Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.

STOP WATCHING PORN and ure good to go

Depends on what you would like to do about it.
Since you have second-thoughts expressing your desire for the opposite sex, you are resorting to fantasy to fulfil your intentions.
Forbidden fruits taste best, so we are being led to believe.
The first thing is to sort yourself out.
Do you want to have sex with HER or Do you not want to have sex with HER yet?
It's not about stopping the thoughts. It's about admitting what you really want.

you don't self-service ?

Stop thinking with your diccccccccck!

Where is my e-brother? I am missing ya bruh

Watching porn to reduce sex urge

You're a joke.

LORDSAMURAI:
STOP WATCHING PORN and ure good to go

but the feeling led me to watching porn movies

DesChyko:
Depends on what you would like to do about it.
Since you have second-thoughts expressing your desire for the opposite sex, you are resorting to fantasy to fulfil your intentions.
Forbidden fruits taste best, so we are being led to believe.
The first thing is to sort yourself out.
Do you want to have sex with HER or Do you not want to have sex with HER yet?
It's not about stopping the thoughts. It's about admitting what you really want.

if having sex with a lady will stop the thought, why not.. Though i am afraid to have sex before marriage as a christian but the thing is pushing me to have sex

it is nt bad to have sexual urges, but wen it controls and take over ur being, u have a big problem.
stop pornography and get busy in ur mind, there are one thousand and one thing u can keep ursef busy with.

PrimeMinisterr:
you don't self-service ?

yep i dnt

PoliticalThuG:
but the feeling led me to watching porn movies

stop watching it and always pray and read your bible

honeygirl17:
Stop thinking with your diccccccccck!


Where is my e-brother? I am missing ya bruh

lol how does one think with his dicccck?

LORDSAMURAI:
stop watching it and always pray and read your bible

okay sir.. Thank you

PoliticalThuG:
lol how does one think with his dicccck?

Stop thinking about where your diccccccck will enter in a lady. in fact anytime u see a pretty lady pretend you don't have diccccck.

PoliticalThuG:
if having sex with a lady will stop the thought, why not.. Though i am afraid to have sex before marriage as a christian but the thing is pushing me to have sex

Rely on your Christian thoughts to push you through. You can invoke prayers and the word of God to banish your thoughts of evil. Having this thoughts is simply human and natural, but letting them develop roots is purely your mistake. Try to remember the Lord whenever you're having these thoughts and like a habit, it will soon become a thing of the past. It is human to err, but no matter how many times you fall, always remember to repent, to trace back your footsteps. I've seen people who abstain from sex and they lose nothing.

On the other hand, should you decide to forge ahead and have sex with her, then by all means, do so and handle the consequences. Perhaps, you'll be disappointed it wasn't worth all those sweat and time. Either way, there's too much at stake for you to keep being bothered by this 'flimsy' (as you will come to see) issue.

LORDSAMURAI:
stop watching it and always pray and read your bible

Mr carrot I like the new you

honeygirl17:
Mr carrot I like the new you

im mr old cucumber not carrot

LORDSAMURAI:
im mr old cucumber not carrot

Hahahaha, I know its you. Long time

Hmmm...you must rush to any brothel closeby, and reduce the tension ooo, if not even the little girls living around you are not safe: i mean it!!!

honeygirl17:
Hahahaha, I know its you. Long time

shrugs!!! no see, where hav u been?

honeygirl17:

Stop thinking about where your diccccccck will enter in a lady. in fact anytime u see a pretty lady pretend you don't have diccccck.

Lolzzz...pretend ke? Hmmm...with these kind wicked dressings we see these days Na so I see Chioma one day (mehn, this girl is a Bugatti!) with bumshorts, I no know wen i shout Chooooiiiiii!!! Uwa mmebi...

LORDSAMURAI:
shrugs!!! no see, where hav u been?

I am doing great dear and you?
I do see you but I decided to stay low,

honeygirl17:

I am doing great dear and you?
I do see you but I decided to stay low,

IM cool but iv been seeing u and thecongo though.

AngryNigerian:


Lolzzz...pretend ke? Hmmm...with these kind wicked dressings we see these days Na so I see Chioma one day (mehn, this girl is a Bugatti!) with bumshorts, I no know wen i shout Chooooiiiiii!!! Uwa mmebi...

That's why I said make it look as though it does not exist when u see a lady , the ladies are there to tempt you with their skimpy wears which you guys love to see.

LORDSAMURAI:
IM cool but iv been seeing u and thecongo though.

I noticed, sharp guy Congo is just a friend

PoliticalThuG:
Good day nairalanders.

There is this problem i have been having since i was 18. Now i am 22 but the problem still persists. I dnt know what to do to stop it, so i decided to bring it here to seek help.

Whenever i see a lady, what comes to my mind is how to have sex with her. It is becoming so embarrassing because sometimes my di.ck does rise at the sight of a lady or when i'm just enteracting with a lady.

I am a shy person, no doubt about it. Shyness will not allow me woo a lady but the sexual feeling will not go away. Sometimes i do watch porn. movies just to reduce or kill the feeling but it will never go away.

The good thing about this is that i dnt masturbate. I dnt like the idea at all.

Fellow nairalanders, how do i stop feeling Hot each time i see a lady? Does it associate with a particular age? Will i over-grow it?

Your contribution is needed. Thanks.
Lalasticlala.

Involve in recreational activities n stop watching porn bro..

ur brain too dey think far.try to think near when u see a lady and about your John Thomas just stick it into your anus when going out.

PoliticalThuG:
yep i dnt

you sure about that, son?

DesChyko:


Rely on your Christian thoughts to push you through. You can invoke prayers and the word of God to banish your thoughts of evil. Having this thoughts is simply human and natural, but letting them develop roots is purely your mistake. Try to remember the Lord whenever you're having these thoughts and like a habit, it will soon become a thing of the past. It is human to err, but no matter how many times you fall, always remember to repent, to trace back your footsteps. I've seen people who abstain from sex and they lose nothing.

On the other hand, should you decide to forge ahead and have sex with her, then by all means, do so and handle the consequences. Perhaps, you'll be disappointed it wasn't worth all those sweat and time. Either way, there's too much at stake for you to keep being bothered by this 'flimsy' (as you will come to see) issue.

thanks so much.. I will try my possible best to stop it.

honeygirl17:

Stop thinking about where your diccccccck will enter in a lady. in fact anytime u see a pretty lady pretend you don't have diccccck.

lmao this your advice strong ooo.. I will stick to it anyway.. Thanks