asuustrike2009:

What you said. Domestic violence, rights to education e.t.c

Proudlyngwa:


Suit yourself, but honestly I think you are high on some cheap stuff

Rossikk:
Where do ignorant racists like you creep out from?

Rossikk:
Slave minded dunce.

sinkhole:
Are you OK Sir?

sinkhole:
Are you OK Sir?

sinkhole:
He said we Africans are violent in nature and you are showing it in action! Very funny. If that person has been your partner I sure you would have given her "a dirty slap" by now!

Rossikk:
You are the one who thinks it is OK to demean blacks and elevate whites. YOU need your head checked.

Rossikk:
What is violent about calling him a slave minded dunce, like you? It is the plain truth.

sinkhole:
calling somebody you have never seen, names, is a sign of violent tendency!

Rossikk:
What is violent about calling him a slave minded dunce, like you? It is the plain truth.

Rossikk:
You are the one who thinks it is OK to demean blacks and elevate whites. YOU need your head checked.

londoner:


Lol..replace the word Blacks in your quote with women and the word Whites with men and you are looking at what you yourself are suggesting.

For as long as Nigerian men seek to be put over Nigerian women let the White man be put over you.It is called karma and it is only fair.

Rossikk:
Yawwnn... The 65% divorce rate in America shows we are right.

Rossikk:
Yawwnn... The 65% divorce rate in America shows we are right.

Uniben4sure:
Op I want to believe you are joking, if not, then your brain needs to be reformatted with a good slap.

Only weak men try to suppress women in the name of the male superiority nonsense. People like you are the reason why Africa remains backward.

londoner:
For as long as the African man refuses to allow women to have rights he should not complain of being looked at as less than men of other races. Other men see them as backwards and in many cases they have earned that reputation.

Rossikk:


African men do not CARE what you or some foreigners think about them.

African men CIVILIZED this world. We know what works and what doesn't, based on thousands of years' experience. A woman has her functions, and a man has his. The concepts of 'equality' and 'inequality' are non-existent in African gender discourse. And shall remain so, whatever the rest of the world thinks.

Rossikk:
Or we will become like America where a woman can kick you out of the house after an argument, and take over your house. Divorce rates will shoot up to 65% like in the US as the wife starts to wear the trousers in the house and turn a demigoddess. She will insult and abuse you and if you slap her she'll call the police and they'll lock you up even without evidence. Say no now before it is too late.

Rossikk:

African men do not CARE what you or some foreigners think about them.
African men CIVILIZED this world. We know what works and what doesn't, based on thousands of years' experience. A woman has her functions, and a man has his. The concepts of 'equality' and 'inequality' are non-existent in African gender discourse. And shall remain so, whatever the rest of the world thinks.

lindabon:


And yet, African nations sit firmly at the bottom of global development. We tend to forget that the foreigners or "the west" , practised similar systems of oppression, at some point in their history. Today, they are still implementing better ways to best run their societies, and given their progress so far, its safe to assume that these systems are working. What we usually call "westernisation", are rather policies adopted by a group of people, who decided to stop repeating destructive patterns of behaviour over and over again, and instead, to question the status quo. By so doing, through a process of trial and error, they were able to start devising constructive plans that work for the good of all.

With Africa having the poorest nations in the world, it is safe to also assume at this point that whatever systems we have in place do not work, have not worked, and will probably never work. I advise that we try to unlearn certain regressive behaviours, and embrace a more progressive way of growing.

(In Western Societies) A woman cant slap a man and get away with it unless the man himself, felt abase and as a result, he refuses to divulge that information to the police. Abuse is bad when it happens to men as well. But the problem is, "how many men can report their wife for abuse"? Also, if a man claims to date women who will insult him, abuse him and then finally seal it all with a slap, the man needs to question the type of women he seems to be drawn to(This also applies to women).
On the divorce issue, I have seen Nigerian marriages, and yes possibly divorce rate may be lower, but this boils down to the fact that married couples choose to suffer neglect, mental and physical abuse, infidelity, and all worth not.
I can pick more on other things OP stated, but I would just say finally that in a relationship, demeaning behaviour is not healthy, and no one should boast if their society encourages jungle-like system of living together by either a man or woman

Rossikk:

We Africans REJECT the jungle-like state of broken families, drugs, gangsterism and teenage pregnancies that have turned large segments of western society into living nightmares.

lindabon:


And yet, African nations sit firmly at the bottom of global development. We tend to forget that the foreigners or "the west" , practised similar systems of oppression, at some point in their history. Today, they are still implementing better ways to best run their societies, and given their progress so far, its safe to assume that these systems are working. What we usually call "westernisation", are rather policies adopted by a group of people, who decided to stop repeating destructive patterns of behaviour over and over again, and instead, to question the status quo. By so doing, through a process of trial and error, they were able to start devising constructive plans that work for the good of all.

With Africa having the poorest nations in the world, it is safe to also assume at this point that whatever systems we have in place do not work, have not worked, and will probably never work. I advise that we try to unlearn certain regressive behaviours, and embrace a more progressive way of growing.

(In Western Societies) A woman cant slap a man and get away with it unless the man himself, felt abase and as a result, he refuses to divulge that information to the police. Abuse is bad when it happens to men as well. But the problem is, "how many men can report their wife for abuse"? Also, if a man claims to date women who will insult him, abuse him and then finally seal it all with a slap, the man needs to question the type of women he seems to be drawn to(This also applies to women).
On the divorce issue, I have seen Nigerian marriages, and yes possibly divorce rate may be lower, but this boils down to the fact that married couples choose to suffer neglect, mental and physical abuse, infidelity, and all worth not.
I can pick more on other things OP stated, but I would just say finally that in a relationship, demeaning behaviour is not healthy, and no one should boast if their society encourages jungle-like system of living together by either a man or woman

londoner:



100% truth. African nations generally remain at the bottom because they are unable to progress mainly due to the inability of people to evaluate and embrace the ability to evolve. It does not have to look like the West but to continue in a retrogressive manner can never move a society forward.

If they had the ability to stand side by side with their male counterparts it would be so bad but when you look at advancements and countries that are performing well in comparison to others the African ones always lag. They like to talk about being men but are unable to actually lead nations and produce meaningful progress.

They like the perks but not the burden of leadership.