Hmm:

Let me paint the ironies for you

a) Most campus babes have dated a married man as one of their runs. (REASON: GREED FOR MONEY)
b) Most campus boys are upset that their campus babes are dating married men and cann't understand what they see in them when they are single and available. (REASON: FEELING LEFT OUT)
c) These campus babes eventually get married and start hating babes who date married men conveniently forgetting they once did the same thing. (REASON: FEAR OF LOSING THEIR MAN)
d) The campus boys eventually get married and start running after single girls forgetting what they had criticised when they were younger. (REASON: SELFISH INTEREST)

It is a vicious circle based on selfish reasons, and it would go on till the end of time. My advise do what pleases you as you can't change the world

That is the word! Selfishness. Come to think of it, how many of these guys/babes can stick to one when not married.

@POSTER
married man chase after younger girl 'cos they want to be younger while the girls that foollow them will be looking older

why do young girls follow married men?

boywest:

@POSTER
married man chase after younger girl 'because they want to be younger while the girls that foollow them will be looking older

Lmao. true talk !

Blatant:

why do young girls follow married men?

isnt it obvious?love of money.money and more money !

@poster

It takes two to tango and nothing more. If the young girls are unwilling, there wont be any game. Some girls are in love with the so called married men and feel secured with them even knowing that they have a family. The hide and seek can be interesting and fun at times. What more, they tend to shower the girls with money and love whenever they are around just to get in between their legs.

The girl on the other hand cannot have access to the man at all times but spends sleepless nights at times hugging pillows to fill the emptiness she feels at times. Her reasonings are lost at times as she hopes for the "best" out of the r/ship which never comes. The man own is chop and go as he goes after another catch after satisfying his lust.

IT BAFFLES ME TOO,
@ POSTER
YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS, IT'S BEEN THE CASE WITH ME AS WELL,
MORE RECENTLY ONE HAS EVEN BEEN STALKING ME WITHOUT SHAME, THE THING IS, YOU HAVE TO STAND YOUR GROUND AND KEEP TELLING THEM YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED AND WHEN THEY ARE TIRED, THEY'LL STOP. IT IS VERY WRONG TO TAKE SOMEONE'S HUSBAND, JUST STAY STRONG AND RESIST ANY TEMPTATION.

@post
simple, b/c they miss their bachelorhood

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« #120 on: February 24, 2007, 01:16 PM »

A man wants his wife to look like his wife and the mother of his children and his girlfriend like a LovePeddler

No. An English proverb says a good wife should be a lady in public and a LovePeddler in the bedroom. Go figure.

[b][/b][color=#770077][/color] I think it is a crying shame no matter what the person's culture, African or otherwise. Why bother getting married & promising fidelity when you have no intention of keeping that promise? Why not just stay single? Am I the only person on Earth who still believes in fidelity & faithfulness? What is it about guys that makes them feel the need to seek other than their wives? Even pornography is still adultery cuz you have looked lustfully upon another & Jesus said you have therefore already committed adultery with her in your heart. Yes, I admit there are plenty of women out there, married themselves too or single who make it altogether too easy for a man to succumb to his lusts. But if he really loves his wife, can't he be content with just HER?? What a double standard! A man commits adultery & it's not only OK and accepted, he actually will be congratulated by anyone who hears of it (except possibly his wife). But let a WOMAN seek out another man's attention outside her marriage? Whew, she is branded a LovePeddler and risks being stoned to death just like in Biblical times. It really IS a man's world. I pity the women married to men who think regularly violating their wife's trust and throwing another spear into her heart is fine, or is it just fine so far she never finds out about it?

[b][/b][color=#770077][/color] I think it is a crying shame no matter what the person's culture, African or otherwise. Why bother getting married & promising fidelity when you have no intention of keeping that promise? Why not just stay single? Am I the only person on Earth who still believes in fidelity & faithfulness? What is it about guys that makes them feel the need to seek other than their wives? Even pornography is still adultery cuz you have looked lustfully upon another & Jesus said you have therefore already committed adultery with her in your heart. Yes, I admit there are plenty of women out there, married themselves too or single who make it altogether too easy for a man to succumb to his lusts. But if he really loves his wife, can't he be content with just HER??  What a double standard! A man commits adultery & it's not only OK and accepted, he actually will be congratulated by anyone who hears of it (except possibly his wife).  But let a WOMAN seek out another man's attention outside her marriage? Whew, she is branded a LovePeddler and risks being stoned to death just like in Biblical times.  It really IS a man's world. I pity the women married to men who think regularly violating their wife's trust and throwing another spear into her heart is fine, or is it just fine so far she never finds out about it?  A wife can meet her husband's needs in the bedroom. So why should he HAVE to feel he has to look elsewhere? WE sleep with the same man every night, make love to the same man. It only gets boring if you LET it get boring. Variety IS the spice of life, but spice up the dish you are cooking in your OWN kitchen!

