Akinagirl:

For a relationship to last you need more than love. You need compatibility, understanding, trust, you need to be good friends. List goes on or that "love" wont last.

Akinagirl:

If you don't work at it. You cant solidify it. You can get bored with someone and still love them. You can even feel like leaving someone and still love them. But if you truly love that person it wont fade. But the relationship will disintegrate if you don't work at it. You can't go on love alone.

tommy2k2:

relationships is always sweet when it's first started after few months or years in that same relationship, it gets boring and u feel u dont love him/her anymore,
does it means d love fades away?

pc guru:

Am a realist and there's no such thing as true love it's just sheer compatbility and level of being comfortable with another person.True love is a fictional concept doesn't exist.And if it does then it's bound to fade cuz nothing last forever.

Busy_body:

[b]
Choosing to love someone is a will, it either fades away and dies if not nurtured or intensifies and grows and blossoms and matures and evolves overtime into something stonger, so love that fades is not love to begin with.


After the initial thrill and excitement and euphoria and admiration and passion and romance has ran its course, it is true love that binds you together. True love is what allows you to set aside your own selfish interest, because the person you love is now laid bare and stripped away and it helps you accept your partner's flaws, weaknesses, shortcomings and habits and overlook the fact that they have gained weight,or that they snore or that they are going bald . . .


When you are truly in love, it should keep you safe and warm, be your comfort zone and a rock you can seek solace from or hide under, somewhere you can be yourself without being judged, where you can express yourself and expose yourself without any fear of repercussion.







_{Disclaimer:
The above does not apply to relationships where there is domestic violence or verbal abuse or being constantly put down, or cheated on continuously or undermined or oppressed etc} [/b]

iice:

Choosing to love is not a popular opinion.  Not controlling love and falling in love at the drop of a hat is a popular opinion.

Thanks for the voice of reason

platinumnk:


u have spoken well. 

Sup you

No2Atheism:

Contrary to popular opinion, you do not choose to love. The truth is that Love grows on you towards someone with time, hence why i find it annoying wen guys and ladies talk rubbish by saying they love each other or wen they say there is love at first sight. That is bullshit.

Surely you have to choose to love someone before you accept them for a relationship, after which love starts to grow and blossom. You can''t just accept to love every Tom, D.ick and Harry that comes your way, you have to make a choice

inspired_m:

Thanks for the voice of reason




Sup you



[b]Surely you have to choose to love someone before you accept them for a relationship, after which love starts to grow and blossom. You can''t just accept to love every Tom, D.ick and Harry that comes your way, you have to make a choice [/b]