My first thread on Nl....
Please pardon my way of writing i aint that a good writer,just a learner
It happens that i mistakenly impregnated a girl some years ago,i wasn't ready bcuz i was a destitute then,my mother in-law was suppose to be taking care of her daughter then,but something really baffles me
My mother in-law was the type that like to evade the responbilities of takin care of her children,to cut the long story short..
She always make life difficult for her daughter during pregnancy,she won't even give her a single meal per day,it was i that was taking care of the girl then,just that she aint living with me bcuz i was managing with one of my friend then,she always insult her daughter that why must she get pregnant for someone so destitute
Eventually she sent her packing to come and be living with me that she can't live with her again,bcuz i normally visit her and she can't stand the sight of me
But the girl love me die,when she brought her luggages to my friends place i was so ashamed so i had to go and borrow money from one man in our area that normally give out money with a huge interest,I used the money i borrowed to rent a face me i slap you single room,we were managing there untill God finally answer my prayer and now God has really favour me.....
Now to why i open this thread,my mother in-law borrowed money from those people they call (gurumi,napo,ship nd so on....)Now she is unable to pay them and she is now living with us for the past two weeks now and they are looking for her all over
She wants me to help her pay at least a little out of the money,actually i'm capable of paying all the money but i don't want to,and am getting bored of her presence,I just need advices from mature mind either to pay the money or chase her out of my house....
Pls I swear this isn't a Fantasy,it's my life story and am typing with tears of Joy and sadness,I need your help urgently Nl brainiacs...forgive my long samon.tnks nd God bless

Never repay evil for evil. Show her that age is just a number and that you are the bigger man here. Since you can pay the money why not do so. And you will also be getting rid of her too. At least, even if God doesn't bless you (will He will) her leaving would be reward enough.

If u can help her pay part of the money, pls do, and dont forget u call her ur mother-in-law, cos she is. Just thank God for taking u this far. who knws if ur mother-in-law didnt drive her daughter to come to you, u may still be squating with ur friend.

Forgive her jor...If na u,u go still do same.Wetin u go do if ur duta get belle for a poor dude?This one wey Buhari don mess up our economy join.

Don't know why some people forget easily that the table might turn. No condition is permanent. Help her since God has change ur story.

If u re living with that gal nd ve not married her after God has blessed you, you re confirm End Time dude...

U can help out the woman provided u re going to marry her daughter..

Nl no dey carry last,,I swear all your advice entered the better part of mah body,mature minds do still exist
tank y'all my fellow Nl,,you've all make my day,,i'm gonna do as u said with pleasure...tnx

alatbaba1:
Don't know why some people forget easily that the table might turn. No condition is permanent. Help her since God has change ur story.

yeah no condition is permanent

daveson07:
Nl no dey carry last,,I swear all your advice entered the better part of mah body,mature minds do still exist
tank y'all my fellow Nl,,you've all make my day,,i'm gonna do as u said with pleasure...tnx

You really sound like a good person. . Just help her since it would take nothing from you... You can never lack....

Remember to do proper marriage rites for your babymama.. All the best...

PresVA:
You really sound like a good person. . Just help her since it would take nothing from you... You can never lack....

Remember to do proper marriage rites for your babymama.. All the best...

she just finished her apprihentice,she is now a nurse and i'm trying to set up her mini-shop for clinical purpose so i'm gonna do all the marriage rites before this year runs out by the grace of God,,tnx a lot

You should be grateful God has placed you where you are able to provide for the needs of your enemies..

Don't let hatred becloud your judgment..

Help the woman, afterall ;she gave birth to the lady you are married to..

Whatever you went through is what added together to make you who you are today. Thank God that things have changed for better for you. I can feel your pains. Nevertheless, you need to forgive her. Remember the story of Joseph and his brothers in the Bible. His brother sold him into slavery. He went through hell but at the end, he became a Prime Minister in Egypt and was in charge of Agriculture(plenty of food) when there was a great famine.
When his brother came to him, he forgave them. Though the decision was painful as he actually wept when he remembered what they did to him. His conclusion was that, even though they met evil but God turned it to his good so that he can preserve the whole nation.
See yourself as that Joseph. The greatest revenge you can give back to her is total forgiveness. If you are truly in a position to pay the money, pay it for her and see how God will reward you.

Help her to settle the debt. Then pay your wife bride price and finally send her packing.


Few days later, she will come back to apologize and ask for forgiveness.

Pay it. Its not easy for a woman to accommodate a pregnant daughter when she knows the man responsible.

Seek your mom's opinion on this pls.

@OP whether u like it or not, she is the grand mother to your child and the mother to your girlfriend, in life humans are always clouded by anger and shame, that was what happened to her, you dnt have to blame her becaus everyone has a different character. "let bye gone be bye gone and pay her dept for her and let peace, joy and happiness reign in your relationship.

K

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if I were in your shoes, I will forgive her but I wont give her a kobo of my money. She doesn't deserve any atom of kindness.

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Fukkboy. You no get money you dey give girl belle. I still feel broke with my 6.2 Million in the bank.

Chei. What you were supposed to do was abort that child before you come stress it for no reason in this world.

My 2k.

how is she ur mother in law? u never mentioned that u later married the girl.

anyway, guy help her out make she and devil shame

Don`t treat others the way you won`t want to be treated.

Treat her the way you would have wanted her to treat you back then. Teach her what she should have known. Let her understand that its possible for someone to treat others kindly.

No one knows tomorrow.

Ye

God bless you go ur kind decision to help her again. may ur Bank accounts Neva run dry.

You are even calling face me I face you 'House' Lmao! Man! You need to fix your life first.

Some people need to learn how to treat people and the only way they might be able to learn is to be at the other side of life. If truly you can offset this loan do it not for this woman but for her daughter who is now the mother of your child. Who no maybe she will learn her lesson.

Just help her to pay the money just to rubbish her, simple then let her go back to her own house in peace

Hmmmm

daveson07:
My first thread on Nl....
Please pardon my way of writing i aint that a good writer,just a learner
It happens that i mistakenly impregnated a girl some years ago,i wasn't ready bcuz i was a destitute then,my mother in-law was suppose to be taking care of her daughter then,but something really baffles me
My mother in-law was the type that like to evade the responbilities of takin care of her children,to cut the long story short..
She always make life difficult for her daughter during pregnancy,she won't even give her a single meal per day,it was i that was taking care of the girl then,just that she aint living with me bcuz i was managing with one of my friend then,she always insult her daughter that why must she get pregnant for someone so destitute
Eventually she sent her packing to come and be living with me that she can't live with her again,bcuz i normally visit her and she can't stand the sight of me
But the girl love me die,when she brought her luggages to my friends place i was so ashamed so i had to go and borrow money from one man in our area that normally give out money with a huge interest,I used the money i borrowed to rent a face me i slap you single room,we were managing there untill God finally answer my prayer and now God has really favour me.....
Now to why i open this thread,my mother in-law borrowed money from those people they call (gurumi,napo,ship nd so on....)Now she is unable to pay them and she is now living with us for the past two weeks now and they are looking for her all over
She wants me to help her pay at least a little out of the money,actually i'm capable of paying all the money but i don't want to,and am getting bored of her presence,I just need advices from mature mind either to pay the money or chase her out of my house....
Pls I swear this isn't a Fantasy,it's my life story and am typing with tears of Joy and sadness,I need your help urgently Nl brainiacs...forgive my long samon.tnks nd God bless

Help your mother inlaw my dear brother so that tomorrow she will become a better inlaw.