So we were at the parlor discussing and my uncle's wife dropped the food b4 him without bending her knees-yeah u understand how ladies do it nah. i first tot it was an oversight but its over a week naw ive been at their place and i dont c her do that. I believe is wrong as thats a sign of honor to the husband. Ladies of the 21st century, bash me if u like but its wrong to serve a man food without giving him that honor especially if he's older or simply ur husband.

Don't say that baba...
Does she have to lick his feet to show respect for him

Who art thou and what planet are u from? Guy this is d 21st century and things have changed totally.

donpata:
So we were at the parlor discussing and my uncle's wife dropped the food b4 him without bending her knees-yeah u understand how ladies do it nah. i first tot it was an oversight but its over a week naw ive been at their place and i dont c her do that. I believe is wrong as thats a sign of honor to the husband. Ladies of the 21st century, bash me if u like but its wrong to serve a man food without giving him that honor especially if he's older or simply ur husband.

She's supposed to kneel there and hold the tray while the man eats.


Did your uncle complain?Better collect the small change they want to give you and leave their house.

Oga, it's none of your business. . Go and get a family of your own, maybe your wife will be rolling on the floor while serving you. .. Mtcheeeew. .

@Donpata

Did your mama or papa hit your skull one time too many?

Rubbish... wake up this is 2016

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So she should bend her knees because she want to serve her husband? Say wetin happen

What kind of nonsense topic is this?

Lobatan...

Is this a thread?

Traditional men everywhere

I am so happy to see so many men responding . There is hope for men yet

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dangotesmummy:
Is this a thread?

I guess the op is looking for attention and front page things. Busy body... Op go back to ur own house and get busy

donpata:
So we were at the parlor discussing and my uncle's wife dropped the food b4 him without bending her knees-yeah u understand how ladies do it nah. i first tot it was an oversight but its over a week naw ive been at their place and i dont c her do that. I believe is wrong as thats a sign of honor to the husband. Ladies of the 21st century, bash me if u like but its wrong to serve a man food without giving him that honor especially if he's older or simply ur husband.

I have butter fingers, but as my HUSBAND I will bring you HOT soap in bed....every morning!! Just for you hubby. I promise to "Honour" you till death we part

Jobless poster

You better employ an househelp for your uncle so that she will be kneeling when giving him his food

donpata:
So we were at the parlor discussing and my uncle's wife dropped the food b4 him without bending her knees-yeah u understand how ladies do it nah. i first tot it was an oversight but its over a week naw ive been at their place and i dont c her do that. I believe is wrong as thats a sign of honor to the husband. Ladies of the 21st century, bash me if u like but its wrong to serve a man food without giving him that honor especially if he's older or simply ur husband.

Just when you think you have heard it all, another one comes from left field. The other day it was one complaining that her brother was a houseboy because he was helping out his wife, today this one say the woman no kneel down serve food. Y people poke nose in other people's homes I don't know. Mind ya business.

I knw i will be bashed. Still yet, i no sen. Someone reminded me that this is 21st century; of coz, it is. Thats y marriages struggle to last this days. These are little spices that add beauty to marriages.. My girl does it and the day she 4gets, d kind eye i go look her go make her apologize sharply. Trust me, it's fun. I never meant she shld hit her knee on d ground but just bend am low a bit. many bashing me grew to c their mums doing it. Guys bashing me, una miss Road

donpata:
So we were at the parlor discussing and my uncle's wife dropped the food b4 him without bending her knees-yeah u understand how ladies do it nah. i first tot it was an oversight but its over a week naw ive been at their place and i dont c her do that. I believe is wrong as thats a sign of honor to the husband. Ladies of the 21st century, bash me if u like but its wrong to serve a man food without giving him that honor especially if he's older or simply ur husband.

@donpata, your sense of reasoning is like that of the 'slave trade masters' during the colonial era. I wonder how you are gonna treat your wife when youmarry her, simply because you paid her brideprice doesn't make you god over her. Please, wake up from your myopic slumber.

I'm sure you went there to beg for money...Stupid jobless Mofo

OMG! Which cave did you crawl out from?
I pity that your girl no be small!
Orisirisi.

donpata:
I knw i will be bashed. Still yet, i no sen. Someone reminded me that this is 21st century; of coz, it is. Thats y marriages struggle to last this days. These are little spices that add beauty to marriages.. My girl does it and the day she 4gets, d kind eye i go look her go make her apologize sharply. Trust me, it's fun. I never meant she shld hit her knee on d ground but just bend am low a bit. many bashing me grew to c their mums doing it. Guys bashing me, una miss Road

Op, Just say ur brothers slave..

thorpido:
She's supposed to kneel there and hold the tray while the man eats.


Did your uncle complain?Better collect the small change they want to give you and leave their house.

But why is it that people who are holding cap in their hands for favour always want to lord it over others? It's like the more humble your station in life is, the more you feel the need to stand on top of someone's head so you can feel better about yourself. Truly King of the Lions in Ajegunle mentality.

I have a feeling this OP was fuming inwardly that the piece of meat in the meal his uncle's wife gave him was not "befitting", so he also noticed her "disrespect" as well.

Seriously mteww

Why are woman all over this thread....

Are they all scared of kneeling down....

It's simply a sign of respect, not slavery...
My wife derives joy in doing it....
Don't know why those here are grumbling....

johnson232:
Why are woman all over this thread....

Are they all scared of kneeling down....

It's simply a sign of respect, not slavery...
My wife derives joy in doing it....
Don't know why those here are grumbling....

Lovely, your wife derives joy in doing it does not mean others will. There are probably a few things your wife will not do for you that another man's wife will do for him. The issue for me is not whether she kneels, bends knee or not. The issue why won't you guys mind your business? It's not your home so mind your business. When you get to your house then do what you want with your wife or husband. Is that too hard?