hungryboy:
Aunty


Abeg translate this your story to calabar language,

So dat gateman like me ,go fit understand am

evolg:
First issue: He bought a car without ur knowledge, it must have skipped his mind. Sorry!
Second issue: U dint get a new year msg frm him, probably network issues.
Moral of story: Ur nt jst dt important like you think.

Creamish:
Are u guys married?

D'u have a joint account?

If "NO"..then I see no reason why u should be pissed that he Dint tell u about his savings...esp since u once broke up wit him due to his financial status (or at least datz what he believes).

Secondly, he Dint call u on New year's day...did u call him? No. Wat if he had some issues? Ur being selfish IMO...

Nwayz... U need to calm d Fk down and think things thru only when calm. If u have nagging doubts, then address it with him. Communication is key in every relationship. Assumptions are relationship killers.

petkruz:


It's simple. We dated,broke up, started again but he hasn't gotten over the past. Now that he's boxed up,he's paying back or atleast that's what I think he's doing.

petkruz:

Is this the best you can offer?

Estharfabian:
He's just your boyfriend for crying out Loud!

If he can't deal with "Forgiveness"...? dump his Ass!

Besides, You guys should do a little "Communication"...It works wonders.

petkruz:


No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past.

yomi007k:
so wat r waiting for?


......serious question, no pun intended.

petkruz:


It's simple. We dated,broke up, started again but he hasn't gotten over the past. Now that he's boxed up,he's paying back or atleast that's what I think he's doing.

falconey:

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coolh3ad:


Lol...PayBack is really a b.I.t.c.h..You bleeped up in the past when he didn't have anything...He's now boxed up, you know he is and you just want him to forget about what you did to him in the past...If you were in his shoes, would you forget sooo easily?...Like I always tell ladies "you can't eat your cake and have it"..

petkruz:


My dear I love u for this. Habaaaaaa 4years beef? Is it worth it? Why behave like a baby? Worst of all he refused to leave me alone.

RexKex:
OP, No disrespect BUT it is Girls like You that Will "Unintentionally" Lead a man into "Cheating".


"The era of men being non-chalant is Over". Yea, But the era of women acting all silly, Nagging over Menial Issues & Expecting men to "Easily" Forgive & Forget Some certain "Sins" is Over too! Women are emotional beings, So I some Men!


So you expecting that somehow His heart is made of steel and He won't feel hurt by something you claim you did "Four Years" ago is outrageous! Did you ask yourself how grave your "sin" Was? How It might have affected him?


Honestly! Girls like you need to calm the f**k down, Telemundo OR whatever shiit you watch is Entirely different from Reality!


You're angry with him For not telling you He was saving to Buy a Car? Common Girl, Don't be Silly!

Rogerz007:
It seems you have made up your mind already..You dont need our advice..I guess you never really loved this ya boo!!!!

ronald4lif:
What did I just read?

He was supposed to inform you before buying himself a car? On what basis if I may ask?

He didn't call you to wish you a happy new year until today and what did you do? Decided not to call him as well until he calls unto say ladies style abi

ronald4lif:
What did I just read?

He was supposed to inform you before buying himself a car? On what basis if I may ask?

He didn't call you to wish you a happy new year until today and what did you do? Decided not to call him as well until he calls unto say ladies style abi

petkruz:


Naaah we keep separate financial lives.

Dujardin:
My dear you never asked for advice when you dumped the poor dude in the first place...Now you need one when his pocket is relevant abi?
My on take on this, you are a gold digger to him now...he rightly sees u as someone who sways where money is. You need to convince him if you are not, and I doubt if there is any way to do that.