1. Bride price - kinda like buying a spouse.

2. When you get a public position, churches, communities, schools etc start inviting you for functions and expect donations - even when they know you really cannot afford it.

3. You are not allowed to disagree or argue with your elder / lecturer even when you both know the elder is wrong.

4. You must honor a party invitation and pay for the 'uniform' or else you'll have a lifetime enemy.

5. You cannot call out a family member who is doing wrong - you'll be called a bastard.

6. When visiting, you have to take gifts to your hosts even if you cannot afford it - or you will be called stingy

7. When you are the host, you have to give a parting gift (mostly cash) to your visitor - or you will be called stingy.

8. Spraying at parties.

9. You cannot rejoice publicly for a well deserved accomplishment - some people will hate you for it.

10. The man must be the breadwinner. When people / family members realise the wife makes more money, rumors start flying.

11. The husband does not have to help in cleaning the house or cooking.

12. A woman has to suspend her life for 40days or more when she loses her husband.

13. You cannot go home until after your boss has left work - it's not like you are getting paid for the overtime. BANKS!

14. You have to eat some wacky nasty after child birth - oro ile.

15. You cannot complain about an uncompleted project because it is been handled by someone who once helped your grandfather. - I'm sure this is some of what our president is going through.

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In my opinion, these are some of the things that breed corruption and fraud.

Just a thought. Hopefully things are getting better.

Which culture is this one?

16. The wife must obey the husband at all times even if he's being an asshole and
he really needs to be told to f**k off.

what the hell is wrong with being sprayed with money

LMFAO!!! Spraying of money is probably the only thing I like about my culture. How can you not like that?

@poster

You can continue hating your culture but you can't run away from it, It's still waiting to take its course on you.

mama-g:

@poster

You can continue hating your culture but you can't run away from it, It's still waiting to take its course on you.

I do not hate my culture. I simply listed some of the ways the culture encourages corruption and fraud in my own opinion.

You dont have to agree with them - that's why it is being posted on the public forum.

kokoye:

I do not hate my culture. I simply listed some of the ways the culture encourages corruption and fraud in my own opinion.

You dont have to agree with them - that's why it is being posted on the public forum.

fine then.