HARDDON:


How To Date Right

If you so choose to do this, THIS BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE IS GETTING SERIOUS. Only average guys do that. In fact, that is the default mode of guys generally when they feel they've found someone worth it.
*Getting serious means you begin to get conscious around her, you begin to ditch all that you have learnt here. Because you would feel that these drills only apply to hooking new ones. You begin to question the fact why you would need to fun jab your OWN GURL.
Why you need to constantly put her on edge. why you can't spend on her unfettered, run her errands unrestricted, love her with reckless abandon and just let the wimp back on main stream. And here now, you let your heart open, Jrod rule and your brains fall out gallantly.


WARNINGS:

Getting serious breeds tension, you lose your control, jealousy creeps in; you just wano monitor all her activities, she gains full sit in your life, reverse the roles and puts you on edge, you might lose it a couple of times and raise your voice, even flex a lil muscles at her to stamp your pseudo authority, then she withdraws- mono syllables responses, lack of calls, ignores your call, makes the r/ship lose its initial spark and you effectively lose your balls.

Sense Pill
Logical things are boring and senseless to ladies.

DavidTheGeek:


Welcome to the thread. It's obvious you're new here so i'll go easy on you.

We've said it times without number, DON'T ASK A GIRL OUT.

Do you know the number of guys in that your department that has asked her out? .... and she said NO. Why should she say YES to you, is your name Davido?

Don't take what a girl says she won't do too serious.

The problem here is not that she can't date a guy in her department, THE PROBLEM here is she has zero feelings for you.

Don't be surprised to see her tomorrow dating a guy like HARDDON in that same department

The growing feelings you are feeling is a result of her rejecting you. Humans are designed to crave for things they can't have. It's simply psychology. A psychology "tactics" you should master and use to your advantage (Go figure).

Do yourself a favour, read the thread from beginning. There is no "tactics", there is a reorientation and a change of mindset. There is a lifting of vail from the eyes.

Happy reading

Regards,
TheGeek

BestDude:
[sup][/sup] I have this pretty girl and we flirted to which she responded as though she enjoyed it and she even called me a few times but messed by asking her out and she said we should just be friends.

She had confided in me about how guys treated her badly and she is tired or how she wanted to change blah blah.

I have given up already and do not plan to ask her out again but in your wildest experience, has this ever been undone such that a girl later dated a guy she once rejected or turned down?

I search the internet for possibility but it appear such never happens when a girl says "let's be friends" it is over and there is no way to turn things around.

What do you have to say?

DavidTheGeek:


That she said "let's just be friends" doesn't mean she will never change her mind.

If you have close female friends, you will know that girls are unstable when it comes to decisions, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

She will tell you she won't date this guy then few weeks later she will introduce him to you as her boyfriend, "the best thing that ever happened to her".

It's mostly all about feelings with them. If while being "just friends" she falls in love with you, she will be the one pushing for you guys to date even when she had earlier said "let's just be friends".

What to do in that situation is to act like she never said anything. Never pester her or try to convince her with words. Don't bring up the matter again.

There's no law that says you can't flirt with "a friend". Continue flirting with her. Use cocky and funny lines on her. Meet other girls and let her see how other girls love being around you. Use reverse psychology on her. Be sendless. etc.

Basically all you do is act like she never said anything and continue your thing.

BestDude:

Thanks buddy. You rock. She was the one that gave her number from here and even initiated the calls before I started calling her.

DavidTheGeek:

Ooooops...She was giving you "green light". You shouldn't have jumped at it and asked her out. You should have just kept her guessing. Send mixed signals (act like you're into her today, act cold tomorrow). It would drive her crazy.

