can you truly know a girl doesn't truly love you? Seven ways only...



1. She never calls you until she has a need.

Hmm, you have suddenly become 911. Who said it's an abomination to call a guy you care about? If she calls you only when she needs money, she is a gold-digger. Dump her! Simple! You're not CBN, are you? The NEWest strategy now is: she calls after many months and starts forming she cares with the mind to ask for help in two days time...Let the relationship be platonic or...FWB. (Your choice tho). But never be just a nice and generous friend EVEN when you know she doesn't care and you love direly. Health tip: Give yourself a break! Go elsewhere before you're shown out or have a heart attack!


2. She isn't interested in seeing your siblings.

It's natural, if she likes you she would not hesitate to want to meet your siblings or parents. If all she wants is you...hehehe, don't feel important. It's not good enough. Marriage transcends both of you. Reality exceed the couples. Some girls have already been trained to be rebellious to their in-laws- Watch out against such!


3. She threatens you with a breakup after each argument.


Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Don't you think it's just a way she expresses her outburst. Love doesn't threaten. If she makes the mistake of saying it once or twice, it might just be anger. But, constantly, haba! Leave her. Another "club" is promising her luxurious and wonderful things, that's why she wants to leave your "club". That na breakup scheme.


4. She never talks about saving- no future with you..

Does she just spend and spend without warning you to cut on your spending habits? Some ladies are good at that. When she wants a particular shoe or bag, she doesn't mind you withdrawing your last dime. She doesn't see a future with you. Love plans and prepares. Leave her before you wreck.


5. She lacks initiative to doing things that really matter to you.

I do know that if you truly love someone, you'll be initiative to doing things for them. Mothers don't need a push to buy new clothes for their babies- Love at work. If she isn't initiative concerning your lil issues, it's a sign she is about some other guy. Don't be friend zoned, I beg you! She enters your house and after eating, can't wash her own plate. How can I explain this? Simple initiative.


6. She loved your material things MORE than your aspirations and goals.


Hey, if what matters to her the most is your money and not how you get it: she doesn't care then. Don't marry some one who has no pride at what you do. If she doesn't like your job but likes you, it can be managed BUT if she hates your vision/dreams, you can't be forever compatible. It's like a pastor marrying a witch. Hehe.

7. She lies to you to buy your trust.

I can beat my chest and say, 80% + of girls lie. It's awful how one intends to begin a relationship on lies. When a girl you know very starts lying to your face just to increase her "market value"...it's laughable you know. Come clean. Nobody is perfect. Let's be ourselves here. False identity is like 21st bras; they don't hold it up forever. It will soon collapse.


In addition: If she is manipulative, be careful. Eve extended the serpent's manipulation on Adam and see us today. Love doesn't manipulate. It might explain itself but never manipulate. The serpent is the most manipulative reptile. If she often seek to manipulate you(If you are a MAN sef, would she be doing that?), she doesn't really love you. She thinks she does. It's a selfish, conditional and controlling love.

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First off, a girl who really likes a guy will call him. Thats just it.. No more, no less... Any gurl who flashes a guy or complains everytym they lack airtym is just not so into u!

The heart of a woman, even all humans, is very unfathomable, indeterminate and uniquely configured

Sometimes the lady herself does the exact opposites of all the op has mentioned, thinking she 'loves' the guy...and then another dude comes into her life, who then makes her realize She has been shortchanging herself all along

Also, humans are genetically wired to react differently to complex feelings such as love.... While some unreservedly show their affection to the object of their love, some others just naturally lack that energy to act all lovey-dovey and stuff .... It isn't pride or selfishness... it's just who they are

Point I am trying to make is... People display 'love' in different manners.... The fact that John's girlfriend shows her love for him by talking with him all through the night on Mtn Extra-cool and getting all busybody and stuff about his family and business doesn't mean your own Juliet should do same... THERE ARE A MILLION AND ONE WAYS OF SHOWING AFFECTION.... PEEPS SHOULD LEARN TO UNDERSTAND THAT

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Anyway, dis na only for niggaz wey never arrive.. I dey tell my guys, no dey rush woman.. Use the force wey u dey take dey find sumtin wey dey under skirt find money.. I swear u go hammer.. And u know say when u hammer, na woman go dey hustle ur number.. I remember first time wey i do my brief comedy for AIT, my former g.f started calling me again..
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she can do the opposite of all that and still not love you.

