Kalatium:
@Harddon
I have been using ur Drills but observed that I ain't going physical. O critical analysis I realised that I ain't touching them. I think you tell us more about the righr time to touch a girl.

Meel:
What is the way forward now, I have given her space. How do I proceed??

maestromicky:
Bosses Boss i hail ooo... Actually there is dis gurl in my class we have been fwends for over a year now... She comes to my lounge stay for longer hours... Actually i have dis sendless lifestyle towards her...nd i think its digging her... Buh nytime she comes around i dont have d sex feelings but dis gurl go wer die... How can initiate dis feelings nd how can i also initiate such feelings in her head....

Kalatium:
@ Harddon
Is is proper to approach a woman through the back? Cos from experience, they tend to be more defensive

echobazz:
Harddon and co,i'm really impressed with the discussions in this thread,well there is this girl who is always asking after my babe but i always keep mute or become less concerned about the question,but she is always persistent about the question.What is she after?

mctowel01:

You made a lot of sense gaan.I ve always known most of the dating tips are not really practical tothe person learning them. It takes an added form of social understanding to be able to communicate same things with words and signs, thereby creating more attraction. Its not always learned online, its natural to some and takes lots of practice for many to develop.

Ustec:


hello BOSS..!
I think it's actually possible if one is able to combine the punchlines very well..was chatting with one yesterday nd I ask her to get me something expensive,I know she's not broke thats y I decided to try it on her,or maybe my judgment was wrong,..either way...below was her reply..

what re the best possible response to that,cos is like she's trying to resist it..
And concerning the other girl I asked of her numbr.,what re the best possible response to that aswell...
Boss,pls help me on these two and I will STOP CRYING LIKE A BAiBY..!LOL

HARDDON:


if you really wanted her to get the stuff, no matter how rich you think she is, you should have started with little things, just like how the ladies do it, they first start 200 airtime, and geometrically increase that.

now youve placed her on red alert.

HARDDON:



first one, you were to hasty , too needy. second one, you shot demand

solution to both cases; abandon the talks, spin another web.

thesuave10:


Food fashion movies tastes in music, future ideas, her core values. Entertainment. Stay away from religion, politics, holocaust, terrorist at the beginning and middle of your journey. Act natural, don't over think it. She's a human being like you. Try linking every conversation.
You: all smiles, seems like you woke up on the right side of the bed today.
Her: smiles says something
What you do is to use what she says to flow.
She might say Yh.. Watched a movie last night or I slept like a baby last night.
From response 1: oh really you're a late night watcher, what movie? Or what movie kept you passed your bed time? Lol

From response 2: like a baby? Some back massages I suppose. Etc

My style tends to give you a very fast but smooth ride.. .

Enjoy!

Kalatium:
@ Harddon
Is is proper to approach a woman through the back? Cos from experience, they tend to be more defensive

lazeal:
Boss, it's been a long time o. You know the girl I talked about and that everrything seems okay? We had been going on fine.

One day I asked what is that thing I do that she likes. She replied that I have faith. I asked her have faith in what and she said have faith in US.

I said yes I do and asked if she does, but later said I know what she has in mind though and I can tell her if she wants.

She urged me to tell her.

So I said I know she wants us to be together and willing to make it work, she believes in us and hope it works out between us but that she has her worries and want to see how far I willing to go and If I truly mean my words. That the most importantly thing is that she is willing.

Here is her reply : "hmmm true but I don't want to hurt my guy"

I ignored that and continued.

She celebrated her birthday not long ago, last Friday and I did do my part.

So yesterday I told her my birthday is April and she repeated that "lol hmmmm same month with my boyfriend"

Bro, I pissed but what would you advise I do? Despite saying she wants us to be together, she knows what I want etc. Should I move on or have a heart to heart talk with and tell her to decide?

It's a complicated issue as I don't want to waste my time only to get "I told you before I have a boyfriend" lol.

HARDDON:


through the back? what do you mean?

u mean from you back? like you were right behind her?

DavidTheGeek:

You want her to leave her boyfriend and be with you huh?

What do you think is going to happen after some time? Same thing that's happening now! A fun guy will come along and steal her attention just like you're doing now.

Relationships gets boring after a while. Cuz guys relax, lose their balls and start treating her like a princess.

You're the new fun guy in her life right now, don't get carried away, cuz, when you guys start dating, there's a likelihood that you'll relax, loose your balls and your steam will blow off.

Forget about heart to heart talk, it won't get you any good result. She might be in love with you but she loves her boyfriend too. And if she says she doesn't want to hurt him, it simply means she's indebted to him. The guy might have being nice to her, like he has helped her in one way or the other and she sees leaving him as paying good with evil.