Anyway, no harm done. Just continue like nothing happened.

absky5:
So, there's this girl in my department that I'm in love with and I asked her out but her response has only been "I can't date my course mate" I tried convincing her otherwise but it all prove abortive. Tried forgetting her also but it's like pouring petrol into a burning fire cos I keep on having feelings for her in a daily basis..... Is there any tactics or trick to use in getting her.... cc HARDDON

Hykis:



Hw do u tell a girl u love her?..remember!!! To avoid givin out ur ball, u don't tell her directly...

So i need to knw, hw?

BestDude:


. She was the one that gave her number from here and even initiated the calls....

HARDDON:


Ouch! Blown food on a platter! Gee, you should be horsewhipped

grateful236:
Good afternoon boss HARDDON, I want to immensely thank you for all the value and knowledge you've been giving. You are truly blessed and God will bless you. i've been A silent follower of this thread offline. I've also been studying this thread carefully and I've been setting practice sessions every single day to home my skills and confident muscles. Please along the line of the thread I came across the part you mentioned about we men being careful when a girl calls you "Oga" . I've been called this. Please what does this mean or imply when a girl calls you Oga. And what Vibes from you would Make her call me that? Thank you.

PS. Starting your blogs tonight And please keep us posted on your books.

grateful236:




Pls help.. .

Cc HARDDON, Davidthegeek

DavidTheGeek:

Hi, i don't understand your question.
I don't see why being called "Oga" is such a big deal.
If she calls you "Oga", you too call her "Oga Madam".

grateful236:

HARDDON wrote a post about it saying we should be careful when a girl calls us that. Just seeking for more clarification

HARDDON:


How To Date Right

Never Get Serious



If you so choose to do this, THIS BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE IS GETTING SERIOUS. Only average guys do that. In fact, that is the default mode of guys generally when they feel they've found someone worth it.
*Getting serious means you begin to get conscious around her, you begin to ditch all that you have learnt here. Because you would feel that these drills only apply to hooking new ones. You begin to question the fact why you would need to fun jab your OWN GURL.
Why you need to constantly put her on edge. why you can't spend on her unfettered, run her errands unrestricted, love her with reckless abandon and just let the wimp back on main stream. And here now, you let your heart open, Jrod rule and your brains fall out gallantly.


WARNINGS:

Never Get Serious

Getting serious breeds tension, you lose your control, jealousy creeps in; you just wano monitor all her activities, she gains full sit in your life, reverse the roles and puts you on edge, you might lose it a couple of times and raise your voice, even flex a lil muscles at her to stamp your pseudo authority, then she withdraws- mono syllables responses, lack of calls, ignores your call, makes the r/ship lose its initial spark and you effectively lose your balls.

Sense Pill
Logical things are boring and senseless to ladies.

HARDDON:


DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

1b. NEVER GIVE A LADY COMPLETE SEAT IN YOUR LIFE

Over Familiarity, they say, breeds contempt.

I say,

SENSE PILL

with ladies, Familiarity kills attraction!


She is not your friend( forget the conventional talks about your lover being your best friend), she is not your sister.
You are in an CEO / manager bond. You would plan together, laugh together, have fun, visit places but everybody should know their place.


So let fly off the handle the notion and innate desire to make her as comfortable with you as possible; only in convo.


SENSE PILL

A man must have the deft touch of a good listener, skills to nudge talks from her.

SENSE PILL

Never get to the "see finish " stage with your rose. For from such, a lot of "husbands of the house" have been reduced to nothing but gate guys.

DavidTheGeek:


OK. He would be in a better position to answer you.

HARDDON:


DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

1b. NEVER GIVE A LADY COMPLETE SEAT IN YOUR LIFE

Over Familiarity, they say, breeds contempt.

I say,

SENSE PILL

with ladies, Familiarity kills attraction!


She is not your friend( forget the conventional talks about your lover being your best friend), she is not your sister.
You are in an CEO / manager bond. You would plan together, laugh together, have fun, visit places but everybody should know their place.


So let fly off the handle the notion and innate desire to make her as comfortable with you as possible; only in convo.


