"Just because I have a nice butt does not mean I want to have sex with it in the air all the time. THIS ISN'T YOGA CLASS AND I AM NOT A DOG!".

LITTLE do MEN realize that it is them, MEN who keep leading mostly their supposed significant other, their WIVES to denying them of their right to INTIMACY.

It's a MAN'S world. Don't we say

Who calls the shot? Who make the rules?

How did today's b-u-l-l-s-h-i-t world of FEMINIST CHAUVINISM started to the extent that lots of women have lost their God given FEMINISM and have become so MASCULINE and MUSCULAR by reacting against their own natural instinct to the detriment of what the seek to protect, 'FEMINISM'.

It was SOME MEN who are and were not MAN ENOUGH, IRRESPONSIBLY INSENSITIVE, that pushed these women down the lane of OPEN PROTEST, breaking their limits for patience. And in women's reaction to insensitive men.........our world is not getting any better. MOTHERHOOD KEEPS LOSING ITS VIRTUE BECAUSE THESE FEMINIST HAVEN CHOOSEN A WRONG BATTLE GROUND TO FIGHT. THE FORGOT THAT WOMEN ARE CREATED TO DO WHAT MEN CANNOT DO AND NOT THE POPULAR SLOGAN: What a man can do, a woman can do better. SETTING GENDERS AT WAR.

Every REAL MAN should try to find out how this FEMINIST ATTACKS on our society started. BECAUSE HE IS A SOLUTION AS MUCH AS THE CAUSE OF THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.

The solution is in humans complimenting each other as BEINGS and not mere OBJECTS. Even Animals do have rights. Shouldn't they?

You not because a puppy's teeth are febble and can't bark then you take advantage of the poor little creature by kicking it so hard in the eyes of the public. PEOPLE WILL SAY THAT YOU ARE MAD EVEN IF THE PUPPY DID POOH ON YOU BEFORE THE KICKING TOOK PLACE. "Its just an animal" they will say, "why hurt her?"

Are men's wives then less than animals that's why the are hurt be their suppose significant other, BRUTALIZIED

Didn't our beloved Prophet Muhammad, pbuh, did say and as a MATTER OF ITS IMPORTANTANCE in his last sermon delivered on in the Uranah valley of mount Arafat, 9th day of Dhul al Hijjah, 10 A.H.

That; "O PEOPLE IT IS TRUE YOU HAVE CERTAIN RIGHTS OVER YOUR WOMEN, BUT THEY ALSO HAVE RIGHTS OVER YOU."

So, If men give women their full dues, their rights. They will hardly be UNSUBMISSIVE.

In this CONTEXT, the woman who chooses to deny her husband his SEXUAL PLEASURES O-HA..........

........ So, does that male ever think if the reason for her DENIAL of him is because he, her husband is not returning the favour to her in bed?

And, if she is not getting pleased by her husband EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY and SPIRITUALLY? If her needs are not met with sincerity in provision for her needs? That CARE, that LOVE, that AFFECTION. THAT TRUST?

For then, won't she be using the main power she also has, the BEAUTIFUL PRINCESS CHARMING between her legs holding them very tight, denying her husband of his sexaul pleasures?

What is the male sexual pleasure anyway? Isn't it straight forward?

Isn't it STIMULATION for a little while, press here, blow there, suck that, rub up and down, shake below............ and then, BING, BANG, BOOM, orgasm is reached?

Is then the woman from whom he, her husband seeks his pleasures from, a DOLL, without her own threshold? She also has a point at which she is expected to BURST.

THAT CONVULSING ORGASM THAT MAKE HER WALLS FALL.

Her biology, her nature which isn't her own making but by He, Allah who ordained marriage and has approved sex, but sex within marriage as a limitation not to be transgressed. Is Him who has set the pattern of female sexuality to take a longer time before she can get to the finishing line after you the husband have been finished long ago. Achieved your own pleasures which perhaps you are not willing to returning the favour and it is the reason for her denial. Why should anyone keep investing in what you gain NOTHING from? A subordinate fool

Is it because the husband is the head of the house so, anytime his Prince Charming moves from Zero to Hero she has to submit, even by her husband not meeting her rights, being an OPPRESSOR?

The timming between the BOOM and the BURST, what are we talking about.

We are talking about a race of 6, 8, 10 minutes as against 20, 30, 40 minutes, respective thresholds.

Male sexuality vs Female sexuality. That is the race to the finishing line but of COMPATIBILITY it should be.

So, if as a husband your wife is holding tightly to her princes charming, denying you of your sexual pleasures. It only means that you have not been helping her reach her own finishing line. After haven't reached yours.

YOU HAVE BEEN SELFISH and if you can be selfish in the bedroom then in other aspect of her rights you have been greedy.

Paying her no serious attention.

A woman won't dress for men outside the home if her man is man enough to appreciate her with honesty under the shelter he has provided for her. Why should she yearn for men outside if she already has a REAL MAN at home comforting her

Are we truely man and woman enough to face our realities?

