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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by abbey621(m): 8:29pm On Jan 05, 2016
mentorandfriend:
Videos games are addictive, same way I'm addicted to my work in the theatre. But it grows me. You see. Not all addictions are as deleterious as porn. Go figure.

cheesy cheesy cheesy

I'm glad you just proved me right! So you do agree that video games are addictive yet you are effective at work, the same video game addiction caused a Russian man to lose his job and his family.

http://www.forbes.com/sites/insertcoin/2015/12/27/man-sues-bethesda-because-fallout-4-is-too-addictive/

This means while pornography is also addicting, many people can still function effectively....I rest my case!
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Phens(m): 8:39pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
Habitually watching pornography gradually destroys ur conscience until it no longer functions. But a dead conscience can be revived, first u need to stop watching porn.


~ THOSE URE WATCHING MIGHT HAVE CHANGED.

Change is the only constant thing in life, has it never strucked ur mind that, the person ure watching doing all sort of dirty stuff might have given it all up for a greater reason and is now a better and changed person. As in now a good christian who regretted all she did back in her past. And for your information God will forgive her for she has repented. But look at you, choir master, aunty usher, pastor J.J, elder kokumo, mr robinson, sister ofeimuna, and so on watching her own past mistakes and making it ur own present and future destruction. Look at the adulterous woman in the bible brought to Jesus, if there were fones at that time, her sexual acts wud av been recorded and spread around, people will keep watching whereas she has repented and has been forgiven, but ure there packing the trash she left for lawma. Many of this porn actress now live a responsible and holy like. YES they regretted what they did with their past and they are paying for the consequences and they may do so till they die, but after they die they will have the chance of entering Gods kingdom which is much more improtant that whatever they can get in this sinful world. So what will become of you that didnt even sleep with dog or lion or horse, or gays or lesbian, that didnt do three some or nineteen some or orgy, or whatever but you just watched. I mean just watched. You look at them ahead of you enetering God's kingdom and you will be like . . . .Let me stop here.
Quit watching pornography, quit masturbating. Its end is disastruous. The sweetness u get now is just for a while but the trouble u will get later, even the whole of nigeria wont be able to solve.
A word is enuf for the wise.

Prinzfavian.
tanks bro for that, but pls are u a witness?, because most of the articles from our publication
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nightie(f): 9:14pm On Jan 05, 2016
True talk.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Iamlordgee(m): 9:46pm On Jan 05, 2016
OK
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by oluwafreshkid(m): 10:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
Simple reason...porn eats up your data!!! You'll use 1gig for like 1 week. Chai!
grin wink

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by datigbogirl: 10:15pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
Shocking Reasons Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating

Pornography is everywhere, from our various neighbourhoods, to the TV programmes, to the Internets , the list keeps increasing. . . The rate at which our ladies are constantly contributing to the promotion of pornography is alarming. From indecent dressing to irrelevant fashions, and tight-fitting attires.
Its hardly possible to go a day without seeing a lady dressing indecently on the street. If as a guy i am not confortable with going outside my gate in just my boxers and singlet to get something from the aboki in front of my house, i don't understand aw some ladies can walk from Mushin to Oshodi in just a bumper short or micro-mini skirt and a sleeveless top, revealing their Breast-vages and breast-pits to the public.

Well, truly pornography is much more than that but thats where it starts from, infact for me its under the same category.
Gone are the days when we surf hard on the internet to find porn, now its all over the internet, from facebook to twitter to badoo to tagged to mini-webpages and so on. . . Many didnt start viewing pornography out of a delibrately act but cos of their curiosity. One could be innocently surfing the internet one cold night and suddenly u get a pop-up notifying u to click on a web page which actually is a porn site and from there, they get trapped. . . Many actually regret this action and strive to correct their mistake but its not been easy doing so, but truly i must tell u, the habitual act of viewing pornography does more harm to u than the temporary pleasure u derive.
So. . . .
Among many, here are some reasons why you should stop watching pornography and hence stop masturbating:

~IT'S AN IMPORTANT STEP U MUST TAKE IF U WANT TO GIVE UP MASTURBATION.

Masturbation is the delibrate stimulation one's genitals or that of others which often leads to orgasm. Before i tell u how quitting of porn viewing helps to curb masturbation, u must know why u shouldnt masturbate.
Masturbation is a spiritually unhealthy habit which instills in one an atittude of self-centredness and corrupt mind. A masturbator in time will grow to view others as mere sex object for sexual satisfaction. Sex becomes seperated from love and is relegated to a reflex that gives momentary a relieves sexual tension of which the relief is only temporary. A masturbator lacks self control, they get overly aroused at every slight sexual incident. Lets say a lady's body touches him on a queue, or in a bus or he or she sees a poster revealing little part of the body. Most rapist are unrepentant masturbators. They get seduced easily, imagine a little girl of four years old sitting on the legs of a 30 years old masturbator, without doubt he will start feeling aroused since he lacks self control. Most fathers who rapes their child are chronic masturbator who couldnt just control them selves. Masturbation clouds the thinking of such ones who indulge in it.
All they ever think about is how to please them selves, they can get off any where. This is a bad habit that needs to be eradicated in ones life. One step towards quitting masturbation is to avoid pornography of every kind. Especially on the internet, block ur way to it, block all pop-up notification, use ur computers and phones in public places where you are not free to watch porn. To quit masturbation it is very compulsory to avoid pornography.


~DESTROYS UR CONSCIENCE
when we were created, our conscience was put in us to guide us from bad and towards good, to help us differentiate from right and wrong. Howbeit for our conscience to always remain effective, we must use and nurture or train it wisely.
Recollect that the first time u viewed a porn ur conscience pricked u (that is if u av one). You wernt free watching it, u were hiding it. U wernt proud to tell others the title of the film u just watched or aw interesting it was.
You wanted to watch again the second time and as usual ur conscience tried to warn you but u shut it up. As time goes on, the more often u watch it and shut up ur conscience the more ineffective it becomes. It comes to a point when ur conscience stays silent even as ure on a wrong part, it doesnt try to stop u again, it leaves you. As at then uve killed ur conscience. A precious gift from God to man. And thats when u see nothing wrong in a man lik u inserting his penis in the anus of another guy just lik u, thats when see nothing wrong in a lady lik u putting her whole arm-length in the vagina of another lady. U then promote to watching a human lik u being chained with iron fetters as such used for samson and being gang-raped by 4 men at the same time. You then graduate to applauding when you see two mature idiots having sex in a church and still u feel its ok. You then promote to watching humans lik you having sex with horse, dogs, even monkeys and probably elephants and u still smile cos of the temporary pleasure ure getting which has actually killed ur conscience.


This article is just filled with spiritual content. It doesn't address main issues and facts....I'm a chronic masturbator And watched porn numerous times and ryt now I've developed wat is scientifically known as recurrent Tolerance which makes me uninterested in sex for a period of time. It's ok if you can hold yourself for a long time but if you can't there's absolutely nothing wrong in masturbating and cooling your heads off! Men who ejaculate often have been found to stand a less risk of having Prostate cancer..,.so will I have to wait till I see a girl dat will be willing to do me b4 I have sex?...or I should find a girl to rape because I don't wanna self-service or perhaps I should frequent the brothel and catch HIV ko?