Op, you are so on point.

sinaj:
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What is the difference between a girl that never truly loved you and the one that truly loved you but still went ahead to break your heart?



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emusmith:
Qualities Of A Girl Who Never Truly Loved You.


Well, I did pick a lesson or two in my previous thread.

Life is a film; boys are predictable, girls are not. They say. How true is that?
That makes it difficult to really decipher the intention of a girl when she is playing the "I Love You" game. To many, it is.

Yes, back then, they used to be emotional whose love wasn't for sale. But in the 21st century: you'll agree with me that anything can be sold...to the Highest Bidder. Including their love!

Witnessed different situations and heard shocking things about this subject and I think can write on it and I will be @least, 85% correct.

How can you truly know a girl doesn't truly love you? Seven ways only...



1. She never calls you until she has a need.

Hmm, you have suddenly become 911. Who said it's an abomination to call a guy you care about? If she calls you only when she needs money, she is a gold-digger. Dump her! Simple! You're not CBN, are you? The NEWest strategy now is: she calls after many months and starts forming she cares with the mind to ask for help in two days time...Let the relationship be platonic or...FWB. (Your choice tho). But never be just a nice and generous friend EVEN when you know she doesn't care and you love direly. Health tip: Give yourself a break! Go elsewhere before you're shown out or have a heart attack!


2. She isn't interested in seeing your siblings.

It's natural, if she likes you she would not hesitate to want to meet your siblings or parents. If all she wants is you...hehehe, don't feel important. It's not good enough. Marriage transcends both of you. Reality exceed the couples. Some girls have already been trained to be rebellious to their in-laws- Watch out against such!


3. She threatens you with a breakup after each argument.


Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Don't you think it's just a way she expresses her outburst. Love doesn't threaten. If she makes the mistake of saying it once or twice, it might just be anger. But, constantly, haba! Leave her. Another "club" is promising her luxurious and wonderful things, that's why she wants to leave your "club". That na breakup scheme.


4. She never talks about saving- no future with you..

Does she just spend and spend without warning you to cut on your spending habits? Some ladies are good at that. When she wants a particular shoe or bag, she doesn't mind you withdrawing your last dime. She doesn't see a future with you. Love plans and prepares. Leave her before you wreck.


5. She lacks initiative to doing things that really matter to you.

I do know that if you truly love someone, you'll be initiative to doing things for them. Mothers don't need a push to buy new clothes for their babies- Love at work. If she isn't initiative concerning your lil issues, it's a sign she is about some other guy. Don't be friend zoned, I beg you! She enters your house and after eating, can't wash her own plate. How can I explain this? Simple initiative.


6. She loved your material things MORE than your aspirations and goals.


Hey, if what matters to her the most is your money and not how you get it: she doesn't care then. Don't marry some one who has no pride at what you do. If she doesn't like your job but likes you, it can be managed BUT if she hates your vision/dreams, you can't be forever compatible. It's like a pastor marrying a witch. Hehe.

7. She lies to you to buy your trust.

I can beat my chest and say, 80% + of girls lie. It's awful how one intends to begin a relationship on lies. When a girl you know very starts lying to your face just to increase her "market value"...it's laughable you know. Come clean. Nobody is perfect. Let's be ourselves here. False identity is like 21st bras; they don't hold it up forever. It will soon collapse.