If a woman gets her full dues during sex in matrimony, very well satisfied. You won't need to be asking her ..............to the point of being insulted by her denying you what should belong to you both. SHE WILL BE THE ONE ASKING FROM YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEING SO KIND IN ALL WAYS TO HER. HER EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND OTHER HUMAN NEEDS WITHIN YOUR SINCERE CAPACITY.

"Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under God's TRUST and with His permission". Our beloved Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h also said as you read further in that his last sermon delivered on mount Arafat.

So, men.

DON'T EXPECT YOUR WIVES TO ALWAYS JUMP AT YOU LIKE A FUCKING PORN BITCH WHOSE JOB IS TO BECOME DEHUMANIZED WHEN EVER YOUR HERO WANT TO BE ACKNOWLEDGED.

"Treat your women well and be kind to them, for they are your partners and committed helpers". Prophet Muhammad S.A.W also said.

Are MEN, you keeping your own trust? IF NO! Its such a man that has the problem making her to also denying you your right. So own your SHIT!

"It is also your right that they don't make friends with anyone of whom you don't approve, as well as never to be unchaste...." Said by Prophet Muhammad. S.A.W.

So, MEN if you don't want your women to say NO when you want to hear YES at almost all the time, .Give them their rights which is to be a CARING, LOVING HUSBAND and if also by priviledge, a GREAT FATHER and it will be gladly given back to you in MULTIPLE FOLDS as a Wife and mother of your children.

Hell is a horrible place, and if your wife does find herself in hell. You the husband should know that the possibilty and probabilty of retaining your wedlock all LOCKED UP together in Hell you and her is higher than thinking she will be there all by herself because she denied you sex.

You are the leader, how did your flock stray away to the point of giving you sexual denial.

A lot of muslim men have used the hadith of 'WOMEN IN HELL, AS A RESULT OF DENYING THEIR HUSBANDS SEXUAL PLEASURES', to manipulate their wives out of context even though the wife's body sincerely may need rest because of these men IRRESPONSIBLITY AND INSENSITIVITY.

Most times we use the fear of hell to extract our selfish interest. Who wants to go to hell?

I don't want to harp on the rest............for how such hadiths are always used to put fear in the hearts of women while men are not at all growing their own hearts.

MEN SHOULD PROTECT THEIR WOMEN FROM GOING TO HELL SO SHOULD WOMEN STRIVE FOR THEIR HUSBANDS TO BE IN PARADISE WITH THEM AND THE WHOLE FAMILY TOO.

Passionate sex can make a difference because it is SADAQ, CHARITY. Allah is REWARDING you both for having sex with your spouse but will PUNISH you if you seek from outside matrimony. EXCEPT WITH A LEGITMATE REASONS, ANY WOMAN WHO DENIES HER HUSBAND SEX OUT OF SHEER ARROGANCE, STUPIDITY WILL FIND HERSELF TO BLAME IN THE HEARAFTER. That is the meaning on the hadith for the lucid mind.
Women in Islam are not sex robots that must always have to say YES!!!

Its all about UNDERSTANDING.

Any man selfishly seeking his own satisfaction without considering that of his wife is a SELFISH BOOR.

Infact, according to a hadith of Prophet Muhammad P.B.U.H : "Three things are counted INADEQUACIES IN A MAN. Firstly, meeting someone he would like to get to know and taking leave of him before learning his name and his family. Secondly, rebuffing the generosity that another shows to him. AND THIRDLY, GOING INTO HIS WIFE AND HAVING INTERCOURSE WITH HER BEFORE TALKING TO HER AND GAINING HER INTIMACY, SATISFYING HIS NEED FROM HER BEFORE SHE HAS SATISFIED HER NEED FROM HIM." (Daylami)

So, also did Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h adviced:

NOT one of you should fall upon his wife like an animal. ("MY DEAR AM NOT A DOG. GO LEARN HOW pre-intimacy!" but let there first be a messenger between you" . "And what is that messenger ?" They asked, and he repied: "KISSES and
(beautiful romantic) WORDS ." (Daylami)

These "KISSES and WORDS" do not just include pre-intimacy once intimacy has commenced. To set the right mood, little signals should begin well in advance, so that the wife has a clue as to what is coming and is pleasantly expectant, and also has adequate time to make herself clean, attractive and ready. As regards intimacy itself, all men know that they cannot achieve sexual fulfillment if they are not achieve they are not AROUSED. Men should also realise that it is actually HARMFUL and PAINFUL for the female organ to be used for 'SEX' without preparation. In simple biological terms, the woman's private parts need a kind of NATURAL LUBRICATION before the sexual act takes place.
For this biological trait is created by Allah as so as a trial for men to see who will be KIND to his wife or who will be an OPPRESSOR.

Our sick world of PORN CULTURE is a great DEHUMANIZATION to HUMANITY. One begins to wonder, where is the 'CIVILIZATION'?

Charity is giving and giving and giving and not DENIAL OF HONEY FROM THE POT as long as the pot is healthy, clean and refilled.