Spiritualizing tinz only leads to more problem....when you get medically informed as I have you'll almost start doubting weda God exist sef cos you'll see Religion and Spirituality does nothing but harm to d mind. Religion will tell you wanking is bad but will leave you to burn with passion as I saw a 38year old male patient who had never had sex and was looking so pathetic but Science will encourage you cos wanking releases endorphins which soothes the nerves and brain making you think effectively and rationally thereby behaving normally around ladies....Man wey never self-service or have sex dey usually behave like mumu around ladies and d women will happily take advantage of them after thanking God for sending manna (maga) dr way.

My brother na oyinbo man bring religion, na also dem bring Science....just balance d two and give yourself brain cos aint no love in d streets men...girls aint smiling, if sex was food girls dat don't like you don't mind starving you to death, so just self-service yourself to satisfaction men!

Finally Masturbation is good for the health medically speaking.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by segcymoor(m): 10:40pm On Jan 05, 2016
Nice
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jan 05, 2016
joseph1832:
Oh they are damned and yet this damned people are doing better than you economically and politically. Their industry thrives 100 times better than yours, in fact, your type are the type who even enter this countries illegally just so you can have "the good life". Please learn not to let your hypocrisy eat you alive.

Your prayer will fall on the ears of a god who don't answer, so don't waste it on me.
dont mind them bunch of hypocrites that call the western world damned and cursed.they claim our country is blessed, religious, righteous, the apple of god's eye yet they're suffering while the same damned western world are doing better than us. The same people that say the western world is damned are the ones that would do anything to leave this country for the place they call damned --Hypocrites! I wish the people on this thread had ur mindset and aren't as parochial in reasoning as they are now.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jan 05, 2016
kateskitty:

Go get a job to keep you busy, or if you have a job go get married or adopt a puppy. Just saying...
hmm, true
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by flamxy682(m): 11:16pm On Jan 05, 2016
My thoughts on Masturbation...
#iamagainstmasturbation#

I have observed that most people who are pro-masturbation all have a valid argument. When it comes to religion, they say it is not in the bible. When it comes to morality, they say it helps prevent rape and sexually transmitted diseases. Good and fine.

But we need to look at this differently, let us put religion aside. Someone who is a chronic masturbator has no control over his/her feelings or emotion. He/she sees everything in the light of sex. Any little thing can easily rouse them and they go about masturbating, they are have become slaves to their emotions rather than being a master. Anything that makes us loose control over our emotion, feelings, thoughts, is bad. Really bad

You can go ahead to justify why we should masturbate, but I believe everyone knows the right thing deep down.

If you support masturbation, I bet u have to support lesbianism, homosexuality, bestiality, incest, etc...

Its only when u are in control that you FREE.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Godblessaplus1(m): 11:53pm On Jan 05, 2016
prinzfavian:
Habitually watching pornography gradually destroys ur conscience until it no longer functions. But a dead conscience can be revived, first u need to stop watching porn.


~ THOSE URE WATCHING MIGHT HAVE CHANGED.

Change is the only constant thing in life, has it never strucked ur mind that, the person ure watching doing all sort of dirty stuff might have given it all up for a greater reason and is now a better and changed person. As in now a good christian who regretted all she did back in her past. And for your information God will forgive her for she has repented. But look at you, choir master, aunty usher, pastor J.J, elder kokumo, mr robinson, sister ofeimuna, and so on watching her own past mistakes and making it ur own present and future destruction. Look at the adulterous woman in the bible brought to Jesus, if there were fones at that time, her sexual acts wud av been recorded and spread around, people will keep watching whereas she has repented and has been forgiven, but ure there packing the trash she left for lawma. Many of this porn actress now live a responsible and holy like. YES they regretted what they did with their past and they are paying for the consequences and they may do so till they die, but after they die they will have the chance of entering Gods kingdom which is much more improtant that whatever they can get in this sinful world. So what will become of you that didnt even sleep with dog or lion or horse, or gays or lesbian, that didnt do three some or nineteen some or orgy, or whatever but you just watched. I mean just watched. You look at them ahead of you enetering God's kingdom and you will be like . . . .Let me stop here.
Quit watching pornography, quit masturbating. Its end is disastruous. The sweetness u get now is just for a while but the trouble u will get later, even the whole of nigeria wont be able to solve.
A word is enuf for the wise.

Prinzfavian.

Abeg leave trash for lawma
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by lilkudos(m): 8:42am On Jan 06, 2016
sad sad I know some guys will come here and comment nonsense ... Cause they don't want to stop and they want to clear their naughty-dead conscience.. By allowing others believe.. Masturbation ain't no bad crime... As the truth hurts... It is a very bad thing.. No matter how you look at it.. Scientifically.. #it's selfish , dirty, downgrading, and disastrous .. Like he said.. You'll keep on graduating in the school of Indecency .. From one level to another and yet another till you can no longer go back.. You've been certified already now.. The earlier the better.. #God is the answer.. # to avoid raping your daughters.. Cause it must surely start from home.. #be safe guys..

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by Olaone1: 4:06pm On Jan 06, 2016
Hmmmmm
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by ritzyvic1(m): 7:33pm On Jan 06, 2016
mentorandfriend:
Scroll up a bit to see what I wrote about memory loss. I have read it on about four articles done by Professors of international repute. What I wrote there is just a tip of the iceberg. When I do a thread, I will do great references, but that's easy if you could assess great articles for yourself in PubMed or European Journal of Medicine.

I have a strong case between masturbation/porn and why some men can't get up their members, even when they are just about 35 or 40, without any trace of Diabetes Melitus in their system.

I might do a thread on it when I have time to patrol PubMed or European Journal of Medicine all night so as to put forward to everyone great references from reputable individuals in reputable medical institutions /teaching hospitals from across the world.

Thank you very much for your response. I have been further enlightened by other articles I read about this issue. It's very logical to say that porn or masturbation addition could lead to erectile dysfunction. I understand that flooding of the brain with dopamine while watching porn results to decrease in sensitivity of it's receptors hence ED. But look at where I am interested in: there are some normal guys (not sexually depraved) that is waiting for marriage or wanna be faithful to their wives that atimes get hard on that can't even let them sleep well in the night and thereby forced to relieve themselves. So what could be the effect in this group of men I described?
Thanks
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by mentorandfriend(m): 9:07pm On Jan 06, 2016
ritzyvic1:


