Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

ITS SIMPLE AS ABC. ITS A MAN'S WORLD AND U GOT TO DEAL WITH IT.

There is a website where u ought to ask all these questions...


We have the likes of Google, Ask, yahooanswers, and Ehen.. my favorite one, Quora.com

Suigeneris93:
still thinking will get back to you

d babe sef.. she neva see anything.

Cutehector:
There is a website where u ought to ask all these questions...


We have the likes of Google, Ask, yahooanswers, and Ehen.. my favorite one, Quora.com

LMAO

My sister oh
You just said some real truth

Op honey, i love u baby.

Moment of truth

ZeeAfrica:
Op honey, i love u baby.

Me too

The funny thing is dat it is u, d women who r champion of d double standards! For d men, it is Live and Let Live

ZeeAfrica:
Op honey, i love u baby.

LESBOBO ACTIVATED. 25years imprisonment.

i'll be here dear...waiting for your contribution

Suigeneris93:
still thinking will get back to you

Its a mans world sweetheart... sorry about that... but some of the things you mentioned are not what real men do.

Cuz thats d way it is *singing* thats the way it is.....

it's a man's world! X3 but it's nothing without women *in james Brown's voice*or for some guys; puna.
Don't forget you females also have double standards/advantages in some other areas than the males.

mimzy:



Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:

[b]1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

You want the truth? Ok, A man's sexual arousal is like a light bulb; swift and in a flash of an instance.

A woman's sexual impulses are like a volume knob, slow and gradual. Bottom line, women are more premeditated when cheating and carry out a lot of detailed planning.

Men will just want to nail an ass that breezes by with the instant arousal of his nature, women are more likely to plan and fine-tune their mission before execution.

Women's cheating isn't always a one-off mistake!

mimzy:


2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

Every man should be comfortable with domestic chores.

mimzy:



3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?

I don't think the average man shames a woman for her sexual narration with her "guy" except she is silly enough to recount details of escapades of lots of body counts.

But men should brag just a bit
we do the wooing, take the risks, plot the map, stand the fear of rejection, we should rejoice with a little chest thumping!

mimzy:


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

Are you talking about feminism?

mimzy:


5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? [/b]

What kind of a man would generalise women in such derogatory term except the ones who act like bïtches?

mimzy:




Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

All rules have exceptions, baby.


Women seem to know all the rules and few men learn the exceptions!!!

SAINTSAMURAI:
LESBOBO ACTIVATED. 25years imprisonment.

hehehhe so u never love someone u share yo gender wit?

Nobody is asking you ladies to provide anything financial.

Just give the man peace at home when he wants it and cook his food.

Not everytime, you are either on intagram or watching telemundo.

Anyway, i still blame buarri.

thanks darl. i'm waiting especially for the contribution of reasonable guys and ladies alike

onstelly:
My sister oh
You just said some really truth

. Why not blame it on G.E.J

100Cents:
The way i am sewinh yhis thinh, nah buarri cauae am.

I've been tryna think of an answer to that number 5...

But not everyman do these things tho.... I'm guilty of some, I won't lie, I am. But women drag men to the mud too. So in all sense of fairness, we'll all guilty in one way or another!

I know you love me. I love YOUTUBE

ZeeAfrica:
Op honey, i love u baby.

Reading...

ZeeAfrica:


hehehhe so u never love someone u share yo gender wit?

yeah its different but urs was @op honey i love u. chai got to call the police.

HMMMM... care to expatiate ?

oseiwe:
The funny thing is dat it is u, d women who r champion of d double standards! For d men, it is Live and Let Live

100Cents:
Nobody is asking you ladies to provide anything financial.

Just give the man sex when he wants it and cook his food.

Not everytime, you are either or intagram or watching telemundo.

Anyway, i blame buarri.

i think it high time you guys stop seeing ladies as sex object please!

dollyjoy:
i think it high time you guys stop seeing ladies as sex object please!

Pardon me.

Is it the man who only enjoys it ?

Wait, if you are married and give your husband a sex time table like its a once in a month thing and you want him to be loyal ?

Abi, you want him to dey chop mama put outside while you travel around like buhari with your friends.

Some other points she raised are childish, like calling women hoes and bitches or men bragging about their female body count..

Lol... Lalasticlala and mynd44 come oo, our voice has to be heard biko

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

if you ask me, na who i go ask

[b]1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally? Because we are men. We have balls, you don't

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores? Because women are the helper not men

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?
Cuz the more you rabazamba, the bigger your puna gets. Who wants to marry a woman with an altantic ocean puna


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women? Because this is nairaland

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same? [/b]
Ermmm...you won't want anyone to insult your relatives..would you

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

Why not?