Am certain this short write - up, will upset some ladies, but the responsible and understanding ones wudnt take any offence.

Let's go.

Its the valentine, and the only question I have been receiving from ladies is (Where will u take me to, on valentine day and What will u buy for me as a gift?). And the funny thing here is that I see nothing wrong taking a girl out on valentine and also buying her gift.

But I have a question for the ladies. Are we celebrate "Female valentine day"? I know the question sound funny, but the reason for asking this question is, why must it be the males buying the gift for the females, why are some girls not saying "darling, I will be taking u out on valentine day".

I believe we are celebrating love, and its all about sharing. Why don't we buy gifts for ourselves. Why are the ladies seeing it as if the guys alone are to buy the gift while they enjoy the presents.

I think if the ladies believe love is all about share everything with each other, I think its time to bury this val attitude and embrace sharing every situation, emotion and season with their love ones. I kn a responsible girl is thinking of getting a wonderful gift for a special person.

Ladies, we re celebrating VALENTINE's DAY, not females day.

God Bless the Responsible and understanding Ones. God forgive the Gold diggers.

Oh... if you are a female I must say. Your husand is/will be a lucky man.

To the gold diggers see your self

naija ladies...... can't do with em, can't do without em

You can do without them. It is a choice to do with them. Valentine is not a must,but if a well behaved,non materialistic girl comes around,give her a treat. Not the sharks who walk around in dolphin clothing.

Women are always selfish . Always thinkin of wht they can get not wht they can offer in a relationship. Some African mentality thou

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