Thank you very much for your response. I have been further enlightened by other articles I read about this issue. It's very logical to say that porn or masturbation addition could lead to erectile dysfunction. I understand that flooding of the brain with dopamine while watching porn results to decrease in sensitivity of it's receptors hence ED. But look at where I am interested in: there are some normal guys (not sexually depraved) that is waiting for marriage or wanna be faithful to their wives that atimes get hard on that can't even let them sleep well in the night and thereby forced to relieve themselves. So what could be the effect in this group of men I described?
Thanks
Foreign Journals of Medicine headline ADDICTION. In essence, doing it every other day.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by jenavism44: 11:44am On Jan 13, 2016
FACTS ABOUT MASTUBATIONS
*****************************
Mastubation according to oxford learner dictionary says' mastubation is the practice of rubbing your sexual organ in pursuance to give yourself sexual pleasure' other definitions of mastubations are 'it is the act of stroking,touching and rubbing of the sexual organ i.e the vaginal and penis in other to quench pent up sexual urge.it is also done for other purposes Which i will latter adubrated,mastubations is like a synthetic drugs that have indications,contra-indications.sides effects,adverse effects.interractions and dosage and administrations.but many have different oppinions toward this practice,some say it is a sin,while others say it is not a sin, as far no one is hurt,'moreover mastubations is not a gross sexual immorality like fornications,adultery,having sex with animals,lesbianism,homosexualism,etc,they even called it an habit but not a word standard habit says the Jehovah witnesses(read questions young people ask page 41 published by the Jehovah witnesses)''mastubations is more like other habits,mastubation itself is not a sin against God,it is just an habit, satan is only using counter-productive thought of it to oppress your mind to make your walk with God ineffective, but if you dont like an habit or if you are hurt by any habit you can replace it with other habit,especially a good one.(says pastor Chris. Oyakhilomen during monthly global holy communion service).As afar mastubation does not hurt anyone i.e your God.your neighbour and you and if it is done decently,moderately and if it is ethically justified,it is not a sin at all,but if it done filthily and indecently then it becomes a sin.
COMPOSITIONS
**************
your body i.e your sexual organs and hands.(NB.it is dangerous when your mind is included because satan can used it against you)
INDICATIONS
************
it is indicated for the treatment of erectile dysfunctions,i.e it is used to gain erection of penis before copulation and coitus interruptus.
Mastubation help woman to having sexually fulfilled life in case when the man of the house is not satisfying her,it can also prevent them from committing gross sin such as fornication,adultery,hatred of partner,sexual abuse,molestation and divorce,etc.
Mastubation help some mature virgins boys or men in other to avoid some health complications.and also help to maintain self esteem without fornicating
Mastubation help married men to empty semen from their urethra after withdrawal(asked men)when men refused to complete sexual circle in pursuance to prevent pregnancy.
Mastubation help to calm one from sexual nerveousness during and after eruption(ask the men)
Mastubation help patient to get semen as a specimem for doctor to diagnose.since that is the simple method to get it(ask the doctor).
Mastubation help to maintain one's esteem,it prevent gross sin in absence of partner.
The bible says'it better to marry than to burn with passion,Mastubation help unmarried person to quench burning passions and sexual pent up urges.(self control is best choice in this case but mastubation is better than fornication)(ask your pastor)
Mastubations is indication for so many things which otherwise will engender gross sin.thats while God didnot speak against it,neither did he support it,but wisdom should be your teacher and your guild(ask yo ur pastor)
CONTRA-INDICATED
******************
Mastubation should not be wrongly placed.i.e it should not replace your God ordain sexual life(read 2cor 7vs 30)
Mastubation should not play the major role in your sexual life,(marital sex and self control are excellent keys for fulfill life)
Mastubation is not indication for kids below 18 year(see precautions below)
Mastubation should not be done with other persons.and animals and some spirit beings etc.
PRECAUTIONS AND WARNINGS
****************************
Mastubation may cause erectile dysfunction
Female virgin should exercise selfcontrol and patience, for mastubation can destory their hymen and thereby lose their virginity and self confidence.
Mastubation should not be done frequently only on doctor prescription in other to avoid complications,
Married men should not use all the time to mastubate before copulating,use the time on your wife,dont spend all the practical time mastubating,
Men should not see opposite sex as mere object for self gratification,
Married men or women should not replace intercourse with mastubations,they should extirpate any form of selfishness and self centeredness(God hate this) sex is ordain for enjoyment and for procreation,dont replace it with something else
Mastubation should be done decently and moderately,it should not be done with other persons or animals.
Mastubation should not be done in public places,your nude picture should not be expose on the internet(i.e self abuse and filthiness) God hate all forms of filthiness and uncleanness.if you find yourself in such state,ask God for forgiveness and repent immediately
Dont mastubation having some evil imagination,dont pollute yourself with lust and evil imagination,i.e dont imagine yourself having sex with someone while mastubation.
Dont enjoin anyone to do it,dont teach anyone to practice it,except on doctor prescriptions.
If you are not convince about it dont do it,anything done without conviction is a SIN,If your mind condemn you,God is greater than your mind,you can chose self control,(read pastor chris words and also questions young people ask published by the Jehovah withnesses page)
Uncontrollable desires and unstoppable mastubation should be avoided,any form of hurtful desire like homosexuality,lesbianism,self anal services,to have sex with animal etc should be thwarted with immediate effects,if you are struggling with these habits or desires seek God's help immediately,God is able to save your soul from hell'therefore put away all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness and receive the engrated word of God which is able to preserve your soul
If you are not mastubating before now,pls dont start,and if you are mastubating before now pls dont continue because of adverse effect,(see effects below)
SIDES EFFECTS
*************
Mastubation may cause the following health issues in some persons
1)errectile dysfunction
2)sexual weaknesses
3)quick ejaculations
4)prostate cancer
5)lack of sexual interest for
opposite sex
6)selfish desire and self-cen
teredness
7)seeing opposite sex as un
important
coolexcessive mastubate cause
sickness,emaciation and
confusion
9)mastubation may entangle
ensnare and hurt you emo-
tionally and psychologically
10)mastubation may become
an uncontrollable habit
ADVERSED EFFECTS
*****************
1)mastubation may engender other forms of hurtful de-
sires likes lesbianism,homo
sexualism,child abuse,self
abused,human abuse
which is very dangerous
2)mastubation is a form of uncleanness and immorality when it is not done decently and moderately,which can lead one to hell
3)mastubation,when wrongly place can defile the body which is God temple,those who defile God's temple will be destory
4)mastubation can prevent the purpose of marriage i.e procreation
5)mastubation can engender any form of lust that can corrupt your soul
6)when mastubation is done filthily,it may lead you to hell
7)The counter-productive thought that comes from mastubation can attenuate your walk with God
coolmastubation may affect your mind to have guity conscience,doubt,fear,and uncertainty
9)mastubation may lead to having low self esteem toward your spouse
10)mastubation can destory your health,hurt your mind and pollute your spirit
INTTERACTION
**************
1)when It is done with evil imaginations is polluted
2)when it is expose in the internet is polluted
3)when it is done with other persons is polluted
4)when it is done with animals is polluted
5)when it is done in public place is polluted
6)when it is done indecently and immodestly is polluted
7)when you replace your God ordain sexual life with mastubation is polluted
NB:anything polluted is unclean,God hates all form of uncleanness,therefore put aside any form of filthiness and perfect holiness in the fear of the Lord.2cor.7vs1)
DOSAGE AND ADMINISTRATION
****************************
Mastubation should be done moderately and decently
Mastubation should be done unfrequently and controllably
It should be done with caution,in case of overdose,it should be thwarted with self control and meditation of God's word,and prayer,also tell your pastor about it.
CONCLUSION
***********
Mastubation have a whole lot of advantages and disadvantages,when God tells you to avoid some certain things,not because those thing are sins but they may abilities to destory you.when the warnings and precautions are followed IT IS NOT A SIN,but when you act contrary to warnings and precautions,it becomes A SIN, because such act is polluted.in conclusion unfilthy mastubation is not a sin while filthy mastubation is a sin.if any one is contentious about this.then he need to re-appraise his oppinion toward this topic.thank you
Written and published by Dunamis zoe
Jenavism44@gmail.com
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by jenavism44: 4:36pm On Feb 11, 2016
FACTS ABOUT MASTUBATIONS
*****************************
Mastubation according to oxford learner dictionary says' mastubation is the practice of rubbing your sexual organ in pursuance to give yourself sexual pleasure' other definitions of mastubations are 'it is the act of stroking,touching and rubbing of the sexual organ i.e the vagina and the penis in other to quench pent up sexual urge.it is also done for other purposes Which i will latter adumbrate,mastubations is like a synthetic drugs that have indications,contra-indications.sides effects,adverse effects.interractions and dosage and administrations.but many have different oppinions toward this practice,some say it is a sin,while others say 'it is not a sin as far no one is hurt,'moreover mastubations is not a gross sexual immorality like fornications,adultery,having sex with animals,lesbianism,homosexualism,etc, says the Jehovah witnesses,they even called it an habit but not a word standard habit(read questions young people ask page 179, published by the Jehovah witnesses)''mastubations is more like other habits,mastubation itself is not a sin against God,it is just an habit, satan is only using counter-productive thought of it to oppress your mind to make your walk with God ineffective,but if you dont like an habit or you are hurt with any habit,you can replace it with another habit especially a good one.(says pastor Chris. Oyakhilomen during monthly global holy communion service).As afar mastubation does not hurt anyone i.e your God.your neighbour and you and if it is done decently,moderately and if it is ethically justified,it is not a sin at all,but if it done filthily and indecently then it becomes a sin.
COMPOSITIONS
**************
your body i.e your sexual organs and hands.(NB.it is dangerous when your mind is included because satan can used it against you)
INDICATIONS
************
it is indicated for men with erectile dysfunctions,i.e it help men to gain erection of penis before copulation and coitus interruptus.
Mastubation help woman to have sexually fulfilled life in case when the man of the house is not satisfying her sexually,it can also prevent them from committing gross sin such as fornication,adultery,hatred of partner,sexual abuse,molestation, divorce,etc.
