Well pregnant or only daughter doesn't mean they should spend everyday with her.
Soon too much visiting may turn to contempt and the respect won't be there anymore.
If she goes to work from their during week days, the mom should let them enjoy their weekends together jare. That's not too much to ask.

As for that other thread, I just use eye look the story. One of those things that in-law meddlesome attitude can cause.
At least he didn't agree with his mom on that issue so let's give the guy a break.

There should be balance either way. Each party should try to make sure their family is not making their partner uncomfortable.

Vikky014:
My big sis the wife is pregnant and she is the only daughter for christ sake


The other day he opened a thread about how his mum cautioned him bc he helped his pregnant wife to carry their heavy bag..i know if it ws his own mum he wont complain


I think this OP is nagging here

cococandy:
Well pregnant or only daughter doesn't mean they should spend everyday with her.
Soon too much visiting may turn to contempt and the respect won't be there anymore.
If she goes to work from their during week days, the mom should let them enjoy their weekends together jare. That's not too much to ask.

As for that other thread, I just use eye look the story. One of those things that in-law meddlesome attitude can cause.
At least he didn't agree with his mom on that issue so let's give the guy a break.

There should be balance either way. Each party should try to make sure their family is not making their partner uncomfortable.

since the wife is not complaining the op shld learn to adapt.marriage is for better for worse

Vikky014:
since the wife is not complaining the op shld learn to adapt.marriage is for better for worse

Will you be of this same opinion if it was the man's mother and he's not complaining?

crackhaus:

Will you be of this same opinion if it was the man's mother and he's not complaining?

y not

Vikky014:
y not

Na so...

Until someone opens a thread on that topic, you'll be very surprised to read the responses of females if the situation was reversed.

crackhaus:

Na so...

Until someone opens a thread on that topic, you'll be very surprised to read the responses of females if the situation was reversed.

i will not be among them

She is bored. Pity.
Op, suggest to your wife the need for your mil to adopt a child....maybe from 5-10 year old girl as her own to keep her company and nurture.

Since her daughter is with her weekdays, I think she should give the couple privacy during weekends...

I understand that she might be lonely shaaaa.

obua:
Your wife is her only child and she is also a widow. Just prepare your mind for a long time of her visit. She has no where else to go.

Thanks so much.
PLEASE send some sense to the OP.
He acts like he was never ready for marriage

Too much of anything is bad. Too many visits lead to contempt and 'see finish'. The mother inlaw n daughter have to realize this. I support the OP in this. Common guys, we know we should withdaw our foot from frequenting people's houses so we dont lose value. Same goes for inlaws. The Mom sees her everyday of the week and still wants to be with her on weekends! Haba! Then why did she give out her daughter? She should learn to let go fast