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Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:02pm On Apr 03, 2016
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Apr 03, 2016
am here to read comments

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:07pm On Apr 03, 2016
Is dat a form of space booking or smiley

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by thesicilian: 4:15pm On Apr 03, 2016
Pornography is from the devil, & should never be allowed to have a place in any Christian setting - be it the home, office or church. period.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by cruzita(f): 4:18pm On Apr 03, 2016
its evil and nothing good comes out of it

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:32pm On Apr 03, 2016
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Tolexander: 4:33pm On Apr 03, 2016
Pornography should have nothing to do in a "practising" Christian home. The act of performing sex to entertain is a sin.

If any young couple see any naivity in any of the partner's sexual dexterity, let them consult their pastor, provided the pastor won't secretly exercise the sexual act on the female partner for "physical orientation" to the couple. Some of our pastors today, may God save us from them.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:43pm On Apr 03, 2016
Tolexander:
Pornography should have nothing to do in a "practising" Christian home. The act of performing sex to entertain is a sin.

If any young couple see any naivity in any of the partner's sexual dexterity, let them consult their pastor, provided the pastor won't secretly exercise the sexual act on the female partner for "physical orientation" to the couple. Some of our pastors today, may God save us from them.


Now dis is very funny....hehehehehehhehehehehehe...lolzzzzzzzz cheesy grin..u got laughing...but very true smiley

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mackhunter77: 4:44pm On Apr 03, 2016
Pornography provides entertainment to some folks. Even the late Chazz B said there's nothing wrong with it provided the couple agree to use it TOGETHER.
However, pornography is totally ill and shouldn't be entertained in any form because it errodes the mind. If you wanna try something new with your partner(spouse especially) just keep changing body positions or try new rooms available to both of you.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:46pm On Apr 03, 2016
mackhunter77:
Pornography provides entertainment to some folks. Even the late Chazz B said there's nothing wrong with it provided the couple agree to use it TOGETHER.
However, pornography is totally ill and shouldn't be entertained in any form because it errodes the mind. If you wanna try something new with your partner(spouse especially) just keep changing body positions or try new rooms available to both of you.


Hhmmmmm...well said

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:47pm On Apr 03, 2016
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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:49pm On Apr 03, 2016
Am yet to see a contrary view....after all not everybody thinks pornography is bad...so any counter view?

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Abbeyunique2(m): 4:49pm On Apr 03, 2016
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 4:52pm On Apr 03, 2016
Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing.

Mouthgig?? shocked....in a christian marriage?? undecided...let's leave dat one....so wat exactly is Ur view...u think it's not bad??....

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Apr 03, 2016
I would say no...

The bible calls it a sin with regards to looking at another woman that is not your wife lustfully (and same to women).

How can one engage in carnal visually stimulating act and not find self lusting.... Opens the door to all kinds of evil.

Better keep that door shut and focus on your partner only.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by damilareoye: 4:58pm On Apr 03, 2016
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 5:03pm On Apr 03, 2016
damilareoye:

Wats dat stuff on ur head?...like a question mark or sth....or u've got horns?? grin cheesy...

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by thesicilian: 5:07pm On Apr 03, 2016
mimopel:
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?
Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Abbeyunique2(m): 5:08pm On Apr 03, 2016
mimopel:


Mouthgig?? shocked....in a christian marriage?? undecided...let's leave dat one....so wat exactly is Ur view...u think it's not bad??....
It's not bad since they are married, research shows that 70% newly wedded couples injure themselves while trying out new sex position. moreover human being are curious in nature, they like to explore. Mojo gives them starting point. being christian doesn't mean that one shouldn't have fantastic sexlife, are u of the opinion that doggy, 69 etc among christian couples are sin?

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 5:11pm On Apr 03, 2016
Abbeyunique2:

It's not bad since they are married, research shows that 70% newly wedded couples injure themselves while trying out new sex position. moreover human being are curious in nature, they like to explore. Mojo gives them starting point. being christian doesn't mean that one shouldn't have fantastic sexlife, are u of the opinion that doggy, 69 etc among christian couples are sin?

Hhmmmmm.....okkkk...I get ur point, but to the doggy style or 69 or wateva i dont knw...but wateva doggy style is...if it's anal sex I don't support it.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 5:15pm On Apr 03, 2016
thesicilian:

Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?


Mehn..... u jst interpreted my mind "love making" dats the key word..there is so many diff btw sex and love making.....christian. couples are meant to "make love" not pratically hav "sex" u are so on point sir!

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Abbeyunique2(m): 5:18pm On Apr 03, 2016
mimopel:


Hhmmmmm.....okkkk...I get ur point, but to the doggy style or 69 or wateva i dont knw...but wateva doggy style is... if it's anal sex I don't support it .
@the bolded, me too. i don't support anything that has been medically proven that can be injurious

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by lielbree: 5:21pm On Apr 03, 2016
angry
Na which kind of talk be this today Sunday?

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by OlujobaSamuel: 5:22pm On Apr 03, 2016
waiting earnestly for the nay
I don't really think it's right, however, I won't mind reading up on spots that get her to her feet and spots not allowed to be touched. I will always crave to make love to her but not sex her, she is not a machine, neither am I, so I want to carry her along.
most of the acts in porn are drug induced, so I won't want my wife to take drugs to make love with me.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Kommen(m): 5:22pm On Apr 03, 2016
Yes
You can ask your pastor
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by yungpowers(m): 5:23pm On Apr 03, 2016
undecided
You are seriously staring at the unclothedness of others and you're asking if it is bad.
While watching it with your spouse, doesn't your conscience condemn it.
If your conscience doesn't condemn it, then you've been given over to a depraved mind.
Some idiats will tag it sex education.
As long as you are a human being, nobody will teach you how to have s*x_, it's natural.
I can't remember the last time my cock watched pornography to f*ck every hen in my compound.

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by ChappyChase: 5:23pm On Apr 03, 2016
Once you are married anything and everything is permitted as long as there are no third parties involved, since porn involves seen other people neā€¢kedness, my answer is...........................
Hell No!!!!!!

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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by jimmyolasun: 5:23pm On Apr 03, 2016
Ummmh
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Drinkwater(m): 5:23pm On Apr 03, 2016
yea if Pornography is sex education
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by mimopel(f): 5:24pm On Apr 03, 2016
Abbeyunique2:

@the bolded, me too. i don't support anything that has been medically proven that can be injurious

Great so we are on the same page then. But different ant mojo maybe more views can change ur mindset
Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 03, 2016
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Re: Is Pornography Ideal In Christian Marriages?? by dallyemmy: 5:25pm On Apr 03, 2016
Do Not Contaminate Your Soul!
Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life!

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