Mastubation help some mature virgins boys or men in other to avoid some health complications.and also help to maintain self esteem without fornicating
Mastubation help married men to empty semen from their urethra after withdrawal when they refused to complete sexual circle in pursuance to prevent pregnancy.(ask the men)
Mastubation help to calm one from sexual nerveousness during and after eruption(ask the men)NB.If mastubation is ethically justified before and after marital sex,then it is ethically justified in absence of marital sex,since it the same practice,but it should not be placed wrongly.
Mastubation help patient to get semen as a specimen for doctor to diagnose.since that is the simple method to get it(ask the doctor).
Mastubation help to maintain one's self esteem,it prevent gross sin in absence of partner.
The bible says'it better to marry than to burn with passion,Mastubation help unmarried person to quench burning passions and sexual pent up urges.(self control is best choice in this case but mastubation is better than fornication)(ask your pastor)
Mastubations is indicated for so many things which otherwise will engender gross sin.thats while God didnot speak against it,neither did he support it,but wisdom should be your teacher and your guild(ask your pastor)
CONTRA-INDICATED
******************
Mastubation should not be wrongly placed.i.e it should not replace your God ordain sexual life(read 1cor 7vs1-5)
Mastubation should not play the major role in your sexual life,(marital sex and self control are excellent keys for having a fulfill life)
Mastubation is not indicated for kids below 18 year(see precautions below)
Mastubation should not be done with other persons.and animals and some spirit beings etc.
PRECAUTIONS AND WARNINGS
****************************
Mastubation may cause erectile dysfunction
Female virgin should exercise selfcontrol and patience, for mastubation can destory their hymen and thereby lose their virginity and self confidence.
Mastubation should not be done frequently only on doctor prescription in other to avoid complications,
Married men should not use all the time to mastubate before copulating,use the time on your wife,dont spend all the practical time mastubating,
Mastubators should not see opposite sex as mere object for self gratification,
Married men or women should not replace sexual intercourse with mastubations,they should extirpate any form of selfishness and self centeredness(God hate this) sex is ordain for enjoyment and for procreation,dont replace it with something else
Mastubation should be done decently and moderately,it should not be done with other persons or animals.
Mastubation should not be done in public places,your nude picture should not be expose on the internet(i.e self abuse and filthiness) God hate all forms of filthiness and uncleanness.if you find yourself in such state,ask God for forgiveness and repent immediately
Dont mastubate having some evil imagination,dont pollute yourself with lust and evil imagination,i.e dont imagine yourself having sex with someone while mastubating
Dont enjoin anyone to do it,dont teach anyone to practice it,except on doctor prescriptions.
If you are not convince about it dont do it,anything done without conviction is a SIN,If your mind condemn you,God is greater than your mind,you can chose self control,(read pastor chris words and also questions young people ask published by the Jehovah withnesses page178)
Uncontrollable desires and unstoppable mastubation should be avoided,any form of hurtful desire like homosexuality,lesbianism,self anal service,to have sex with animals,watching pornographic,and listening to erotic stories and songs etc should be thwarted with immediate effects,if you are struggling with these habits or desires, seek God's help immediately,God is able to save your soul from hell'therefore put away all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness and receive the engrated word of God which is able to preserve your soul
If you are not mastubating before now,pls dont start,and if you are mastubating fithily before now pls dont continue because of adverse effect,(see effects below)
SIDES EFFECTS
*************
Mastubation may cause the following health issues in some persons
1)errectile dysfunction
2)sexual weaknesses
3)quick ejaculations
4)prostate cancer
5)lack of sexual interest for
opposite sex
6)selfish desire and self-cen
teredness
7)seeing opposite sex as un
important
coolexcessive mastubate cause
sickness,emaciation and
confusion
9)mastubation may entangle
ensnare and hurt you emo-
tionally and psychologically
10)mastubation may become
an uncontrollable habit
ADVERSED EFFECTS
*****************
1)mastubation may engender other forms of hurtful de-
sires likes lesbianism,homo
sexualism,child abuse,self
abused,human abuse
which is very dangerous
2)mastubation is a form of uncleanness and immorality when it is done indecently and immoderately,which can lead one to hell
3)mastubation,when wrongly place can defile the body which is God temple,those who defile God's temple will be destroy
4)mastubation can prevent the purpose of marriage i.e procreation and it is a hinderance to God,s divine purpose for humanity.the consequences of that will not be pleasant.
5)mastubation can engender any form of lust that can corrupt your soul
6)when mastubation is done filthily,it may lead you to hell
7)The counter-productive thought that comes from mastubation can attenuate your walk with God which may endanger you and expose you to satan.
coolmastubation may affect your mind to have guity conscience,doubt,fear,and uncertainty
9)mastubation may lead to having low self esteem toward your spouse
10)mastubation can destroy your health,hurt your mind and pollute your spirit
11)mastubation can hinders your vital fellowship with God,it can also hinder your marital relationship etc
INTTERACTION
**************
1)when It is done with evil imaginations is polluted
2)when it is expose in the internet is polluted
3)when it is done with other persons is polluted
4)when it is done with animals is polluted
5)when it is done in public place is polluted
6)when it is done indecently and immodestly is polluted
7)when you replace your God ordain sexual life with mastubation is polluted
NB:anything polluted is unclean,God hates all form of uncleanness,therefore put aside any form of filthiness and perfect holiness in the fear of the Lord.2cor.7vs1)
DOSAGE AND ADMINISTRATION
****************************
Mastubation should be done moderately and decently
Mastubation should be done unfrequently and controllably
It should be done with caution,in case of overdose,it should be thwarted with self control and meditation of God's word,also disclose the issue to your pastor.i believe he or she will help you with the word to conquer that stronghold(habit)
CONCLUSION
Mastubation have a whole lot of advantages and disadvantages,when God tells you to avoid some certain things,not because those things are sins but because they may have the abilities to destroy you.For example addiction to watching tv is not a SIN AGAINST GOD,but such addiction can engender adverse circumstances that will affect your accademic,physical.and spiritual life,TV addictions brings with it a host of potential problems such as slipping grades,poor reading habits,diminished family life,laziness,exposure to unwholesome influences,disobedient to parent.lack of concentration,distractions etc,so you see! So if you want to conquer this habit,the same admonition and concel given to mastubator will be given to you,not because it is a sin,but because it is wrongly placed,watching of football,eating too much sugar,bathing once a day,mastubating,addiction to tv,reading.sucking of ice block,bleaching of the skin.eating of clay or sand,laquaciousness.gluttony.drukenness,smoking,eating of blood(blood transfusion),drawing of tatoos,gambling,drugs abuse.etc,are habits which are wrongly placed,these habits may or may not be sin against God,but when God tell us to avoid them is because he(God)know the adverse effects they can endenger,in such state follow after instructions and avoid them. when the warnings and instructions are followed IT IS NOT A SIN,but when you act contrary to warning and instructions it become a sin,not against God but against instruction, unfilthy mastubation is not a sin while filthy mastubation is a sin.i.e in essence of this, mastubation is not a sin,but when it is wrongly placed it becomes a sin.By this you will understand the words and teachings of Rev.Chris Oyakhilome concerning this topic,because people lacked the perspicacity of this subject,but those who have the epignosis(deep and absolute knowledge) of this matter will understand what Rev.chris taught about mastubations,he was not enjoining people into any filty act of mastubation rather he was allerviating and mitigating the guilty conscience of those who find themselves in such dilemma at the same time he was pontificating his opinion and conviction about mastubation,Just like what Jesus said about ceremonial washing of hand,when he said 'not what enter into a man that defile a man but what proceed from the heart that corrupt a man'every one disagree with him including his followers.but that did not change its actuality and truism,some of his follower even left him,read your bible.Rev.chris oyakhilomen said ''...it just like any other habit like watching football...''addiction to any habit may have adverse effect,the act itself may not be sin against God,but the addiction is the problem,so when dealing with an habit,firstly,know if the act is a sin against God,secondly,know what lead to having that habit,thirdly,do your best to conquer that habit,many taught that chewing of gum is a sin against God,until someone taught otherwise,though chewing bubble gum have side effect and adverse,but it is not a sin against God,someone can be addicted to chewing bubble gum,the same word Rev.chris said about mastubation will be said concerning addiction to chewing of gum,but he said''...if you dont like an habit or if you are hurt by any habit you can replace it with a good one...''pastor chris theory on mastubation is not what quibbling and prattling about,the fact he said''...if you are hurt by any habit...''means some habits are hurtful which may include mastubation,he also said ''...replace it with a good one...''meaning some hurtful habits are bad which can be replace with a good one,which may be self control,in order word,christain should avoid any hurtful habit like mastubation,alcoholism,smoking,gluttony,chewing bubble gum,gambling,etc,these habits are hurtful,the bible says''dont look at a wine when it is red''why?because it is hurtful'when God tell us to avoid things that hurts,not only things that hurt him but things that hurts us as well because he loves us,that is why pastor chris said''...if you are hurt by any habit replace it with another especially a good one''some things may not hurt God but may hurt us,thats is why pastor chris said''...mastubation is not a sin against God.because it does not hurt God,but if it hurt you,you can replace it with a good habit like meditation on God's word,praying,exercising self control,or giving yourself to other things,mastubation when rightly placed does not hurt God which is equal to the word''...it is not a sin against God...'' in essence abstain from any thing that hurt either God,your neighbour,or you.so you see!MEN WITH LITTLE UNDERSTANDING SEES LITTLE STONE AS MIGHTY ROCK,If any one is contentious about this.then he need to re-appraise his oppinion toward this topic or better still maintain your conviction without excoriating others oppinion.God who know best,sees best will judge best,therefore judge nothing before the time.your convictions doesnot make you God,so,stop acting like God.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by idpompe: 7:57am On Aug 27, 2016
God used u brother. Truth is scarce this days
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by tobrinskilanski: 11:17pm On Mar 24, 2017
muheewa:
God Bless You for these piece of advice.................A soul might have been touched thru this.
e fit be u...true talk.
Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by inkaboutit4u(m): 5:57am On May 07, 2017
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Nothing wrong with loving Masturbation