A SHOUT OUT TO YOU, MEN!!!. Don't out of annoyance BRUTALIZE YOUR WIVES because you are being denied HONEY from that WET, WET, WET POT. It does more harm than good to all of us as a society of humanbeings.

DIVORCE IS EVERYWHERE TODAY, IN OUR IMMEDIATE SOCIETIES, AND THE WORLD AT LARGE AS IF IT IS THE ESSENCE MARRIAGE. TO GET MARRIED AND THEN GET DIVORCED.

And this is all because people have choosen to nose dive into marriage without firstly checking the depths of it.

Op pls go and sleep

Enough for the day

Op, take it easy!

skedy1:

Op, take it easy!

I WONT. I LOVE F-O-R-E-P-L-A-Y. I guess you didnt read this one too.

WORDWORLD:


I WONT. I LOVE F-O-R-E-P-L-A-Y. I guess you didnt read this one too.

Hahaha...bad guy!

Anyway, 4play is cool, but it's obvious that our ladies this days don't do Romeo and Juliet!

damn.... too long an epistle to start reading at this time of the day.

am so confused

are we talking about having sex with your nice bu.tts in the air (doggy)

or is this yet another post about female empowerment

Davijunson:

damn.... too long an epistle to start reading at this time of the day.

IT WONT EVAPORATE. TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY. TAKE YOUR TIME.
Thank you for even checking it out. Have a splendid night.

khristals:


am so confused

are we talking about having sex with your nice bu.tts in the air (doggy)

or is this yet another post about female empowerment

NO! NO! NO! Its about not being SELFISH during INTIMACY. In TRUTH It can be vice versa though MEN ARE MOST GUILTY OF JUST BEING SELFISH IN BED WITH THEIR WIVES.

Bla bla bla

If u cant b raise ur legs in d air nd ney ney in his agbada kuku hire a p*tn star nd av a party after d party throw d damn b*tch 5000 miles afar

Trying to understand whether OP is teaching sex education, preaching or just been a feminist...this is too long...some one needs some love

Nice article

WORDWORLD:



NO! NO! NO! Its about not being SELFISH during INTIMACY. In TRUTH It can be vice versa though MEN ARE MOST GUILTY OF JUST BEING SELFISH IN BED WITH THEIR WIVES.

i need private lectures from you, if you don't mind. This is an interesting topic for a lengthy discuss.

Some guys just wanna release something from the body. They are not good when it comes to putting d lady in the mood b4 d act.
During one of d singles meeting I attended, a married man said 'b4 d act, I will help my wife in d kitchen, helps in combing her hair, watch a movie with her on my chest and we start with pillow fight and from there '. It does not have to start with kissing, start with action. Put her in the mood even before kissing her, remind her the 1st day you saw her, it brings smiles on our faces as we remember the 'shakara' we did

STFUareyouGod:
Op pls go and sleep

Enough for the day

Try to dey read, u hear

Gibberish

HateU2:
Try to dey read, u hear

go jump in the lagoon

STFUareyouGod:
go jump in the lagoon

After you bro. You are older than I am. Lemme copy ur steps

HateU2:
Some guys just wanna release something from the body. They are not good when it comes to putting d lady in the mood b4 d act.
During one of d singles meeting I attended, a married man said 'b4 d act, I will help my wife in d kitchen, helps in combing her hair, watch a movie with her on my chest and we start with pillow fight and from there '. It does not have to start with kissing, start with action. Put her in the mood even before kissing her, remind her the 1st day you saw her, it brings smiles on our faces as we remember the 'shakara' we did

Ode ni e. Which kind 1917 shiii be this? Just because of 30mins shii? Mtcheeeeeew

HateU2:
After you bro. You are older than I am. Lemme copy ur steps

Will you ever make sense? Well, I believe in miracles

STFUareyouGod:
Ode ni e. Which kind 1917 shiii be this? Just because of 30mins shii? Mtcheeeeeew

Oode ni e. How many singles meeting you don attend
No be 'club' u dey go
Better learn b4 you get married or ur wife go just lay down there

HateU2:
Oode ni e. How many singles meeting you don attend
No be 'club' u dey go
Better learn b4 you get married or ur wife go just lay down there

you wey dey go singles meeting, how your life take better? No be against wall dem still dey put your back knack akpako for street?

STFUareyouGod:
you wey dey go singles meeting, how your life take better? No be against wall dem still dey put your back knack akpako for street?

SMH. Is dat how u knack them .

HateU2:
SMH. Is dat how u knack them .

yea, and yur one of them

STFUareyouGod:
yea, and yur one of them

If I fvck you, make I die instantly

HateU2:
If I fvck you, make I die instantly

no, you can't fvck me. I do the fvcking

STFUareyouGod:
no, you can't fvck me. I do the fvcking

whichever way, I will die instantly.

HateU2:
whichever way, I will die instantly.

yes, you will when next I handle you

e too long na... OP did this case bother you overnight or you just thought of it

STFUareyouGod:
yes, you will when next I handle you

Something is wrong with you this morning. Just go back to bed