I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.

Get d work ist.



N y did u mention ur real name here?

How life can be sometimes make i just stop

You can never have another father, forget that he didn't sponsor you through the university. Thank God that you have conquered, because it is not by your might. forgive your dad and move on with your life. Remember that you have benefited and will still benefit from your father, if you doubt ask orphans what they are passing through

if i tell u not to forgive him...u will say am wicked

if i tell u to forgive him...u will say o dont know wat u passed tru


guy if u like forgive..if u like dont

cos it wont stop.fuel scarcity

SUPOL:
Get d work ist.



N y did u mention ur real name here?

well, it's not me sha. but the corper who puts on both NYSC crested vest and the jacket is my friend who encountered such from his father.

he is presently searching for job

makasimatics:


well, it's not me sha. but the corper who puts on both NYSC crested vest and the jacket is my friend who encountered such from his father.

he is presently searching for job

Some fathers are like that, they don't like taking responsibilities. He has to forgive his ignorance n move on. Better days ahead.

Well, you have every reason to be mad but remember, God gave you this success. He gave you dis ability cause He knows you can survive without your dad.

Just give him all the respect due to him and acknowledge him as your dad for your own good....holding such a serious beef will hinder your prayers & success to an extent. Don't let him hold you in captivity, he's not worth it so please let it go.

My guy you are lucky he trained you up to secondary school level. the last school fees my dad paid for me was in primary 2, that was the last time i spent like a solid 1 week with him too.

now he brags about me and all.

holding grudges against him is holding yourself down. forgive him, you need to forgive him more than he needs to be forgiven.

All the best.

umehmj:
My guy you are lucky he trained you up to secondary school level. the last school fees my dad paid for me was in primary 2, that was the last time i spent like a solid 1 week with him too.

now he brags about me and all.

holding grudges against him is holding yourself down. forgive him, you need to forgive him more than he needs to be forgiven.

All the best.

Wow! You're a star


Impressive

ammyluv2002:
Well, you have every reason to be mad but remember, God gave you this success. He gave you dis ability cause He knows you can survive without your dad.

Just give him all the respect due to him and acknowledge him as your dad for your own good....holding such a serious beef will hinder your prayers & success to an extent. Don't let him hold you in captivity, he's not worth it so please let it go.

well written. I love that. but could u believe that this man in question, sometimes when we both quarrel, would go to his shrine and say some negative things against me so that his so-called god (aro bi nagu) would attack my future.

But I believe in the main God and for this reason,he is harmless.

Aro bina agu ,you are truly from Ogbunike.


Just stay out of his way and face your life. You can't trust him, be wary of this father of yours. Keep your distance and don't disrespect him, most things you see in home movies are for real.

Forgive him, but do not forget. Whatever you do for him, must be limited, else he'll take it for granted.
Remove your names from your post... This is a public forum.

Forgive him, he is still you father
Don't get it all wrong, I understand exactly how you are feeling but just forgive

Uchan4u:
You can never have another father, forget that he didn't sponsor you through the university. Thank God that you have conquered, because it is not by your might. forgive your dad and move on with your life. Remember that you have benefited and will still benefit from your father, if you doubt ask orphans what they are passing through

what's the difference between him and orphans

Started with unnecessary sentiments

efemenaslectura:
what's the difference between him and orphans

Started with unnecessary sentiments

Remember this is Africa don't underestimate the role of a father. Sponsoring him through school is just one of them but not all. He needs his father even more now than before

Haba

Don't forgive him, you hear!


Anyways...

Chai


B a man

N forget d past

Forgive him

yes, because where yu ar is not by ur power

SUPOL:
Get d work ist.



N y did u mention ur real name here?

He wouldn't no the effects of his real identity been exposed on a public forum like this till when the chips are down!

Its not good to violate ones privacy in the quest of NL FP for it could backfire!

To the point, my going one, his still your father and there are instances that you can't deny him that especially in the heritage of ancestral lands and belongings since you are an African like me!

SUPOL:
Get d work ist.



N y did u mention ur real name here?

He wouldn't no the effects of his real identity been exposed on a public forum like this till when the chips are down!

Its not good to violate ones privacy in the quest of NL FP for it could backfire!

To the point, my growing one, his still your father and there are instances that you can't deny him that especially in the heritage of ancestral lands and belongings since you are an African like me!

After all, he is your father

don't ever forgive that man. if tomorrow I hear that u have forgiven him, u are in soup. u hear

SUPOL:
Get d work ist.



N y did u mention ur real name here?

Did u just ask y he mentioned his name? U no see his NYSC picture ni?