Masturbation is clearly NOT a sin in the Bible. Lev 15: 16-18 clearly describe masturbation and clearly NOT a sin, NO sin offering is reqired at all, under the most strictest ceremonial laws in all the Bible.

Masturbation has over 50 health benefits.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_50_Advantages_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Index_Masturbation_Pages

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Bible_Lust_Matthew_5_28_Taken_Out_Context

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Fornication_Does_NOT_have_10_different_meaning_like_they_want_to_tell_you.


loving x rated photos and videos is NOT porneia.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Pornography_What_it_is_and_What_it_is_NOT

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Porn_Not_for_Rapists

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by BladeRunner2049: 5:35am On Feb 07, 2018
Why you SHOULDN'T stop watching porn and master bating:
1. You can't or won't stop doing it no matter how "cured" you are from it, sex is natural human/animal instinct created by God therefore masterbation and watching porn is natural God given instinct. There's no "escaping" it, it's who we really are. Except it and stop repressing your God given Sexuality.
2. Watching porn can be informative if you're open minded.
3. It isn't sin to masterbate or watch porn, it is normal.
4. Masterbation has health benefits.
5. Masterbation is fun and pleasurable, it's nothing to be ashamed of.......EVERYONE does it!
6. Watching porn is fun and can be very satisfying......again, nothing to be ashamed of.
7. The same self righteous people who tell you it's "sin" and "you'll go to Hell if you do it" are the same hypocrites who probably watch porn the most on their computers and probably into illegal child porn as well. Trust no man but God himself. Period.
8. There's no biblical scripture that condemns porn or masterbation......NOT ONE. Porn as we know it today didn't even exist in Biblical times lol!
9. People who want to repress you from having pre marital sex, masterbation, and porn are repressed themselves because of their false religious beliefs about sex being "dirty" or "sin".
10. Stop listening to people's crazy self righteous religious BS and enjoy God's free gift of sexuality for all!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by inkaboutit4u(m): 12:15am On Feb 08, 2018
BladeRunner2049:
Why you SHOULDN'T stop watching porn and master bating:
1. You can't or won't stop doing it no matter how "cured" you are from it, sex is natural human/animal instinct created by God therefore masterbation and watching porn is natural God given instinct. There's no "escaping" it, it's who we really are. Except it and stop repressing your God given Sexuality.
2. Watching porn can be informative if you're open minded.
3. It isn't sin to masterbate or watch porn, it is normal.
4. Masterbation has health benefits.
5. Masterbation is fun and pleasurable, it's nothing to be ashamed of.......EVERYONE does it!
6. Watching porn is fun and can be very satisfying......again, nothing to be ashamed of.
7. The same self righteous people who tell you it's "sin" and "you'll go to Hell if you do it" are the same hypocrites who probably watch porn the most on their computers and probably into illegal child porn as well. Trust no man but God himself. Period.
8. There's no biblical scripture that condemns porn or masterbation......NOT ONE. Porn as we know it today didn't even exist in Biblical times lol!
9. People who want to repress you from having pre marital sex, masterbation, and porn are repressed themselves because of their false religious beliefs about sex being "dirty" or "sin".
10. Stop listening to people's crazy self righteous religious BS and enjoy God's free gift of sexuality for all!

