mayonnaise:
I'm sorry but I could not read all through. I stopped half way because this just annoyed me. How u could be so blinded by love not to realise you're dealing with a very Unserious woman. Sleeps with her ex? Really? When he was hitting it was it an accident. You should be old enough to realise the things you should allow yourself go through. Leave that love peddler(which most Nigerian girls are known to be) alone. You deserve better. MAN UP FOR ONCE

She does not want a relationship. She wants to date.

ganiberry:
Please what do i do and where did i go wrong. I need your candid advise and not abuse please. It is a very serious/precarious situation. I love this lady so much. i dont know what to do.

Thank you.

ganiberry:
Good afternoon my fellow nairlanders.

I am in deep sorrow writting this story of mine. I had earlier wrote on my girl being impregnated by a south african ex-lover. But later the gist was that the guy was not the south african ex-lover but a guy she had dated and left for more than six (6) years. She went to the wedding ceremony of the guy's younger sister and met with the guy again. She could not leave the party early and decided to stay with her friend who had earlier advised her to stay with her.

The room she was given to sleep was actually the guys (ex-lover) room and when the time for the guy to sleep came, he went inside and saw a her. Then according to her, he decided to sleep with her. The aftermath of the sex was the pregnant she had. That was how she packed everything in the house to the guy. But after 3months she lost the pregnancy owing to the guy's maltreatment.

The guy does not have any work he his doing, he smokes indian hemp and he is very diabolical. So it was confirmed that it was as a result of the guy's diabolic means that made the lady packed out to leave with him. So to cut the long story short, she came back begging but because of ny deep affection for her, i accepted her back and continued with our relationship. She dicided to move to her friend's place who she had also helped with accomodation but still left every of her belonging in the guy's house.

In the course of it we went to Ghana and it was beautiful. Prior to that time, i observe that she will tell me her dad sent for her and the next thing she will go and not come back that day. Most annoying thing is that she will not pick her phone during this period and later switched off when the calls become too much. So i was worried and noted that something went wrong.

later i got her dad's number and begin to discuss with her dad, there i realised that she was lying all this while. So when i asked her where she was going, she got annoying and turned everything to fight. But i still maintain my peace. What broke the carmels back was that she went to Ilorin to meet her mother and to also attend her sister's (junior) graduation ceremony which i financed.

She was to come on sunday 31st January but said she has some issues to attend. Sowe agreed for her to come on tuesday. Around 2pm on tuesday, we discussed and she told me that it is getting late that she will be coming the next morning. Little did i know that she left that same day after our discussion.

When she came to lagos she called and i made her realised the fact that i know she had already left ilorin. As usualshe turned it to a fight on phone and i left her. That was the last time i spoke with her. She did not call to inform me that she has come back. Today i put it upon myself to send her a text that why has she not call/chat/text that she was back. The next thing she sent was that she does not need me or my money again that without my money she will leave her life.

Every effort geared toward talking to her proved abortive as she vehemently refused to pick my calls. I am in good standing with her dad and mom who is beging me not to listen to her that she did not know what she is saying. I feed, cloth, rented house for her. Take her on trip to Dubai and ghana twice.

Please what do i do and where did i go wrong. I need your candid advise and not abuse please. It is a very serious/precarious situation. I love this lady so much. i dont know what to do.

Thank you.