i'm 18 and i've never been with a guy , but recently i was with a guy. There was no sex, but when i started feeling weird, i read something online about precum. That scared me cos i think he might have had precum on his fingers when he touched me. My period is not due yet but will bw soon in about 3 days. I have been experincing belching/burping, sometimes i feel so full even tho i didnot eat, and sick. I dont have nausea, but i feel my food is trying to go up in my head instead of down to the stomach ( i dnt feel the gag reflex , u kno to throw up). i bought a home pregnancy test but will use it when i suspect i missed my period(my period is due in about 3 days or so). If i'm pregnant i cannot kip the baby and i'd need to kno if there is any GOOD abortion clinic in nigeria and the location. Next week is my awards ceremony in skool cos i won an academic award and my parents are so excited about it.They 'll feel so devastated if i tell them i'm pregnant. i dnt know what to do , i need help, Pls dont judge me or blame me cos it's gonna make me feel worse

Well, i wouldnt know, but may i say it depends on what exactly you guys did. The chances might be very slim for you getting pregnant. It seems you are so scared of your parent, i guess you are not physically, emotionally and financially matured for such relationship. As soon as you get over this, i'll advice you stay-put at least till when you are old and matured enough to handle such things,

just relax, atleast u have not missed the period yet. Anxiety will only delay the period, relax i believe u are not preganant. but be careful next time.

Logically, u are not pregnant until the time for your montly cycle is come and gone and it didnt come visiting.

From your explanation, you are not likely to be, except you are not spilling it all.

No, you are not pregnant, it is the anxiety that makes you think so. But if you think you and your boyfriend did more than you told us and you are trying to take style to know the next thing to do because you know you are or may be pregnant, then tell your parents, there will be shout and rantings, but then, be sure they know the best thing to do that will benefit you. Try and be bold in telling them, let them know that you dont want them to lose you by making another big mistake of aborting it yourself. Goodluck sis.

About exactly what my bf and i did was that, i had my panties, he was masturbating with his hand, and (i read once there is erection , there also is precum), he fingered me( dats what scares me cos he might have precum on his hand). I also feel intermittent abdominal pain (dnt kno if it's cos my period is approaching cos i never really follow my period dates cos i kno dat everly, it'll come ( i just know it come early in the month 1st to 5th ). After the first week of being with my bf, i dint have any worries or symptoms, but ever since i read about precum n became aware of it, i started having those symptoms i listed above.

Why not wait till you miss the period, then you can ask for help, talk of putting da cart before the horse

T'all sounds psychosomatic to me i.e.your fears are triggering body "responses"which align with the same fears.It's likely U're killin' yourself over nothing.Wait for the menstrual flow.The real issue is that you're involving yourself in things U obviously're not mature enough for(psychologically at least).U sound like a young woman who's got soo much ahead of her;soo much to offer herself,her family and her generation to throw it all away just because of some transient ecstasy.Was the thrill you had then worth all this mental agony you're goin' through now?My dear choose wisely.
And don't contemplate anything stupid (like an abortion).There're some monsters out there who'll tell you you're pregnant(even when you're not)just to fiddle with your reproductive organs and collect your money.Sounds horrifying but it's happening and naive girls like you are easy prey.Pls don't jeopardise your reproductive future.As scary as this may sound,the only people that love you genuinely enough and want the best for you are your parents.Run to them not from them.
 Be wise.

You should go to a doctor as soon as possible. There are many things they can do if you are quick.

Get a pregnancy test done.

girlie just tell us the whole truth so that problem can be solved easily,stop beating around the bush.well it might be true i advice you just wait till the sometin comes out.dont panic.but what were you doing in a guys house,thats what your parents will ask you? think about it.anyway that should teachyou a lesson.take it easysha, where the guy dey sef, him no know wetin there happen?

Personally i think you are not
pregnant except offcourse the
guy had a bottle of spern on his
palm which he unknownly pour in
the inside of you.
Its still me.

Take it easy ginger 1. It is your emotions that is driving youn this far. Why not wait or better still go and see a DOCTOR for better advice.

You shouldnt have involved yourself in such a mess in the first place. You were driven by your age cos you believed that at 18 you are free to have a boyfriend, this mentally brought you into this mess.
ADVICE: I can tell u that you are not pregnant but please after proper check up denounce that boyfriend and continue to live your life you can survuve without him, you can be what you want to be without him. Just be careful

Take care

Hi, do talk to your parents, and take their advice.

relax my dear

u are not pregnant yet but you can still see your doctor for test

but i assure u, all is wel

use protection even if u want to indulge in sex to safe ur future

ok

take care

Oh Girl, You are not pregnant, you are rather having gastric/peptic ulcer, i have been having those symptoms for over four months, you belch indiscriminently, signs of heart burn on the upper stomach, feel your food doesn't digest. for me i have to force myself to throw up to be comfortable most times, this is a great symptom of Ulcer, go treat it immediately , use Polycrol Forte gel, pepso-bitmo, antacid ,if it persist see a doctor and avoid beans and it's  specie.