Great comments, many good points you have made..

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Created_Sexual_Human_Nature

They say over 50% Pastors look at Indecency regularly. I think that % is much higher then that.

The fact i heard a story that somewhere they had a youth Pastor weekend convention and that weekend they sold more Indecency videos then ever before.

The fact is God made all creation especially humans curious and high sex drive on purpose so we could have great enjoyment of God given sexuality.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Gave_Sexual_Freedom_to_All_Creation

Many religious people have wrong Bible sexual teaching.They create wrong sex word definitions and take verses out of context to come up with wrong conclusion about sexual matters

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Expose_Wrong_Sex_Teaching_With_URLs


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Guilt_over_Masturbation_feel_shame_and_Guilt



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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by BladeRunner2049: 5:35am On Feb 11, 2018
Also, someone up above claims masterbating causes erectile dysfunction which is false. NOT masterbating is what could cause it in a lot of cases because they're not using that muscle on a daily basis which will cause it to weaken overtime without a proper workout so to speak just like the rest of your body if you don't use it for a long period of time. That's why you see paraplegics with shrunken legs because they don't use them or exercise them anymore which will cause the leg muscles to wither away, the same can happen to a man's penis if he never uses it. The penis is just another muscle that needs to be kept active and healthy. It's common sense people. Your sexual health is important and neglecting it can have very damaging consequences. Stop condemning God given sex!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by BladeRunner2049: 8:24am On Feb 11, 2018
inkaboutit4u:


Great comments, many good points you have made..

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Created_Sexual_Human_Nature

They say over 50% Pastors look at Indecency regularly. I think that % is much higher then that.

The fact i heard a story that somewhere they had a youth Pastor weekend convention and that weekend they sold more Indecency videos then ever before.

The fact is God made all creation especially humans curious and high sex drive on purpose so we could have great enjoyment of God given sexuality.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Gave_Sexual_Freedom_to_All_Creation

Many religious people have wrong Bible sexual teaching.They create wrong sex word definitions and take verses out of context to come up with wrong conclusion about sexual matters

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Expose_Wrong_Sex_Teaching_With_URLs


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Guilt_over_Masturbation_feel_shame_and_Guilt



ok





Could you elaborate on that story about the youth pastor convention a little more? It sounds interesting!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by BladeRunner2049: 11:42am On Feb 11, 2018
GraceBestowed:
ONE reason why you should not do any of this: it is highly demonic and has been used as a tool of bondage by the enemy.

Why do you think there's sexual content everywhere you look now? Sexual perversion is rife and has been 'sold' as normal in our everyday lives. Even children dance in sexually provocative manners and are hailed as 'cute'.

If you disagree, please write an explanatory dissertation. Lol! iJoke iJoke!

#RealTalk #TheTruthIsNotComfortable
Highly demonic? Are you kidding lol?! You've been severly brainwashed my friend, masturbation is a gift from God. Satan has you fooled!

