Am a muslim by faith,and am middle aged. Before i married my wife, i have been nurturing a 14yr old girl,but i could not marry her because she was underage and naive. I later got married, but i didnt leave my little love. I took sole responsibility of her education and everything because the parents are not buoyant. Presently she is 19 and in 200 level. Am married with 2 kids. The problem is that, recently she started a relationship with a guy which is terribly affecting her study. I was jealous, and i told her. She called my bluff, so i moved on.few days to end of registration in school the parents called me,that she hasnt gone to school because of money. In order for her not to carry the whole semester, i quickly rushed to do the neccessity. Now i have decided to leave her for good, but i dont want her education to stop. This year alone i have spent close to 70k on her and am still counting.
I have not had carnal knowledge of her.

remato:
Am a muslim by faith,and am middle aged. Before i married my wife, i have been nurturing a 14yr old girl,but i could not marry her because she was underage and naive. I later got married, but i didnt leave my little love. I took sole responsibility of her education and everything because the parents are not buoyant. Presently she is 19 and in 200 level. Am married with 2 kids. The problem is that, recently she started a relationship with a guy which is terribly affecting her study. I was jealous, and i told her. She called my bluff, so i moved on.few days to end of registration in school the parents called me,that she hasnt gone to school because of money. In order for her not to carry the whole semester, i quickly rushed to do the neccessity. Now i have decided to leave her for good, but i dont want her education to stop. This year alone i have spent close to 70k on her and am still counting.
I have not had carnal knowledge of her.

what do you mean by the bolded. if u show love to people dont expect it back, or u will be disappointed.

Oga so far the expenses no affect ur own family, u shd just finish what u started. Her telling u abt d reltnshp that's claiming her attention to studies is bcus she's immature, if she was grown up, she would know such a thing is supposed to be known to herself especially bcus u're not her father but as a lover although she didn't understand then at 14.

Ur action to make her sit up and ensure her studies isn't affected is good but u need to check it..hope ur jealousy isn't going to far over this girl? Remember u're married.

However ur gesture for charity is commendable especially bcus her parents know of it. She may not even understand d help u're giving her for now but if her parents are good enough, its their duty to make them know her life was built on grace.

Even if both d girl and her parents don't appreciate you, u have just opened a way for greatness for ur children and God will bless you.

Seriously, you really need to define your real motive for sponsoring this girl.



If it is service to humanity, you don't have to be jealous over her relationship affairs and not even good to come here and be saying you've never had canal knowledge of her? For what!



You are married with kids sir. Continue sponsoring this girl if you have the power and not aiming to get anything like ...... In return and if otherwise, back off and God will take control.

Oga face your wife and marriage and leave the girl alone, Muslims should stop hiding under the claim that they can marry 4 wives to cheat

This double life cost you money and heartache like this anyway it's good you are saving smallie from poverty me sef thank you for her.

She sees u as her big uncle..
No punna for u help her if u want to and dint expect any thing in return

Even her parents? Wow. What shameless parents!

Oga, you better face your family and stop wasting money on opportunists.

Jeolosy jeolosy, solo makinde abosi

See mumu wey just come nairaland dey talk rubbish.. U are sponsoring a girl and u are married, with ur ideology u thinking she will marry u, why are some men so dumb see u are a disgraced to man.. And i know u wil have brothers at home that u dont even bother to train them in skul, but a woman who u are not sure she will be ur wife, i have seen this several places of men training a girl from nowhere, not from their family all in the name of wifey... I wonder when men go get sense.. I stil dey wait whether na 21st or 31st century

Yes do dat as if she were ur own child

I have not had carnal knowledge of her...oh is because of sex thar you are angry at her..I know if she allowed you to have sex with her you won't be complaining

u carelessly got ursef into dis 4getting dat d world is not enuf & dat sumday d gal wud grow to av a mind of her own.........wit much bitterness frm ma heart i'll simply say baba, kip footing d bills till she finish God help u make she kon get xtra year join

Richardonald:
See mumu wey just come nairaland dey talk rubbish.. U are sponsoring a girl and u are married, with ur ideology u thinking she will marry u, why are some men so dumb see u are a disgraced to man.. And i know u wil have brothers at home that u dont even bother to train them in skul, but a woman who u are not sure she will be ur wife, i have seen this several places of men training a girl from nowhere, not from their family all in the name of wifey... I wonder when men go get sense.. I stil dey wait whether na 21st or 31st century

p . Great talk!