Kalatium:
Yea, when I'm right behind her

thesuave10:


You are smart bro.
Books and online tutorials do not give enough. By the way we are in the 21st century, the world is becoming more and more visual and practical. USA is better than Nigeria in medicine for example because of the practical aspect. Almost anything can be possible in theory but go out and do it and see for yourself. It's only through you'll understand faster and grasp the concepts. In fact you'll form better lines and better techniques than myself. There's a saying : "tell me I know, show me I remember" . Action speak louder than words. You must practice to be perfect. The major difference between naturals (like myself) and the so called pick up artist(people that studied chyking) is practice. Naturals literally walk on water because they've been doing it for so long it's now a part of them. Books and online tutorials are very helpful but they don't show you everything Like Body language, Eye contact, voice tonality, facial expression etc. Books and online stuffs will only help people with previous social experience and skills. A complete newbie will learn very little

#peace

thesuave10:


You are smart bro.
Books and online tutorials do not give enough. By the way we are in the 21st century, the world is becoming more and more visual and practical. USA is better than Nigeria in medicine for example because of the practical aspect. Almost anything can be possible in theory but go out and do it and see for yourself. It's only through you'll understand faster and grasp the concepts. In fact you'll form better lines and better techniques than myself. There's a saying : "tell me I know, show me I remember" . Action speak louder than words. You must practice to be perfect. The major difference between naturals (like myself) and the so called pick up artist(people that studied chyking) is practice. Naturals literally walk on water because they've been doing it for so long it's now a part of them. Books and online tutorials are very helpful but they don't show you everything Like Body language, Eye contact, voice tonality, facial expression etc. Books and online stuffs will only help people with previous social experience and skills. A complete newbie will learn very little

#peace

Adasun:
harddon,leave dat kid na haba!! Strenght wey u go use yarn things,u dey waste am for person wey no fit get balls to open a thread,he doesn't even knw where to start frm.

Mrluv:
gurus in the house make una come hep out.there is this gal that normaly take her brother to school in our area.so i normally followed her if see her teasing her before we go our separate away she normally tell me bye take care even the last we talk she was free she rappor with me well and i was even trying to hold her hand which she decline.in my mind am doing a gud job and progressing only for me to get shock of my life yesterday i saw her and i went to meet her and i ask her how far she just nod her head and told me that i shld not follow her i was like wtf what type of insult is this what does the gal take me for .so i was calling her she did not answer so i follower to the sch ool where she was going and i asked her why she spoke to me that way she said she did not insult me that she don know me and she don like somebody following her and she walk out on me i was call het she did not answer her junior was even telling het aunty they are call u i don know what went wrong but i need babe to disvirgin me

Mrluv:
gurus in the house make una come hep out.there is this gal that normaly take her brother to school in our area.so i normally followed her if see her teasing her before we go our separate away she normally tell me bye take care even the last we talk she was free she rappor with me well and i was even trying to hold her hand which she decline.in my mind am doing a gud job and progressing only for me to get shock of my life yesterday i saw her and i went to meet her and i ask her how far she just nod her head and told me that i shld not follow her i was like wtf what type of insult is this what does the gal take me for .so i was calling her she did not answer so i follower to the sch ool where she was going and i asked her why she spoke to me that way she said she did not insult me that she don know me and she don like somebody following her and she walk out on me i was call het she did not answer her junior was even telling het aunty they are call u i don know what went wrong but i need babe to disvirgin me

liljboy:
INTROVERT SPECIALIST.
you have to make a move before you lose this other lady, since she looks at you almost all the time, just dash into her office tomorrow and be like, I see you like wearing jeans/shirts/suits/t-shirts, am trying to get one for my sis or female cousin..... where do you buy yours and what's the price range like? she'll be free to tell you. then say something like, what if I give you some cash will you purchase it for me?, then immediately say something else like, NO NO DON'T BOTHER, (with a funny frowning face) YOU MAY JUST CHOOSE TO QUIT THE NEXT DAY AND RUN AWAY WITH MY 4K, ITS MY LAST CARD THIS MONTH, LET ME COME AND BE GOING. then you tell her, see you later madam jeans/shirt etc then bounce.

but guy you need to go back to your root and start having a decent convo with your siblings etc, tackling it from the root will help you a lot.

pkang:
I tried ur lines, it worked a little because after i asked where she bought and the price. She was like at Aba and i travel once a year. I could not proceed to the other lines but i just bounce out after inquiring if see is from Aba.
I dont know if i screw up or am still on track.
I want to know if i go there next morning if its good to ask how was ur 9t which i know she would say fine and i will be stocked or what advise do u have for me.

pkang:


I tried ur lines, it worked a little because after i asked where she bought and the price. She was like at Aba and i travel once a year. I could not proceed to the other lines but i just bounce out after inquiring if see is from Aba.
I dont know if i screw up or am still on track.
I want to know if i go there next morning if its good to ask how was ur 9t which i know she would say fine and i will be stocked or what advise do u have for me.

Mrluv:
gurus in the house make una come hep out.there is this gal that normaly take her brother to school in our area.so i normally followed her if see her teasing her before we go our separate away she normally tell me bye take care even the last we talk she was free she rappor with me well and i was even trying to hold her hand which she decline.in my mind am doing a gud job and progressing only for me to get shock of my life yesterday i saw her and i went to meet her and i ask her how far she just nod her head and told me that i shld not follow her i was like wtf what type of insult is this what does the gal take me for .so i was calling her she did not answer so i follower to the sch ool where she was going and i asked her why she spoke to me that way she said she did not insult me that she don know me and she don like somebody following her and she walk out on me i was call het she did not answer her junior was even telling het aunty they are call u i don know what went wrong but i need babe to disvirgin me