freecocoa:
Ogbeni I know what illegitimate means that's why I asked what you meant exactly and don't start with me this new year.

The hell it won't matter.

Mschewww.

30 days too late, but happy new year...

freecocoa:
Ogbeni I know what illegitimate means that's why I asked what you meant exactly and don't start with me this new year.

The hell it won't matter.

Mschewww.

crackhaus:



30 days too late, but happy new year...

Happy new year to you too.

So you are still on NL, you never old reach to leave?

What of your brother 5minsmadness?

freecocoa:
Happy new year to you too.

So you are still on NL, you never old reach to leave?

What of your brother 5minsmadness?

See who dey ask me if I never old reach to leave NL?

crackhaus:

See who dey ask me if I never old reach to leave NL?

You miss the point. It's only acceptable for younger men and women of all ages to be on nairaland. Aunty is right. You are too old to be here. Have some self respect, mahn.

crackhaus:

See who dey ask me if I never old reach to leave NL?

Lol, that's not the point.

Tim has said it all, although right now I'm not sure he's not mocking me.

Hi Timbuktou.

Let me be the bigger person as usual and wish you a happy belated new year.

freecocoa:
Lol, that's not the point.

Tim has said it all, although right now I'm not sure he's not mocking me.

Hi Timbuktou.

Let me be the bigger person as usual and wish you a happy belated new year.

Why should I mock you. I don't knock people while they're down. I may pity you, but I will try not to mock you.

And how does wishing me a happy new year make you a bigger person? Why do you presume to know what kind of year I want to have. I find it offensive that you want to foist your new year wishes upon me. That's very conceited. Anyway, happy new year to you in revenge.

Timbuktou:


Why should I mock you. I don't knocknpeople while they're down. I may pity you, but I will try not to mock you.

And how does wishing me a happy new year make you a bigger person? Why do you presume to know what kind of year I want to have. I find it offensive that you want to foist your new year wishes upon me. That's very conceited. Anyway, happy me year to you in revenge.

Lwkmd stop the domestic violence in my home



I'm young and impressionable

Nubian113:
Lwkmd stop the domestic violence in my home



I'm young and impressionable

It spices up the marriage. Infuses some passion.

Timbuktou:


It spices up the marriage. Infuses some passion.

Ok now I'm sacred of you

Nubian113:


Ok now I'm sacred of you

That's because you dont love me. The bible says, "perfect love casts out fear"

Timbuktou:


That's because you dont love me. The bible says, "perfect love casts out fear"

You lie it doesn't fear of what Stop confusing me

Timbuktou:


You miss the point. It's only acceptable for younger men and women of all ages to be on nairaland. Aunty is right. You are too old to be here. Have some self respect, mahn.

freecocoa:
Lol, that's not the point.

Tim has said it all, although right now I'm not sure he's not mocking me.

Hi Timbuktou.

Let me be the bigger person as usual and wish you a happy belated new year.

Consider it that I missed the point effectively...some vodka and one wrap of weed on a Saturday afternoon can do that to anyone.

Nubian113:


You lie it doesn't fear of what Stop confusing me

None me tAlk am na, na bible I read am. Are you insinuating that the bible propagates falsehoods?

Timbuktou:


None me tAlk am na, na bible I read am. Are you insinuating that the bible propagates falsehoods?

I've never ever read a Bible so I wouldn't know

Nubian113:

I've never ever read a Bible so I wouldn't know

Very well then.

Nubian113:
If your husband after 2 children wants more children and you say no to his wishes then what is he to do especially if you're against a polygamous relationship.

I know a man in this predicament. I think the wife is wrong to play God with his destiny because it's his right to have as many children has he wants. Why won't she accept a polygamous relationship at least. She wants him to leave his home for another man to raise his kids. Women we can be so bad minded I swear... This man loves you can't you give him more kids or another wife? Come on now you gotta take one for the team IMHO



*man in question is capable of supporting a large family*

** No complications at both pregnancy
**10+ years marriage
** 2 girls but husband wants to try for a son
** he loves her & the children
** no agreement as such before marriage but he has made it clear he'd like a big family

In my opinion the wife is being a little harsh. Maybe I think like this because I've not had children yet. They really really love each other and he'd do anything for her so why deny him a son? I dont understand all these rights...

thank God u are an intelligent lady..... u can how some women normally bring their marriage to ruin and they will start blaming witch and neighbours

marbee:
At OP,how close are you to the man? do you want to become a second wife to him or help him bear the son? Just asking because all you talked about here is what the man wants.

As a female, you have to know that childbearing is not easy for some people, you are not in the labour room with her and you don't know what she went through .
Only the woman can determine what she went through and if her body can withstand and survive another pregnancy,delivery and caring for the child.

ok u were made by God to do the child bearing not man...I'm not canvassing for a football team ooo....yet as a woman should think about maximum of four

Nubian113:
Because he is a "Real" man who is responsible for 3 women. God is great and may he never separate them. The love he has for his wife won't even allow him to be polygamous because Islamic law states that love must be shared by all wives and he would certainly love his first wife more than the other wives so therefore he is not allowed polygamy at this stage. Men and women age differently so maybe in another 10/15 years she'll gift him with a young wife

Thank you everyone. The man went home. The thread is closed.

are u a muslim

Fourwinds:
are u a muslim

God Knows

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I think two kids are enough but the man obviously needs a son to carry forth his name and "legacy". It's a typical African thinking. The tricky part is, even if the wife decides to get pregnant again there's no guarantee for a son. So what happens when the wife gives birth to more daughters? I think it's best if she just allows him to marry a second wife and saves herself the trouble, i.e. if there are no religious restrictions. Polygyny is prevalent in African societies...nothing to frown upon.

Nubian113:
If your husband after 2 children wants more children and you say no to his wishes then what is he to do especially if you're against a polygamous relationship.

I think the wife is wrong to play God with his destiny because it's his right to have as many children has he wants. Why won't she accept a polygamous relationship at least. She wants him to leave his home for another man to raise his kids. Women we can be so bad minded I swear... This man loves you can't you give him more kids or another wife? Come on now you gotta take one for the team IMHO

In my opinion the wife is being a little harsh. Maybe I think like this because I've not had children yet. They really really love each other and he'd do anything for her so why deny him a child? I dont understand all these rights...

These days everything is spelt out from the word go...plus the woman also have a right depending on why she wants just two. It has to been a genuine reason. School fees now is not a small something o.

freecocoa:
Happy new year to you too.

So you are still on NL, you never old reach to leave?

What of your brother 5minsmadness?

Happy new year freecocoa! Thanks for asking after me jo.

5minsmadness:

Happy new year freecocoa! Thanks for asking after me jo.

Lol,happy new year to you too.

I missed seeing you and your madness na so I had to ask.

There is a great example like this: https://www.naij.com/735948-woman-gives-birth-14th-child-14-different-fathers-photos.html Probably, you can give an example with the photo of 14 children, each of them is saying: « Mama and Papa, don`t sleep, let`s play together! ». Don`t be afraid of her fear, this news will backfire, and make her to think. Today a rarity when a man wants a lot of children. A husband, like this should be appreciated.

My instincts tell me you desire to be this man's second wife. I might be wrong but I highly doubt I am.