I am married but i have had young university girls, and even single girls wanting me
to screw them. Sure they may be interested in the financial gains, but all the same they
are looking at a married man.
The world has simply gone crazy.
RMD is married you sure can guess how many girls will die to be with him.
Your guess is as good as mine.

blacklion:

No. An English proverb says a good wife should be a lady in public and a LovePeddler in the bedroom. Go figure.

that is definitely not a Nigerian proverb. i dont want my wife to be a LovePeddler ANYWHERE

what is there to figure? or are we to accept whatever is the English way of doing things?

@poster,
            Lack of self control
This is what i call INDISCIPLINE

@ Poster

thatz wat the ladies had been long looking 4.

sugar Daddies (Grand-daddy)

This is funny.

IMHO I think it's a matter of economics. The married men I guess are in a position financially that they are able to entice these young chics by flashing their money etc. If 9ja was better-off economically I can guarantee you that these married older guys wouldn't stand much chance cuz the younger chics would be in better position financially where they don't necessarily need some older/ married dude to spoil them.

achinu:

IMHO I think it's a matter of economics. The married men I guess are in a position financially that they are able to entice these young chics by flashing their money etc. If 9ja was better-off economically I can guarantee you that these married older guys wouldn't stand much chance cuz the younger chics would be in better position financially where they don't necessarily need some older/ married dude to spoil them.

If that is the case, how come some girls in western world are still dating married men?

Fhemmmy:

If that is the case, how come some girls in western world are still dating married men?

You can ask that question again bro.

I don’t think its all about money and sex, sometimes it’s about some uncontrolled affection overstepping boundaries…. _{too much grammar}…

Some of these shits just happened and you just can’t give all the answers.

OAM4J:

You can ask that question again bro.

I don’t think its all about money and sex, sometimes it’s about some uncontrolled affection overstepping boundaries…. _{too much grammar}…

Some of these shits just happened and you just can’t give all the answers.

Yes oh

Topic

Because they want to get fit. . . .

they cld have gone to the gym if that was the reason

MrCrackles:

You know. . .

Lol

married men, that chase after girls are HE-GOAT, while the girls are mumu

echo- bee:

married men, that chase after girls are HE-GOAT, while the girls are mumu

Common, u cant blame the actor without blaming the audience, if there are no girls to phuck the old men, there wont any old men looking for the young girls.
So it is a demand and supply situation

why it the fault of the way a girl dresses.  are men really that weakminded that they cannot control themselves.  yes there are whores out there who look for married men but the men are the keystone to the equation.  the man should have enough self control to simply say no and walk away.  noone is holding a gun to these mens heads and saying they must f*ck some LovePeddler, they CHOOSE TO! either the man is better then the woman as many of you preach (if so no woman can influence him to cheat) or men are weakminded and incapable of reasonable thought processes (the way a girl dresses makes him want to f*ck her)  one or the other.  cant have it both ways

Married men chase young girs becos,as they use to say
"One person nor fit do the job"

@POSTER

VARIOUS REASONS:

1. SEX-STARVED/UNSATISFIED - HEADACHE/TIRED/BABY/DIDNT SLEEP/WORK WAHALA (90%)
2. NAGGING WIFE (95%)
3. LOVE HAS VANISHED FOR THE WIFE (5%)
4. HYPNOTISED BY ANOTHER WOMAN/JUJU (2%)
5. MARRIED TO WRONG PERSON (50%)
6. NEED FOR VARIETY & ADVENTURE (40%)
7. WIFE CANNOT PERFORM/LACK OF SKILLS (30%)
8. MEN ARE ANIMALS & CAN SLEEP WITH ANYTHING (40%)
9. SEDUCED BY BABES/THE MAN DIDNT HAVE IT IN MIND (40%)

AND LOTS MORE


[Figures here are a range, with a 5% error margin]


THE TRUTH IS THAT MOST MARRIED MEN WHO SLEEP WITH OTHER GIRLS STILL LOVE THEIR WIVES & DO NOT WANT THEIR WIVES TO KNOW. NO ONE CAN FAULT THIS!!!

Kx:

Married men chase young girs becos,as they use to say
"One person nor fit do the job"

So that made it right?

Indiscipline.

Indiscipline.