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by BladeRunner2049: 11:48am On Feb 11, 2018
jenavism44:
FACTS ABOUT MASTUBATIONS
*****************************
Mastubation according to oxford learner dictionary says' mastubation is the practice of rubbing your sexual organ in pursuance to give yourself sexual pleasure' other definitions of mastubations are 'it is the act of stroking,touching and rubbing of the sexual organ i.e the vagina and the penis in other to quench pent up sexual urge.it is also done for other purposes Which i will latter adumbrate,mastubations is like a synthetic drugs that have indications,contra-indications.sides effects,adverse effects.interractions and dosage and administrations.but many have different oppinions toward this practice,some say it is a sin,while others say 'it is not a sin as far no one is hurt,'moreover mastubations is not a gross sexual immorality like fornications,adultery,having sex with animals,lesbianism,homosexualism,etc, says the Jehovah witnesses,they even called it an habit but not a word standard habit(read questions young people ask page 179, published by the Jehovah witnesses)''mastubations is more like other habits,mastubation itself is not a sin against God,it is just an habit, satan is only using counter-productive thought of it to oppress your mind to make your walk with God ineffective,but if you dont like an habit or you are hurt with any habit,you can replace it with another habit especially a good one.(says pastor Chris. Oyakhilomen during monthly global holy communion service).As afar mastubation does not hurt anyone i.e your God.your neighbour and you and if it is done decently,moderately and if it is ethically justified,it is not a sin at all,but if it done filthily and indecently then it becomes a sin.
COMPOSITIONS
**************
your body i.e your sexual organs and hands.(NB.it is dangerous when your mind is included because satan can used it against you)
INDICATIONS
************
it is indicated for men with erectile dysfunctions,i.e it help men to gain erection of penis before copulation and coitus interruptus.
Mastubation help woman to have sexually fulfilled life in case when the man of the house is not satisfying her sexually,it can also prevent them from committing gross sin such as fornication,adultery,hatred of partner,sexual abuse,molestation, divorce,etc.
Mastubation help some mature virgins boys or men in other to avoid some health complications.and also help to maintain self esteem without fornicating
Mastubation help married men to empty semen from their urethra after withdrawal when they refused to complete sexual circle in pursuance to prevent pregnancy.(ask the men)
Mastubation help to calm one from sexual nerveousness during and after eruption(ask the men)NB.If mastubation is ethically justified before and after marital sex,then it is ethically justified in absence of marital sex,since it the same practice,but it should not be placed wrongly.
Mastubation help patient to get semen as a specimen for doctor to diagnose.since that is the simple method to get it(ask the doctor).
Mastubation help to maintain one's self esteem,it prevent gross sin in absence of partner.
The bible says'it better to marry than to burn with passion,Mastubation help unmarried person to quench burning passions and sexual pent up urges.(self control is best choice in this case but mastubation is better than fornication)(ask your pastor)
Mastubations is indicated for so many things which otherwise will engender gross sin.thats while God didnot speak against it,neither did he support it,but wisdom should be your teacher and your guild(ask your pastor)
CONTRA-INDICATED
******************
Mastubation should not be wrongly placed.i.e it should not replace your God ordain sexual life(read 1cor 7vs1-5)
Mastubation should not play the major role in your sexual life,(marital sex and self control are excellent keys for having a fulfill life)
Mastubation is not indicated for kids below 18 year(see precautions below)
Mastubation should not be done with other persons.and animals and some spirit beings etc.
PRECAUTIONS AND WARNINGS
****************************
Mastubation may cause erectile dysfunction
Female virgin should exercise selfcontrol and patience, for mastubation can destory their hymen and thereby lose their virginity and self confidence.
Mastubation should not be done frequently only on doctor prescription in other to avoid complications,
Married men should not use all the time to mastubate before copulating,use the time on your wife,dont spend all the practical time mastubating,
Mastubators should not see opposite sex as mere object for self gratification,
Married men or women should not replace sexual intercourse with mastubations,they should extirpate any form of selfishness and self centeredness(God hate this) sex is ordain for enjoyment and for procreation,dont replace it with something else
Mastubation should be done decently and moderately,it should not be done with other persons or animals.
Mastubation should not be done in public places,your nude picture should not be expose on the internet(i.e self abuse and filthiness) God hate all forms of filthiness and uncleanness.if you find yourself in such state,ask God for forgiveness and repent immediately
Dont mastubate having some evil imagination,dont pollute yourself with lust and evil imagination,i.e dont imagine yourself having sex with someone while mastubating
Dont enjoin anyone to do it,dont teach anyone to practice it,except on doctor prescriptions.
If you are not convince about it dont do it,anything done without conviction is a SIN,If your mind condemn you,God is greater than your mind,you can chose self control,(read pastor chris words and also questions young people ask published by the Jehovah withnesses page178)
Uncontrollable desires and unstoppable mastubation should be avoided,any form of hurtful desire like homosexuality,lesbianism,self anal service,to have sex with animals,watching pornographic,and listening to erotic stories and songs etc should be thwarted with immediate effects,if you are struggling with these habits or desires, seek God's help immediately,God is able to save your soul from hell'therefore put away all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness and receive the engrated word of God which is able to preserve your soul
If you are not mastubating before now,pls dont start,and if you are mastubating fithily before now pls dont continue because of adverse effect,(see effects below)
SIDES EFFECTS
*************
Mastubation may cause the following health issues in some persons
1)errectile dysfunction
2)sexual weaknesses
3)quick ejaculations
4)prostate cancer
5)lack of sexual interest for
opposite sex
6)selfish desire and self-cen
teredness
7)seeing opposite sex as un
important
coolexcessive mastubate cause
sickness,emaciation and
confusion
9)mastubation may entangle
ensnare and hurt you emo-
tionally and psychologically
10)mastubation may become
an uncontrollable habit
ADVERSED EFFECTS
*****************
1)mastubation may engender other forms of hurtful de-
sires likes lesbianism,homo
sexualism,child abuse,self
abused,human abuse
which is very dangerous
2)mastubation is a form of uncleanness and immorality when it is done indecently and immoderately,which can lead one to hell
3)mastubation,when wrongly place can defile the body which is God temple,those who defile God's temple will be destroy
4)mastubation can prevent the purpose of marriage i.e procreation and it is a hinderance to God,s divine purpose for humanity.the consequences of that will not be pleasant.
5)mastubation can engender any form of lust that can corrupt your soul
6)when mastubation is done filthily,it may lead you to hell
7)The counter-productive thought that comes from mastubation can attenuate your walk with God which may endanger you and expose you to satan.
coolmastubation may affect your mind to have guity conscience,doubt,fear,and uncertainty
9)mastubation may lead to having low self esteem toward your spouse
10)mastubation can destroy your health,hurt your mind and pollute your spirit
11)mastubation can hinders your vital fellowship with God,it can also hinder your marital relationship etc
INTTERACTION
**************
1)when It is done with evil imaginations is polluted
2)when it is expose in the internet is polluted
3)when it is done with other persons is polluted
4)when it is done with animals is polluted
5)when it is done in public place is polluted
6)when it is done indecently and immodestly is polluted
7)when you replace your God ordain sexual life with mastubation is polluted
NB:anything polluted is unclean,God hates all form of uncleanness,therefore put aside any form of filthiness and perfect holiness in the fear of the Lord.2cor.7vs1)
DOSAGE AND ADMINISTRATION
****************************
Mastubation should be done moderately and decently
Mastubation should be done unfrequently and controllably
It should be done with caution,in case of overdose,it should be thwarted with self control and meditation of God's word,also disclose the issue to your pastor.i believe he or she will help you with the word to conquer that stronghold(habit)
CONCLUSION
Mastubation have a whole lot of advantages and disadvantages,when God tells you to avoid some certain things,not because those things are sins but because they may have the abilities to destroy you.For example addiction to watching tv is not a SIN AGAINST GOD,but such addiction can engender adverse circumstances that will affect your accademic,physical.and spiritual life,TV addictions brings with it a host of potential problems such as slipping grades,poor reading habits,diminished family life,laziness,exposure to unwholesome influences,disobedient to parent.lack of concentration,distractions etc,so you see! So if you want to conquer this habit,the same admonition and concel given to mastubator will be given to you,not because it is a sin,but because it is wrongly placed,watching of football,eating too much sugar,bathing once a day,mastubating,addiction to tv,reading.sucking of ice block,bleaching of the skin.eating of clay or sand,laquaciousness.gluttony.drukenness,smoking,eating of blood(blood transfusion),drawing of tatoos,gambling,drugs abuse.etc,are habits which are wrongly placed,these habits may or may not be sin against God,but when God tell us to avoid them is because he(God)know the adverse effects they can endenger,in such state follow after instructions and avoid them. when the warnings and instructions are followed IT IS NOT A SIN,but when you act contrary to warning and instructions it become a sin,not against God but against instruction, unfilthy mastubation is not a sin while filthy mastubation is a sin.i.e in essence of this, mastubation is not a sin,but when it is wrongly placed it becomes a sin.By this you will understand the words and teachings of Rev.Chris Oyakhilome concerning this topic,because people lacked the perspicacity of this subject,but those who have the epignosis(deep and absolute knowledge) of this matter will understand what Rev.chris taught about mastubations,he was not enjoining people into any filty act of mastubation rather he was allerviating and mitigating the guilty conscience of those who find themselves in such dilemma at the same time he was pontificating his opinion and conviction about mastubation,Just like what Jesus said about ceremonial washing of hand,when he said 'not what enter into a man that defile a man but what proceed from the heart that corrupt a man'every one disagree with him including his followers.but that did not change its actuality and truism,some of his follower even left him,read your bible.Rev.chris oyakhilomen said ''...it just like any other habit like watching football...''addiction to any habit may have adverse effect,the act itself may not be sin against God,but the addiction is the problem,so when dealing with an habit,firstly,know if the act is a sin against God,secondly,know what lead to having that habit,thirdly,do your best to conquer that habit,many taught that chewing of gum is a sin against God,until someone taught otherwise,though chewing bubble gum have side effect and adverse,but it is not a sin against God,someone can be addicted to chewing bubble gum,the same word Rev.chris said about mastubation will be said concerning addiction to chewing of gum,but he said''...if you dont like an habit or if you are hurt by any habit you can replace it with a good one...''pastor chris theory on mastubation is not what quibbling and prattling about,the fact he said''...if you are hurt by any habit...''means some habits are hurtful which may include mastubation,he also said ''...replace it with a good one...''meaning some hurtful habits are bad which can be replace with a good one,which may be self control,in order word,christain should avoid any hurtful habit like mastubation,alcoholism,smoking,gluttony,chewing bubble gum,gambling,etc,these habits are hurtful,the bible says''dont look at a wine when it is red''why?because it is hurtful'when God tell us to avoid things that hurts,not only things that hurt him but things that hurts us as well because he loves us,that is why pastor chris said''...if you are hurt by any habit replace it with another especially a good one''some things may not hurt God but may hurt us,thats is why pastor chris said''...mastubation is not a sin against God.because it does not hurt God,but if it hurt you,you can replace it with a good habit like meditation on God's word,praying,exercising self control,or giving yourself to other things,mastubation when rightly placed does not hurt God which is equal to the word''...it is not a sin against God...'' in essence abstain from any thing that hurt either God,your neighbour,or you.so you see!MEN WITH LITTLE UNDERSTANDING SEES LITTLE STONE AS MIGHTY ROCK,If any one is contentious about this.then he need to re-appraise his oppinion toward this topic or better still maintain your conviction without excoriating others oppinion.God who know best,sees best will judge best,therefore judge nothing before the time.your convictions doesnot make you God,so,stop acting like God.
Most of these "facts" are not facts, where did you get all this crap from? You need to chill, you're way too legalistic about something that is perfectly natural and God given and I'm sure you masterbate like nobody's business just like everyone else. Use common sense, not man's traditions.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by inkaboutit4u(m): 12:40am On Feb 16, 2018
BladeRunner2049:
Most of these "facts" are not facts, where did you get all this crap from? You need to chill, you're way too legalistic about something that is perfectly natural and God given and I'm sure you masterbate like nobody's business just like everyone else. Use common sense, not man's traditions.

