I remembered when I was looking and running up and down for money to pay for my project, I won't lie things were hard at home. I happened to run against a man on my way coming from the market. He initiated a conversation, me being the friendly type I joined in. He gave me his card, I got home and not clearly being interested gave his card to my friend. My friend conspired to dupe this man of his money to which I was clearly against.

I called him that morning not to transfer any money to any bank( he was at the bank when I called ready to transfer 30,000 naira to my friend's account). He was grateful to me and readily requested I asked a favour anytime from him. He offered to send me 20,000 to sort out my project wahala but there was a catch. I should date him!

I was furious and more than disappointed, whatever happens to just helping a fellow being? I've been in this situation more than thrice, why do men behave pervertly ? This happens everyday, they give you money in exchange for your body, can't they help without taking advantage of the situation?

I'm sick and tired of this, why won't they help from their heart? This got me thinking men in power to help are perverts. I know a lot of women are suffering and destroying their lives cos of this

So u wanted to turn him into ur ATM right? Mchew!

Not all men.

And women don't take advantage of men too? Who are the people women refer to as mugu? It happens both ways so stop making a big deal out of nothing.

Cutehector:
So u wanted to turn him into ur ATM right? Mchew!

I wasn't turning no one into any ATM, at least if I wanted to I would have allowed my friend eat his money. He offered Me a help, not the other way round

marshborn:
And women don't take advantage of men too? Who are the people women refer to as mugu? It happens both ways so stop making a big deal out of nothing.

Its a big deal and a disgrace for a man to request sex in exchange of a favour .

Ginaz:


I wasn't turning no one into any ATM, at least if I wanted to I would have allowed my friend eat his money. He offered Me a help, not the other way round

well u need to stop depending on men... if u need smth, u ask ur father or work for d money, so all these would stop.

Did you say 'help'?
Dem take helpnessness swear for girls?
130Naira go dey for their account, dem go dey carry 25k phone.
Dem go soak garri for house, na Shawarma dem go chop if na man go pay.
Weave-on nko? Dem wan buy am, with money wey dem no get.
The day girls stop begging for help, Condom sales will drop.

Why cant a man just help without requesting for the body = MAGA,MUGU

When you give him the body,the equation is balanced

Its better to give your hard earn money to children or blood related women than the ones you are not related to....FACT

Ginaz:


Its a big deal and a disgrace for a man to request sex in exchange of a favour .

It's also a disgrace for women to keep deceiving a man who they don't like just to extort money from him. So it goes both ways.

Cutehector:
well u need to stop depending on men... if u need smth, u ask ur father or work for d money, so all these would stop.

You're just a case study of a senseless rat, what is wrong if a fellow human being helps a fellow being

Ginaz:


You're just a case study of a senseless rat, what is wrong if a fellow human being helps a fellow being

I neva traded words with u, u knw... phew.

Ginaz:


You're just a case study of a senseless rat, what is wrong if a fellow human being helps a fellow being

Who you don help?

Cutehector:
So u wanted to turn him into ur ATM right? Mchew!

Did you read her at all?

Chidoks:


Did you read her at all?

dnt start.

Men are generally like that, that's why it's never adviceable to seek financial help from men. It makes one vulnerable. And mothers should inculcate the habit of working in their children especially the girl child.

Cutehector:
dnt start.

Darling I'm not game

Cutehector:
I neva traded words with u, u knw... phew.

Cute Hector or whatever you call yourself, act classy for once, why do you always like to act and reason like kid?

Chidoks:
Men are generally like that, that's why it's never adviceable to seek financial help from men. It makes one vulnerable. And mothers should inculcate the habit of working in their children especially the girl child.

Tell your fellow women to get a job and be contented with what they have. Nigerian girls are the worst when it comes to Turing men into mugus.

Ginaz:


Cute Hector or whatever you call yourself, act classy for once, why do you always like to act and reason like kid?

only kids do trade words and lack manners.

Why don't women help their fellow women?

Chidoks:

Darling I'm not game

den mind your business.

Cutehector:
only kids do trade words and lack manners.

Ya, like you did trading words with me, ironically making you a kid

Chidoks:
Men are generally like that, that's why it's never adviceable to seek financial help from men. It makes one vulnerable. And mothers should inculcate the habit of working in their children especially the girl child.

Nobody was begging money here, he offered to help me in my situation. I never begged him money please get your facts right. He offered me money in returned for sex, that was what happened and I turned both offers down. Pls, dont think this was a case of financial dependency.

Ginaz:


Ya, like you did trading words with me, ironically making you a kid

oh really? Pls show me where I used vulgar words wit u

Ginaz:



Nobody was begging money here, he offered to help me in my situation. I never begged him money please get your facts right. He offered me money in returned for sex, that was what happened and I turned both offers down. Pls, dont think this was a case of financial dependency.

Babes I didn't say you begged. I understood what I read and I have my reservations as regards divulging my financial challenges to any man that is not a traceable blood relation

Cutehector:
den mind your business.

On a friendly note; why are you offensive when such issues come up?
No vex ( in advance)

Chidoks:

On a friendly note; why are you offensive when such issues come up?
No vex ( in advance)

offensive? I can't recall making offensive statements here.. please kindly notify me of any offensive statements I made please.

And what issues ar u referring to?

marshborn:


Tell your fellow women to get a job and be contented with what they have. Nigerian girls are the worst when it comes to Turing men into mugus.

What of those that offer job opportunities for sex. We have irresponsible men as well as beggarly females

Cutehector:
offensive? I can't recall making offensive statements here.. please kindly notify me of any offensive statements I made please.

And what issues ar u referring to?

I've noticed that each time money is mentioned in the man/woman relationship; you're quick to attack the female party
Look at this post for example, the babe said her friend wanted to defraud the man but she saved the man who in turn promised to help her out financially if she dates him. You still told her that she wanted to turn the man to her ATM

Chidoks:

I've noticed that each time money is mentioned in the man/woman relationship; you're quick to attack the female party
Look at this post for example, the babe said her friend wanted to defraud the man but she saved the man who in turn promised to help her out financially if she dates him. You still told her that she wanted to turn the man to her ATM

was that offensive? Did I use vulgar words? I made a suggestive comment and it's left for her to reply in affirmation or not.

Now which other posts of mine regarding money do u find offensive? Even the op who I asked did not find anythn wrong with my comment, rather she gave me an answer

Cutehector:
So u wanted to turn him into ur ATM right? Mchew!

Ginaz:

I wasn't turning no one into any ATM, at least if I wanted to I would have allowed my friend eat his money. He offered Me a help, not the other way round

Cutehector:
was that offensive? Did I use vulgar words? I made a suggestive comment and it's left for her to reply in affirmation or not.

Now which other posts of mine regarding money do u find offensive?

"You wanted to turn him into your ATM machine" is not suggestive. It's an accusation and her narrative didn't suggest that.
As for your other questions let's forget about them, I'm not good at digging up unnecessary issues