SENSE PILL

A man must have the deft touch of a good listener, skills to nudge talks from her.

SENSE PILL

Never get to the "see finish " stage with your rose. For from such, a lot of "husbands of the house" have been reduced to nothing but gate guys.

grateful236:


OK.. Thank you. HARDDON please help me out and expatiate

Dataspider:


This is important. But how does one prevent over familiarity with his ROSE? What are the things we can do to keep put her on the edge while dating?

DavidTheGeek:


That she said "let's just be friends" doesn't mean she will never change her mind.

If you have close female friends, you will know that girls are unstable when it comes to decisions, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

She will tell you she won't date this guy then few weeks later she will introduce him to you as her boyfriend, "the best thing that ever happened to her".

It's mostly all about feelings with them. If while being "just friends" she falls in love with you, she will be the one pushing for you guys to date even when she had earlier said "let's just be friends".

What to do in that situation is to act like she never said anything. Never pester her or try to convince her with words. Don't bring up the matter again.

There's no law that says you can't flirt with "a friend". Continue flirting with her. Use cocky and funny lines on her. Meet other girls and let her see how other girls love being around you. Use reverse psychology on her. Be sendless. etc.

Basically all you do is act like she never said anything and continue your thing.

HARDDON:


DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

1b. NEVER GIVE A LADY COMPLETE SEAT IN YOUR LIFE

Over Familiarity, they say, breeds contempt.

I say,

SENSE PILL

with ladies, Familiarity kills attraction!


She is not your friend( forget the conventional talks about your lover being your best friend), she is not your sister.
You are in a CEO / manager bond. You would plan together, laugh together, have fun, visit places but everybody should know their place.


So let fly off the handle the notion and innate desire to make her as comfortable with you as possible; only in convo.


SENSE PILL

A man must have the deft touch of a good listener, skills to nudge talks from her.

SENSE PILL

Never get to the "see finish " stage with your rose. For from such, a lot of "husbands of the house" have been reduced to nothing but gate guys.

Idowtfiwnt:
I Just stumbled on this thread ... i think i have been doing this the wrong way ...but i need help right now ... i asked a girl to be my girlfriend on sunday ... i told her that i have been having affection for her for long now and i just decided to tell her cos i couldnt keep it to myself any longer ... after asking her to be my girlfrend .. she said ‘i will think about it ‘ that was on sunday , so today i asked her how far what we talked about has she made up he mind yet and her reply was ‘im still thinking about it .. i dont rush things ‘ so please i want to know what can i do about her now should i take it as a No and move on or should i still keep waiting or what do you suggest i tell her when i meet her again cos i plan on asking her about it on monday ...

Advise please .. i really love this girl

DavidTheGeek
Harddon

2dice01:
well you already made the mistake of asking her out

But e never spoil finish

When next you see her dont ask about it again..do like you never ask her out

Trust me She will be waiting for you to ask her again..the more you ask her the more you feed her Ego till she finally friendzone you

Now bros start diss thread from page 0 all ur answer lies there

Idowtfiwnt:



Okay you mean I should stop talking to her and start reading this thread.. no calls nothing nothing .. what if she takes it as a sign that I’m no longer interested in her and forgets about me ...

2dice01:
i dont say stop talking her

I mean continue ur normal conversation with her without asking out..or asking what is her reply

Firstly she will be curious about why are you not asking about it..

Bro kindly go through the thread

How often do u call/text her ?

2dice01:
i dont say stop talking her

I mean continue ur normal conversation with her without asking out..or asking what is her reply

Firstly she will be curious about why are you not asking about it..

Bro kindly go through the thread

How often do u call/text her ?

Idowtfiwnt:


I dont usually call just texting on whatsapp .. but i feel i cant just be reading this whole thread from beggining i might not have the time and its an urgent issue .. seriously i love this girl .. she is worth keeping

MaxkidOFFICIAL:

maybe everyday

HARDDON:



DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right