In addition: If she is manipulative, be careful. Eve extended the serpent's manipulation on Adam and see us today. Love doesn't manipulate. It might explain itself but never manipulate. The serpent is the most manipulative reptile. If she often seek to manipulate you(If you are a MAN sef, would she be doing that?), she doesn't really love you. She thinks she does. It's a selfish, conditional and controlling love.

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ginawest:
she can do the opposite of all that and still not love you.

exactly, my thought too, some girls are good @ pretence.

ginawest:
she can do the opposite of all that and still not love you.

thats just a fat lie

Alright.

Scatterscatter:
What is the difference between a girl that never truly loved you and the one that truly loved you but still went ahead to break your heart?

a girl who loves u wont break ur heart.. Trust me on that

sinaj:
So many relationship expert in nl

emusmith's posts are always true!

Cutehector:
a girl who loves u wont break ur heart.. Trust me on that

Sorry to burst your bubbles... Anybody can break your heart, including your parents, siblings, pastor, wife, etc

zinachidi:
exactly, my thought too, some girls are good @ pretence.

Unless you're not observant. Besides, noone talked about being perfect but being REAL and OPEN. Pretence has a dead line. Have you met a liar before?

Hmm...

Alright

Scatterscatter:

Sorry to burst your bubbles... Anybody can break your heart, including your parents, siblings, pastor, wife, etc

in my world, i call that disappointments!

ginawest:
she can do the opposite of all that and still not love you.

That's not true. U can't fake love in all ramifications. It will show some how. She may attempt some, but there's a limit to pretence. Except the guy refuses to see, maybe blinded by beauty.

Cutehector:
in my world, i call that disappointments!

In my world, I call heart breaks "permanent disappointment"

Scatterscatter:

In my world, I call heart breaks "permanent disappointment"

lol disappointments are bound to happen... So it just doesnt really surprise me

vfactor:


That's not true. U can't fake love in all ramifications. It will show some how. She may attempt some, but there's a limit to pretence. Except the guy refuses to see, maybe blinded by beauty.

That's right. From the onset, you'll know. Issues may arise but you'll know if she is really with you

ginawest:
she can do the opposite of all that and still not love you.

True. But when she does most or all of these things, it's 100% certain she doesn't want

Especially when she threatens breakup after every lil argument

by their comments u shall spot them

Cutehector:
lol disappointments are bound to happen... So it just doesnt really surprise me

That's the point... So I believe to enjoy one's relationship is to quit looking for signs that shows if the other person loves or doesn't love you. If you are enjoying the relationship regardless of the signs, fine, continue! and if you aren't, then quit!

Scatterscatter:

That's the point... So I believe to enjoy one's relationship is to quit looking for signs that shows if the other person loves or doesn't love me. If you are enjoying the relationship regardless of the signs, fine, continue! and if you aren't, then quit!

simple as abc... I think we think alike!

Scatterscatter:

That's the point... So I believe to enjoy one's relationship is to quit looking for signs that shows if the other person loves or doesn't love me. If you are enjoying the relationship regardless of the signs, fine, continue! and if you aren't, then quit!

guy calm down your blood is hot

sickstars:


guy calm down your blood is hot

Lol... Not that. I just hate it when love and relationship talks are taken seriously. From my years of experience, both personal and from other people, I've learnt people don't ever break up even with signs, only if you don't love the person anymore. Enjoy you relationship with an open mind and things will flow naturally to the point of either taking it a step further(marriage) or breakup. Either ways, just enjoy your life and relationship.

Scatterscatter:

Lol... Not that. I just hate it when love and relationship talks are taken seriously. From my years of experience, both personal and from other people, I've learnt people don't ever break up even with signs, only if you don't love the person anymore. Enjoy you relationship with an open mind and things will flow naturally to the point of either taking it a step further(marriage) or breakup. Either ways, just enjoy your life and relationship.

but some break up with signs o

But with d open mind true

Nice write up tanx