$osisi:

I don't know what became of them
But it was really very sad.
and the man was heartbroken for a while
The girl pretended to fall in love with him in Nigeria and just used him.When she arrived here for good 2 weeks,she refused to unpack her bags and wouldn't let the man (her husband) touch her.
He thought she was just a virgin that needed time to losen up
for where?
he went to work and Fedex delievered a plane ticket and the girl disappeared
She left him a note and phone records showed she had been communicating the lover man since arrival.
Some women can be very wicked

personally a woman will never pay my mortgage
rent or anything else. she can pay utilities and such
only time i would expect help with the bulk of the bills
is if i lose my job or something of that sort.

oyinda.:

why would she want to pay your mortgage in the first place?  
very funny

Treetop20:

that is very sad
things like these breaks my heart to read
it happened to a family friend of mine
the lady here is well over 35. she just used him for papers
and later told him that "too bad it didn't work out because our zodiac signs
don't even match" what bloody excuse is that? he is going through the divorce now

$osisi:

Terrible
and things like this leaves the man with a terrible impression of women and some women may have to suffer for the sins of the other women
These people going to Naija to marry should better be very careful
I've heard so many horror stories.
One was even carrying belle when she arrived un-beknown to the husband
When eventually she announced her pregnancy and they went to an OBGYN, the scan showed that the belle was already past 5 months meanwhile the girl had only been here 3 months and the last time they saw each other in Naija was over a year.

davidylan:

i'm not a fan of marrying someone you havent physically known well for at least 1 yr. No going home to pick a wife for me.

Am Alone:

davidylan:

i'm not a fan of marrying someone you havent physically known well for at least 1 yr. No going home to pick a wife for me.

$osisi:

Terrible
and things like this leaves the man with a terrible impression of women and some women may have to suffer for the sins of the other women
These people going to Naija to marry should better be very careful
I've heard so many horror stories.
One was even carrying belle when she arrived un-beknown to the husband
When eventually she announced her pregnancy and they went to an OBGYN, the scan showed that the belle was already past 5 months meanwhile the girl had only been here 3 months and the last time they saw each other in Naija was over a year.

Treetop20:

i don't really think the time frame matters so much
you just pray that everyone involved has the best intentions

davidylan:

Different strokes for different folks . . . i like to take my time before reaching important decisions like who to marry. Shotgun approaches dont work for me.

davidylan:

Different strokes for different folks . . . i like to take my time before reaching important decisions like who to marry. Shotgun approaches dont work for me.

oyinda.:

well, life is hard


@ topic, yes i will sponsor my wedding if I have the financial capacity to do so and he doesn't mind.

Treetop20:

of course this isn't about making hasty decisions mate
all i am on about here is that there are no guarantees in anything we do in life
you can date that lass for 4 yrs and still end up with the short stick!
do take your time but just know that it is all up to God at the end of the day
i understand the bit about making sure it is the right choice from your end
we all have to look out for our selves .

$osisi:

Tufiakwa!

davidylan:

True words my brother . . . but the fact is God wont come down and force the choice on you. According to the bible it is you who is doing the finding . . . you better find well well.

oyinda.:

well, life is hard


@ topic, yes i will sponsor my wedding if I have the financial capacity to do so and he doesn't mind.

Am Alone:

E bi like say you want make POVERTY use you do press UP for inside the Marrage Abi!!

$osisi:

Tufiakwa!
Join me and say tufiakwa

Treetop20:

*death*
lol

oyinda.:

why? please explain to me

sharrap there  

Am Alone:


                                   
                                 
                                   
                                   

     
           
             
             
           
           
           
           
           
         
     
         

Am Alone:

E bi like say you want make POVERTY use you do press UP for inside the Marrage Abi!!



                                   
                                 
                                   
                                   

     
           
             
             
           
           
           
           
           
         
     
         

Treetop20:

bloody imbecilic Arrow!
dont ever refer to me again!

Treetop20:

bloody imbecilic Arrow!
dont ever refer to me again!

FL Gators:

Woahhhhh
Woahhhh

*rub my eyes* Woah!!!

oyinda.:

keep running that posh british mouth of yours. and what will you do if I refer to you?

$osisi:

Never!
Will he also wear the skirt and blouse?

A man ought to be a man abeg

if there are any ladies in NL that can sponsor our wedding(her and me) plz contact me on this number 781-452-2080. plz be ready 2 pay the bills 4 the next 3 yrs, then i will aggressively take over