You sure are right about that. Lies, lies, and more lies.. Truth will set you free. Lies put you in bondage.

I can't believe anyone would say all those lies. Sure hope no one falls for those lies.

Does it grow hair on your teeth or hands . Remember all the old lies they told people in the past.


They for sure do not read the Bible at all. The Bible tells us that God created sexual enjoyment which includes solo sex also. God give good healthy gifts like Solo sex and partner Sex. Solo vs partner same sex parts are included in both are very good, excellence per God's design. This anti-masturbation person must condemn both solo sex and partner sex because both are in Lev 15:
16-19 and both clearly are NOT a sin, both require NO sin offering at all.


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Index_Masturbation_Pages

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_50_Advantages_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_7_Health_Benefits_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_Is_Required

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_NOT_a_sin_but_a_Gift_From_God

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by BladeRunner2049: 9:06pm On Feb 17, 2018
inkaboutit4u:


You sure are right about that. Lies, lies, and more lies.. Truth will set you free. Lies put you in bondage.

I can't believe anyone would say all those lies. Sure hope no one falls for those lies.

Does it grow hair on your teeth or hands . Remember all the old lies they told people in the past.


They for sure do not read the Bible at all. The Bible tells us that God created sexual enjoyment which includes solo sex also. God give good healthy gifts like Solo sex and partner Sex. Solo vs partner same sex parts are included in both are very good, excellence per God's design. This anti-masturbation person must condemn both solo sex and partner sex because both are in Lev 15:
16-19 and both clearly are NOT a sin, both require NO sin offering at all.


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Index_Masturbation_Pages

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_50_Advantages_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_7_Health_Benefits_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_Is_Required

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_NOT_a_sin_but_a_Gift_From_God

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Exactly and He wants us to have lots and lots of sex partners, more than we can count! God loves sexual pleasure, why else would we be thinking about sex every minute of the day? God put that strong desire there! Masterbation is part of God's sexual plan for us and it will not be denied. Our desires will always win over man's traditions or religions.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 8:35am On Mar 19, 2018
BladeRunner2049:
Exactly and He wants us to have lots and lots of sex partners, more than we can count! God loves sexual pleasure, why else would we be thinking about sex every minute of the day? God put that strong desire there! Masterbation is part of God's sexual plan for us and it will not be denied. Our desires will always win over man's traditions or religions.
Lol, funny humans..... First of all, the fact that you've nothing important to do than to just think about sex all day doesn't mean it's same with everyone...
Yes, God created the desire in us and only He can tell us how to satisfy such desire, He says get married... A sexual act is only in line with God's will when it is between TWO married people.... Self Masturbation is never part of God's sexual plan for humans and stop saying unfounded things..... If it was, why would he have said that it is not good for Man to be ALONE?
And by the way, our desires can always be controlled... If not God wouldn't ask us to do so....
Must you always be part of those that fulfil the scriptures prophecy about those of the last days? Opening your mouth to spit out teachings of Demons here and there... Be kiaful.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 8:53am On Mar 19, 2018
inkaboutit4u:


You sure are right about that. Lies, lies, and more lies.. Truth will set you free. Lies put you in bondage.

I can't believe anyone would say all those lies. Sure hope no one falls for those lies.

Does it grow hair on your teeth or hands . Remember all the old lies they told people in the past.


They for sure do not read the Bible at all. The Bible tells us that God created sexual enjoyment which includes solo sex also. God give good healthy gifts like Solo sex and partner Sex. Solo vs partner same sex parts are included in both are very good, excellence per God's design. This anti-masturbation person must condemn both solo sex and partner sex because both are in Lev 15:
16-19 and both clearly are NOT a sin, both require NO sin offering at all.


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Index_Masturbation_Pages

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_50_Advantages_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_7_Health_Benefits_of_Masturbation

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_Is_Required

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Masturbation_NOT_a_sin_but_a_Gift_From_God

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There is no where in that Bible verse you quoted that shows support for solo sex or whatever you call it.....
Leviticus 15:16-18 reads....

16
KJV:And if any man's seed of COPULATION go out from him, then he shall wash all his flesh in water, and be unclean until the even.

17
KJV:And every garment, and every skin, whereon is the seed of COPULATION, shall be washed with water, and be unclean until the even.

18
KJV:The woman ALSO with whom man shall lie with seed of COPULATION, they shall both bathe themselves in water, and be unclean until the even.

Now, how does that verse support solo sex? And please explain how the sexual pleasure or enjoyment as you put it include "solo sex", (where did this even come from?)

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 9:06am On Mar 19, 2018
BladeRunner2049:
Also, someone up above claims masterbating causes erectile dysfunction which is false. NOT masterbating is what could cause it in a lot of cases because they're not using that muscle on a daily basis which will cause it to weaken overtime without a proper workout so to speak just like the rest of your body if you don't use it for a long period of time. That's why you see paraplegics with shrunken legs because they don't use them or exercise them anymore which will cause the leg muscles to wither away, the same can happen to a man's penis if he never uses it. The penis is just another muscle that needs to be kept active and healthy. It's common sense people. Your sexual health is important and neglecting it can have very damaging consequences. Stop condemning God given sex!
NO one is condemning "Sex" here, of course it's a beautiful experience (especially when it's done the right way),.... Self masturbation and watching of pornography is what is being kicked against here.

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Re: Why You Should Stop Watching Pornography & Masturbating by prinzfavian(m): 9:12am On Mar 19, 2018
inkaboutit4u:


Great comments, many good points you have made..

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Created_Sexual_Human_Nature

They say over 50% Pastors look at Indecency regularly. I think that % is much higher then that.

The fact i heard a story that somewhere they had a youth Pastor weekend convention and that weekend they sold more Indecency videos then ever before.

The fact is God made all creation especially humans curious and high sex drive on purpose so we could have great enjoyment of God given sexuality.

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=God_Gave_Sexual_Freedom_to_All_Creation

Many religious people have wrong Bible sexual teaching.They create wrong sex word definitions and take verses out of context to come up with wrong conclusion about sexual matters

http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Expose_Wrong_Sex_Teaching_With_URLs


http://inkaboutit4u.com/?p=Guilt_over_Masturbation_feel_shame_and_Guilt



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You may be right about, all this happening.... But it still doesn't prove that it's right!.... These are imperfect people, so may be controlling their desires and their actions may be difficult but it's not same for everyone....
And yes, this nature of ours (sexuality) is God given, doesn't that prove beyond doubt that only He should tell us how to use, explore, express and enjoy it?.... Just as a manufacturer is the only one legally authorised to show with the aid of a maual how his product should be operated or used.
Self Masturbation can never be right, no matter how much you try to prove otherwise.

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