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How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 11:39pm On Jun 24, 2009
It has appeared that almost all men have added violence no matter how little to their order of peccant acts. How do you think a violent man can be controlled, given that he can be controlled? If you think he can't be controlled or curbed to a considerable length, why do you think so?
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Jun 24, 2009
He can't.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by ThiefOfHearts(f): 11:41pm On Jun 24, 2009
tranquillizer gun just like an animal
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 11:42pm On Jun 24, 2009
ThiefOfHearts:

tranquillizer gun just like an animal

Seems to me like it can control it for a little while. What happens when it's lasted?
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by sistawoman: 11:43pm On Jun 24, 2009
With the police, my brothers, nephews, uncles and my father
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Igwe9(m): 11:47pm On Jun 24, 2009
lol @ you guys smiley
i'd say understanding and  compromise. knowing when to call it a quit.
smiley
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by topup: 12:05am On Jun 25, 2009
The closest thing you can get to control is avoidance, you can control whether you're exposed to him or not.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Nobody: 1:06am On Jun 25, 2009
You can't control a violent man, it's madness to suggest it and would be every womans nightmare. Violence is a sickness, such a person should be institutionalized for treatment and constant monitoring.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by ikamefa(f): 1:14am On Jun 25, 2009
@ topic
give him the purest igbo aka mary jane around you!

hin go humble by force! cheesy wink
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 1:16am On Jun 25, 2009
ikamefa:


@ topic
give him the purest igbo aka mary jane around you!

hin go humble by force! cheesy wink

Very stunning grin
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Nobody: 1:18am On Jun 25, 2009
I dnt know how to, thats why I stay away from them
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by ThiefOfHearts(f): 2:33am On Jun 25, 2009
TheSeeker:

Seems to me like it can control it for a little while. What happens when it's lasted?

you shoot again
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by NaJaHaJe(f): 2:38am On Jun 25, 2009
The vows on the wedding day says "for better or for worse" shey?

Well I'll sign into the gym. The bible says . . . and violence taketh it by force!!
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 2:47am On Jun 25, 2009
NaJa HaJe:

The vows on the wedding day says "for better or for worse" shey?

Well I'll sign into the gym. The bible says . . . and violence taketh it by force!!

Kingdom of God that is!
ThiefOfHearts:

you shoot again

Just a typical New Yorker.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by NaJaHaJe(f): 2:50am On Jun 25, 2009
TheSeeker:

Kingdom of God that is!

My dear . . . the lord is my shepherd and he will never let me cast my foot against a stone or let me beg for bread so when i "taketh it by force" it is in the name of God!!! grin grin grin
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 2:52am On Jun 25, 2009
NaJa HaJe:

My dear . . . the lord is my shepherd and he will never let me cast my foot against a stone or let me beg for bread so when i "taketh it by force" it is in the name of God!!! grin grin grin

Just I'd justify jealousy! God says "I'm a jealous God" and subsequent on the fact that He made us in his image, it lies in all of us to be jealous.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by NaJaHaJe(f): 2:55am On Jun 25, 2009
TheSeeker:

Just I'd justify jealousy! God says "I'm a jealous God" and subsequent on the fact that He made us in his image, it lies in all of us to be jealous.

The bible also says the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and me and the man are joined as one, so WE have an obligation to our bodies. If he has a model way of honoring the temple of God I will happily join him grin grin grin grin grin
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by oyinda3(f): 3:02am On Jun 25, 2009
people are generally motivated by incentives. if they realize that their violent act will result in some sort of negative consequence or punishment for them, they will desist from it. lol
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 3:05am On Jun 25, 2009
oyinda.:

people are generally motivated by incentives. if they realize that their violent act will result in some sort of negative consequence or punishment for them, they will desist from it. lol


E.g. Chris Brown vs Rihanna. He's been handed a 5 year probation and 180 days in prison or 1400 equivalent of work oriented community service.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by sosisi(f): 3:06am On Jun 25, 2009
How do you control a violent man

Answer : You can't
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Outstrip(f): 3:12am On Jun 25, 2009
Lock him in a cage in the zoo
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by NaJaHaJe(f): 3:15am On Jun 25, 2009
Outstrip:

Lock him in a cage in the zoo

Good answer but how will you get him in the Zoo
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Seun(m): 3:18am On Jun 25, 2009
It has appeared that almost all men have added violence no matter how little to their order of peccant acts.
I was going to beg to disagree, but I guess I haven't gone out very much.
You can't control a violent man, but you can leave him and/or get him punished.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Sissy3(f): 3:32am On Jun 25, 2009
arsenic is the only way to slowly control him
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by Nobody: 3:55am On Jun 25, 2009
steer clear of him,avoids him like bullets,men who are violents to their wives or children are not worth to be fathers or hubbys,if u are married to that type divorce him ,
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by ThiefOfHearts(f): 4:01am On Jun 25, 2009
~Sissy~:

arsenic is the only way to slowly control him


excellent wink
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by kolaoloye(m): 11:21am On Jun 25, 2009
By showing more love and also you should add prayers.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by TheSeeker(m): 11:36am On Jun 25, 2009
kola oloye:

By showing more love and also you should add prayers.

Even when he rocks everywhere with chaos when he unleashes his acts?
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by omofola(f): 11:56am On Jun 25, 2009
Always give him holy water to drink, someday he will become holy and less violent.
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by spikedcylinder: 11:58am On Jun 25, 2009
I hope you guys will also show assassins hired to kill you "more love"?
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by chamotex(m): 12:06pm On Jun 25, 2009
*shakes head* at some of the replies
Re: How Do You Control A Violent Man? by whitelexi(m): 12:09pm On Jun 25, 2009
Just give the dude what he wants and there will be peace. . . Simples! wink

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