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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by doskie(m): 3:59pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
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I greet you brother. you bam pass bambella. peace! |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Tensionstar(m): 4:25pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
RexKexMilann:lolz |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by magneto(m): 8:21pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: Wow, I like d way ur mind works girl! Now I want to know u more... Wat would it take to make u defy urs ehn?? |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: A "yes" from a guy holds absolutely no meaning in that context fairly 99.9999999% of the time. So, unless you're not looking for anything serious, act accordingly. Besides, if women were to start pursuing men in such a way, en masse, it would follow that they'd, quite naturally, pursue desirable men of their liking. Well, on the current model (generally, men pursuing women), do you know how many millions of utterly frustrated, socially inept men are out there unable to attract the attentions of a single woman to them? And you may ask, so what? Surely there are also under-average girls who don't get the time of day from men who're decidedly pursuing their more attractive counterparts? Well, in that you'd be absolutely right! But then, how do these two groups manifest? UA insecure girls tend to internalize. They blame themselves. UA insecure guys tend to externalize. It's society's fault. It's the fault of the opposite sex, i.e, women. Insecurity. Rage. Entitlement. Hence, you get scores and scores of rapists and potential rapists on the brink, and people defiling children and animals for release, shooting sprees, crime, preying and stalking, etc. There's currently a thread on FP about a guy who cut his pe.nis off, because women paid him no mind and he saw himself navigating the frustrations of being involuntarily celibate as a result. The truth is, unless you're planning on committing a felony, sex is already female-choice. The man approaches. The woman either accepts or rejects him. By having women do the pursuing also, it becomes even more gynocentric/female-choice. Now, in the eyes of the outliers, it's no more a passive rejection as it once was, which was hard enough, but an active dismissal of them. All the more reason for the lower eschelon of men to brew and further immerse themselves in whatever mixture of hate and rage they so chose. And more often than not, unbridled irrational misogyny ensues. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Oluboonmi(f): 4:59pm On Jan 05, 2016 |
Well, well, well. Alot of comments on this thread. Hmmm... I don't know for sur about others, but for me Olubunmi Apekeade, its a no-no. Why would I even consider asking a guy out? Either for dating or marriage, mba nu. If you(as a lady) loves a guy and you've given him (is it green card people call it now?), and he's not getting it, you've given him tips to get him understand that u want him to ask u out( which I would personally never do) and he's still not getting it, believe me, HE WILL NEVER GET IT!! Why? Because he doesn't look at you that way. No guy is that dumb, not to recognize such signs. Even if he likes u too but scared or shy, he'll be giving you signs too n before you know it, you guys will start dating. I like the old-fashioned way. Guy chases girl==girl gree==dating start or guy chases girl==girl no gree==guy waka. No matter the circumstance, even if its for marriage, when a lady is so sure a particular guy is meant for her, she should be patient. IT IS A VIRTUE. The God that revealed the man to her will reveal her to the guy. Das all. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Fourwinds: 9:35pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Laveda:na wa ..ur former DP was bomb ...person wey see u now no go know weti u carry for dis DP |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Laveda(f): 9:39pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Fourwinds: |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by A40(m): 2:02pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Lol in this era of gender equality agitation and where we have women running some of the most powerful nations in the world, it is now toasting man that is a big deal? Men get rejected everyday but reject a woman once and all hell breaks loose. A woman milks you dry its not an issue let the man do the same it becomes a problem Only an immature man would not appreciate a woman that tells him her desires. That girl was obviously dealing with a child Oliviaarims:Why not? I mean if he has shown interest what stops the woman from seizing the initiative? Chances are he is blown away by your boldness and wants you even more. The irony is the woman by doing the wooing actually calls the shots. Oliviaarims:Lol! If a guy won't take you serious then whether he does the wooing or you do so is irrelevant. He will still maltreat, abuse and dump after he is done knacking. This has nothing to do with you making the move. Its just in his DNA. A guy can toast 5 girls get rejected by 4 and take out his frustration on the 1 that agreed to date him. You really need to let go of these outdated clichés! Nobody has time for the chase unless he doesn't have other things to do with his time or suffers a low self-esteem. Please stop discouraging these girls from moving to the boys in 2016. Husband scarce pass wife and that is the reality on ground |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by A40(m): 6:21pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
oglalasioux:Pride, Chase, Hunt, Kill? Is this a documentary on National Geographic? Loool so after getting the 'kill' no be to move to the next 'kill' So you women see yourself as game? Or are OK with men throwing those kind of words at you? |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by oglalasioux(m): 6:25pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
A40:Not every statement is meant for everyone to understand. Let the matter rest if you failed to grasp what I meant. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by A40(m): 9:23pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
oglalasioux:Bros your illustration is arcane and outdated. So don't blame me if I fail to grasp it |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by oglalasioux(m): 9:41pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
A40:I begin to wonder how you can call something you can't grasp arcane and outdated. Or are you looking for whom to try your vocabulary on? |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by A40(m): 11:43pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
oglalasioux:Stop using those stale outdated clichés my guy. Who uses such lingo in 2016? Hunt, chase, kill on top woman? Please update and stop staying in the medieval times. Aye ti laju |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by oglalasioux(m): 12:34am On Jan 09, 2016 |
A40:I won't banter with you. You're just a kid. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by A40(m): 5:37pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
oglalasioux:E ma binuu. Methuselah. Arugbo ojo |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by AVRecruit: 6:08pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Estharfabian: i hear women say this over and over again. You are not the person with the selection power. Its the man. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by peleson: 7:42pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Adanna28:Pls Adanna release goodheart to come and cntinue the stories oooh nne oma! Inugo? Sweet baby pls 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Estharfabian:I heard You till you approach 40yrs, I need a responsible lady for strong relationship,m |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Ishilove: 7:26pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Madam, in a bid to get your thread to the frontpage kindly don't deliberately post false information or say things which you very well know is a pack of lies. The rubbish comment you posted on page 2 of your thread, which wristbangle quoted has been hidden, but not before I saw it. Kindly cease and desist. It's too early in the year for this kind of bullshit.
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Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 12:16am On Jan 13, 2016 |
Ishilove: Noted. No harm was intended, though. Sorry it came off wrongly. It was supposed to be a joke |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by NemzySeries(m): 9:23am On Jan 13, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie:So so on point.....can I marry u by weekends....pls? |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by modestdude(m): 10:33am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:You got me admiring you. Whatever be the wrong i admire people who has the audacity to say Sorry. Will you be my friend Olivia? |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
modestdude: Hmm.. Friends? It's fine. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nathe11: 9:49am On Feb 09, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie:a round of applause for you....you nailed/hammered it |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Hybrid01: 10:57pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
That is the first step to achieving gender equality. Make the move! |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by trojan84(m): 6:00pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Decker:True |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 26, 2016 |
Laveda: Abeg woo me, I nor go Bleep up |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nobody: 10:18am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:hmm so Impressive |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by joesmarty(m): 11:30am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Not too many sharks in the sea again oo, go and look up the male and female death rate, and then look up the male and female birth rate then you will know what's up. |
Re: About Women Making The First Move. by Nturguy1122: 12:18pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Estharfabian:call him twice in a month...haba thats nt even showing the light talkess of green |
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