All this children of nowadays,una no dey talk true.If really fool around is all you guys did,no answer that guy wey say make you tell you parents when you aren't sure you get belle,they will kill you(and maybe for nothing!).Wait and see if you missed your period b4 u begin dey talk abortion.If you aren't pregnant,be careful nex time.If you are,

Once again, you are adviced to go and see a doctor. I don't know how old you are, but please do it.

my dear u are not pregnant. Haba. Take it easy on yourself. Just be carefl cuz I think you are a little too young to start playing sex games. Hear yourself. You are not prepared for the consequences

I particularly like the pattern of advise of bolarge and twinstaiye. Others have equally spoken well. It is very unlikely that you are pregnant. Take it easy on yourself and chill out for the red visitor.

this post got me laughinnnggggg. Anyways i dont think u r pregnant but if u really are because ur thoughts created the baby, u can tell ur parents.When they are thru beating u, the baby would be lost. No need for abortions

There is no way you are pregenant.
Getting pregnant from an precum is extremely rare.
Not to mention that the guy never entered you.
Do you know how many sperm are needed for conception to actually occur?
Way more then just the little that might be in precum. You actually need 100 of millions of sperm cells.
The womans body has this natural substance that burns many of these sperm up(I forget the name)

prettysly:

girlie just tell us the whole truth so that problem can be solved easily,stop beating around the bush.well it might be true i advice you just wait till the sometin comes out.don't panic.but what were you doing in a guys house,thats what your parents will ask you? think about it.anyway that should teachyou a lesson.take it easysha, where the guy dey sef, him no know wetin there happen?

When ur boy friend was masturbating, u are just there looking at him abi. If you need our help why not just tell us what u did so that we can give you a better adive. I do not believe that you will be looking at your boy friend masturbating and after he start fingering you. na adults dey this forum, we have done all those things and retire.

i don't think you're pregnant, but you know what they say Impossible is Nothing .
I'd advice you to be calm, worrying or thinking too much over something you're not sure of isn't very healthy.

If you're not pregnant, then try to keep yourself from getting pregnant.

If it turns out that you are, Please don't consider ABORTION it is [size=15pt]NOT GOOD[/size]

You can never be pregnant from ur explanation, but the best thing you should do is stop being worried and go to a nearby Hospital cos i think the doctor is in a better position to keep you free from now and for ever.

But be careful cos your believe might work for you.

if na like so dem dey carry belle, every young babe for our garage (naija) go don born pikin sinceee. Ginger, abi apple, wetin u call urself, no beat urself, u hear, nothing dey happen, but in case of next time, tell ur bobo to wear hand glove if e no say e want finger, so dat ur mind no go run riot. Ya mind is playing tricks on u. Wa jo ko Oshooodiiiii stretttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt.

Girl, take it easy on yourself. Precum has a very slim chance of getting you pregnant, i.e. assuming the guy penetrated you, which in this case isn't (at least from your narration). His having precum in his fingers is practically harmless - I wonder the amount he may have exuded. Most often it's not noticeable.

You show know too that precum doesn't normally contain sperm cells, unless of course the guy had ejacualted recently and hadn't had the chance to urinate before the silly play. So take it easy and if you are free with your parents, get a better counselling from them on how to handle sexual pressures and stay clear off boys until you know enough.

The bottomline - I feel you made up your story.

the probabiliy that you are pregnant is very low, if your story is the whole truth, please since you are scared go do a pregnancy test, to erase your fears, if it comed out positive, tell your parents, theey are your best guardian,

Angel, u need not 2 fear, cuz anxiety is all u have and possible not pregnancy. so wait for ur cycle, if it does not come then act with the home pregnancy kit u got. even if u're pregnant @ dat time, u still have time to decide a long term course for it.THINK WISELY PLZZ.

Since u know u're not hav'n sex with ur guy for risk of STD and pregnancy, Y open ur eyes till He dipped his dripp'n soaked hands in u, BE WISE GIRL, U'RE FAST GROWING

I'm soooooo Lmao!

If you find out you are not pregnant this time,dont try any thing like this again because obviously, you are not yet ready for this  .

aint nun 2 worry about gurl dat sumtimes happens when a girl's aboutta cum on there period. i had it last month and i felt same way. its normal i tink . i told ma mum and she woz like its da atmostphere change.