It will be difficult but you can save your relationship after cheating. The pain of discovering that your partner has been unfaithful is immense and needs to be addressed. But you can recover and move on to have a stronger partnership than before.

You need to examine if both of you should be together in the first place. You may have spent years just drifting along but are you really happy? Why not make a list of all the things you love about your partner and then all the things that make you saving a relationship after caught cheating

This would have been interesting thread.
But i doubt many people here will respond sincerely
Most of them will just say they will leave their partner.
Even though we know its not true.

If only we can tell ourselves the truth,we've in one way been unfaithful to our partner before.

You don't only become unfaithful by falling on a dick as a lady or by finding your dick in a pussy as a man.